Preconceived ideas are funny!
By estherlou
@estherlou (5015)
United States
May 6, 2007 4:13pm CST
I was talking to my truck-driving son today. His route was taking him up into New York State. He was driving in the west part of the state and was in lovely green rolling hills, picturesque farms and lots of little towns. I realized I had always lumped "New York City" with "New York" and thought of large, cosmopolitan cultural centers with lots of people, tall buildings and subways. How funny and how silly of me! But, I've heard that people think I should own cattle and have an oil pump in my back yard since I live in Texas! I wish!
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@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
6 May 07
lol, yes it is funny. So often people think that in Canada we all live in igloos and watch hockey..lol.and how in the world would that be posible, do people who live in igloos have electricity and cable..lol.too funny.
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@hachimitsu (873)
• United States
6 May 07
Stereotypes are signs of ignorance, but we probably all unintentionally have them stored somewhere in our mindsets.
Although I admit, I live in New York City myself, and I have long had the preconceived notion that all Texans are Southern-accented cowboys living amongst Tornadoes and going to the rodeo every week. Part of the blame goes to my sister; when she went to business meetings in Texas, she told me stories about how the businessmen there wore cowboy boots and cowboy hats with their suits -__-;
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
7 May 07
It is interesting how we have these pre-conceived ideas of what a certain place should look like. I have to admit though that I did know that New York and New York State were 2 different things but that is only because we know some people who live in NEw York State and our son visited them last year.
However, it is very much like Australia, where people seem to think that we all live near the beach or else in the dry outback. There are lots of places in between of course, just as there are in many countries but somehow this mis-conception seems to stick. Also people think that we have this huge land mass and a small population, which is true, but that doesn't mean we can increase the population at will.
Put simply, there is a big land mass in the middle of Australia which is not good for much at all. There is no water, or so little that it doesn't matter, no development, no work and so on plus it is extremely hot there too. It is not a place where a lot of people want to live really, and who can blame them. That means that any more people who choose to live in Australia are joining the millions who live in the already overcrowded cities or coastal towns.
Oh, I am sure that you do wish you had a oil well and a large herd of cattle estherlou. Wouldn't it be just very nice for you to be able to live like that.
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
7 May 07
Okay...what came to mind when you posted this was...this is where the aborigines live...LOL...am I right? or is that another wrong idea?
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@sherrir101 (3670)
• Malinta, Ohio
7 May 07
I always though that New York meant "big" city life and fast moving traffic. UNTIL I went to Ithaca, New York a few years back. We went for a college graduation. The countryside was beautiful! The waterfalls, hills, and greenery were breathtaking. Of course I found that in Texas also, when I lived in Houston a good 25 years back. They have everything in Texas! What a wonderful state. Forests, lakes, desert, mountains, the Gulf of Mexico... the varieties are outstanding!
@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
7 May 07
Well I guess you son was in my neck of the woods! That's where I live in upsate (but in the east side) NY and it's way out in the boondocks! LOL! It is beautiful though and I don't think I would trade where I live for anything. Yes alot of people do associate NY with the big apple.
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@mari123 (1861)
• China
7 May 07
yes,when you don,t visit a place before you will think it have a beautify landscape,but you are disappointment what you see when you go to there,the same as your hometown with lots of peole,and the environment also pollution.in my childhood i hadn't even goen to a big city,in my mind,the big city has so large with more people and tall building,but now i was living in big city,everything has the same way.
@Trace86 (5030)
• United States
7 May 07
I think everyone does it. You use what you are familiar with as a frame of reference. When you hear California, you think Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Disney Land. Alaska you think of ice. Florida makes you think of Gators, the other Disney and retirees.
All of Illinois is windy like Chicago, right?
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
6 May 07
Excellent subject. I was amazed when I first went to NY state. Sure, the was NYC and all the concrete and steel, but upstate NY was heavenly. I have found this to be true with many areas of the country. You form a general idea based on what you have heard or seen and then come to the realization that your notions are based on false ideas.
Yes, as far as Texas goes, cattle and oil wells and mesquite trees are everywhere...they are Texas. And although I haven't been there yet, I know that idea is not true. It is very true that in many areas of life, preconceived thoughts keep us from taking risks and discovering new people, places and ideas.
So, are you hiring any city cowboys for your next cattle drive?...lol.
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@estherlou (5015)
• United States
6 May 07
Texas has 268,601 sq. miles. There is the Big Bend Country full of deserts and prairies and mountains. The Hill country in the geological center of Texas goes from hilly to flat country with rivers, parks, lakes and vineyards. The Gulf coast hast 624 miles of coastline with peninsulas, islands and beaches. The Panhandle plains (that's where I am) is mostly totally flat land but has glorious sunsets, rivers, and canyons and scenic lakes. The Piney Woods or East Texas is full of lakes and roses, dogwoods and azaleas. The Region south of the Red River has praries and farmlands and 50 lakes and resevoirs and the Texas Motor Speedway for Nascar fans. The South Texas Plains goes from the Rio Grande Valley to San Antonio, and is where Texas meets Mexico in language, customs and cuisine. Golf, birdwatching, The Alamo and San Antonio's the River Walk. Wow! More things to see than I can write down here!
