Who is your favourite... Mom or Dad???
10 Aug 07
Hi Dear, Basically it is quite natural, I feel You can get answer if you think in their view. lets consider Role of Dad,he has to become hard as he has lots of responsibilities..So he need to be Hard.. In case of Mother She needs to behave soft as she has to handle/cope up with the situations..So she appears like Soft...This is the General Behaviour of Mother and Father. But now dad behaves softly with Daughter as he knows that she will get marry one day I will miss her...The same way Mother thinks but she also understands Fact that our Daughter have to take responsibilities there and lots of things need to be done their..So to Achive all that She need to get Hard else daughter may get lazy..and so.. So bottom line of the discussion is Hard Behaviour is not hate..It is love in case of Parents...
10 Aug 07
Hi Saurabh! I agree with your view and also gave you a best response because I felt that you have hit a point which is very relevant and nobodyelse mentioned. But the actual quesion is.. Who is your favourite.. Mom or Dad... I already know it would be Mom for you.. Thanks for responding.
11 Aug 07
For sure it has to be my MOM. :) I love my mom so much. She's been the biggest spark in my life so far, ever since giving birth and then helping me grow into a good human being (I'm still trying u know...lol) All the good habits , mannerisms that I've learned have been through her lessons on morality. I am really proud of my mother. She's the best thing God's gifted to me along with my GF and my pet ;) THANK YOU GOD! :) *tears of joy* :((
21 May 07
Hi niang03! I am attached to my Dad too. LOng back when i was still a child i remember saying that when i become big i want to marry my Dad. When i indeed became big i was looking for such a person with qualities of my Dad,lol.
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14 May 07
My parents got divorced when I was 2...so I grew up with my mother....when I was 16 I went to live with my father....now Mom lives with me due to health problems...and Dad may end up with me as well, due to his declining health...I guess, I have been favored by both of them at differing times in my life.... I have never really been jealous of my siblings but hae seen some jealousy between my own children at times...I try not to show any favortism...but each of my children have needed "special" help from time to time and I always try to be there for them when they need that.
14 May 07
Hi tinamwhite! I am sorry to know that you had a difficult life. We all learn from our misakes and rectify them. Even i had taken a decision that i would never show favourtism to my children. Thanks for expressing your views here.