Have my friend left me

@tambdy (1969)
May 13, 2007 8:00am CST
I used to get 80 to 90 responses to each discussion on mylot but now i only get 2-3. I dont feel my topics are of no interest and also i know i have started spending less time online and finding it harder to reply due to internet access but i was wondering what is happening to all my friend.
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@lucy67 (819)
• China
13 May 07
is it because there are more discussions for us to respond, so we can get fewer responses for each discussion. and i think it also has something to do with the discussion itself. if it can arouse interest from more people, it can get more responses.
@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
Yes, alot of the discussions people were posting a while back were fantasy stuff and always got alot of responses. Crazy.+
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@rsa101 (24135)
• Philippines
13 May 07
I never got that much responses either. So I got used to having a small number of responses. Well I think since you have had a hard time being logged in and you have lesser posts you made there are chances that your post got easily covered by others who is posting also. When I joined here the membership was quite a few thousands and now it has grown into a very huge group so no wonder post coming in here is huge and responses would really decrease.
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@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
yeah, i guess you are right the earnings have went down alot aswell since the community has gotten bigger that is one reason i spend less time on mylot.
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• Singapore
13 May 07
Wow, it's amazing to get 80 to 90 responses to each discussion on mylot. I've never gotten that much from my discussions. Please do not feel sad. There are many mylotters and all of them are free to respond to your discussions at any one time even if they are not added to your list of friends. So please cheer up. :)
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@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
Yeah, mylot used to be a small tite community but there has been alot of changes and alot of big posters not online any more.
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• New Zealand
13 May 07
I think it's been happening alot lately. I'm not sure why, but I to have noticed a decline in not just my own but other peoples. I ahve noticed alot of discussions deleted as well, I wonder if mylot are deleting responses as well.
@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
I did not know that mylot were deleting alot of discussions, i will need to look out for this. Thanks for the reply +
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@GardenGerty (116480)
• United States
13 May 07
This is the first notice I have had of a discussion you have started in awhile. I have been awful busy, but if I had seen a discussion from you, I would respond. I will go check your discussions later today, and see what I have missed, or if I can contribute.
@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
Hi gerty i notice you and also old buddy did not reply to my discussions in a while, and yes i have been on less online lately but that will all be resolved soon, I will get in soon to reply to your topics as well have a nice day.
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@munhozmib (3850)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
13 May 07
Well, I feel sorry for your situation. Actually, I never though you'd earn more replies if you had more friends. But if you're saying so, then I already discovered the reason of why don't I get many replies. Maybe your friends are just getting bored of MyLot. I can't tell you exactly what's happening with them. Send them a message, and you'll find out. Good luck.
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@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
Thanks for the reply. +
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@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
13 May 07
I wonder if it has anything to do with the improvement in the weather and more people are simply outside? Or if it is that it's just harder to find your discussions? I have accepted too many people onto my friends list and some of them start a lot of discussions that I have no interest in, which makes it harder to find ones that I do have an interest in. Thanks for the reminder because I think it is time to do some spring cleaning among the people who asked to be my friend and like to have me respond to their discussions but can't be bothered to respond to mine.
@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
It could be i wish there was an improvement in my weather, hehe +
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@suspenseful (40314)
• Canada
13 May 07
I do not reply as much as I'd like to, and because myLot only pays once a month (if you make over $10 a month) you cannot see the money until then. Also we cannot be at the computer all the time --some are on dial up, and some are busy with other things (yes eating, sleeping, housework,) and doing other ways of making money. Now if I could make about $100 a month on mylot, I would concentrate on this, but I am not that brilliant.
@tambdy (1969)
13 May 07
Well my friend i know people who used to make $100 a month on here easy, but things have changed now and it is harder to make good money on mylot.
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@jamie11982 (1658)
• United States
16 May 07
It's hard for me to get online as well. I have dail up connection and i can't spend to much time online for fear of missing any phone calls. I can only get on line befor 8am and late at night. From 8am to about 9pm i don't get online because of this. I'm still here though and am going through the discussions now. Maybe i'll find more of yours. I have this problem as well where i'm not getting to many responses so please don't feel bad about it. We do still care.