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@lloydanthony111 (4698)
• United States
6 May 07
We have the same problem here in New Jersey. People associate us with the Mafia because of the Sopranos.
Sometimes we are look at as the dirty little state next to New York.
Here are some facts about New Jersey that many people aren't aware of.
New Jersey has a diverse landscape that offers an ecosystem of breathtaking beauty.
The spectacular 70,000-acre Delaware Water Gap National Recreation Area beckons you to enjoy the 40 miles of Delaware River landscape, waterfalls, rugged mountain scenery and unlimited outdoor activities.
You can explore over one million acres of farms, forests and wetlands as you canoe, kayak and swim in New Jersey’s Pinelands, the country’s first National Reserve.
I wonder how many people in New Jersey even know about these facts.
Lloyd
@lloydanthony111 (4698)
• United States
26 Jul 07
There are more cases of Lymes desease in our western states than in New Jersey. If that's the only fault you can find with our great state, then we aren't doing too bad.
What perfect state are you from?
Lloyd
@maildumpster (3815)
• United States
7 May 07
I live in New Jersey and even so I sometimes forget about NY state. I usually mean NY City if I say NY. If I want to talk about the state I will say upstate NY.
That's kinda funny of me to differentiate like that.
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@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
6 May 07
Or a ranch & a thousand head of cattle. Don't you know we still ride horses, have cattle drives & fight "Indians" (not from India of course) & "Mexicans." That the Alamo is out in the middle of nowhere (not downtown San Antonio.) We all wear ten gallon hats & cowboy boots with spurs!
At best we all drive pickups, but everything else is still the same.
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@Modestah (11177)
• United States
7 May 07
thank you for posting this... NYS is my homestate - it is the second leading dairy state in this great nation and very much agricultural. I lived in the central leatherstocking region (although I was born in the southern tier, a lot closer to the City) also known as the Mohawk Valley - foothill to the Adirondack Mtn Range. The most aesthetic, lush, beautiful sceneries - rolling hills and farms.
Much of my family were/are farmers. Dairy farms mostly.
I miss NY.
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@estherlou (5015)
• United States
7 May 07
Now see...I never knew that there were dairy farms there! This is probably part of where my son was driving through. He said it was lots of farms and hills and quite beautiful.
@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
7 May 07
You mean "New York City" and "New York" are two differnet things? I don't know either so you are not alone :P
I don't think there is anything wrong with innocent preconceived ideas. It makes life more fun. However, if ideas are preconceived for the wrong reasons, it is not funny. It is intentional malice.
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@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
7 May 07
I think Ireland suffers that fate as well. People have their notions,a nd then there is the real Ireland. I think people can even go home with their notions intact, especially if they stick to the sort of circuit tourists are herded through across the country. It's funny, and at the same time a bit sad, to watch it happen all summer long.
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@brendalee (6082)
• United States
8 May 07
I think most people think I am from the city when I say I am from New York. I have lived here all my life, almost 43 years and I have never even been close to NYC. I do want to go there someday but I am worried about all the traffic. I come from a very small town with lots of farmland. Its nothing like people think.But I will admit, when I think of Texas, I think of cows and oil fields.lol. In case you get bored, I am including a link that will take you to some pictures from around my kneck of the woods. On the left side there are links to other pictures from previuos months.
http://www.fingerlakes1.com/photos.php
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@tammyr (5945)
• Etowah, Tennessee
25 Jul 07
The first time i went to my friends home town in Arcade/Delavin I was amazed at how country and hilly it was. I had no idea what the upstate areas held! We went to Ledgeworth park and saw so many beautiful scenery.
I hold no preconcieved notions about areas of the US. I only know what I have seen. Texas DOES have more cowboys that a lot of other places, and you will most likely see a few cowboy hats and boots, but the people there are as diverse as any where else!
Here in Tennessee, we DO NOT all live in shanties in the woods, we don't all marry our first cousins and we don't all have hound dogs sleeping on the porch!LOL
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
7 May 07
LOL before I moved to Texas I pictured everyone in big cowboy hats - I found way more baseball caps than cowboy hats... I think I picture New York state the same as you even though I know there is more to the state than the city...
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
7 May 07
I live in Amarillo which has about 200,000 people. I'm a city girl, but you will see cowboy hats and boots. My boss and her husband live a little out of the city limits and own some horses and a few head of cattle! We have a cattle auction here in town and lots of people rodeo and compete. It's like two different perspectives here.
@creematee (2810)
• United States
25 Jul 07
You are so right! I remember when I was younger, my mom was asked if we were still fighting the Indians. What?? We live on a farm in IOWA... No where near a reservation. Why would WE be fighting them anyway? That ended years ago, didn't it? LOL!
Why don't you have a oil rig in the middle of your cattle yard? I grow potatoes in my corn field. HA HA HA!!





















