Ever been Un-happily In love?

yep,, i experienced the same thing marie. i was 17 at that time and he was 22. he was a foreigner studying arts in our school. we were really closed. he would tell me things about his family. things that i think he never told any of his girlfriends. yes, girlfriends with letter S. he was a playboy/womanizer. but didn't stop me from falling in love with him. thrice a week or more, he would join eating lunch with me and with my friends. and everytime he would talk, he will look at me and ask me something just so that i will talk. i have this bad habit that when i really like somebody, i cannot talk infront of that person eventhough i am very talkativ e with that person is around. anyways, he would onstantly tease me infront of people and there was a time that he drew me (he's a very talented artist) in the middle of our philiosphy discuccion. this really bothered me but deep inside i was really pleased. i suppressed whatever feelings i have towards him coz he has a girlfriend at that time. i become so snobbish that after a while he was irritated with it and not pay any attention with me. after a year, he graduated and i never saw him again. his friends would tell me thats its better that we didnt have any relationship coz they dont wanna see me hurt. honestly marie, am still in love with him. maybe that's the reason why i don't have any relationship with other guys until now.

But, Marie, is it too late to do anything about it? Where is he now? And "why close the gate,before he has a chance to enter your life?" It's never too late! You have to make things happen, not wait until they happen!

Well Marie, I can understand everything you say because me too I'm very shy. And yet you were very young, so it isn't easy, for young teenagers, to tell the person we love that we have a crush on him/her. I think that it is very difficult to find a person who has never been unhappy in love. Everybody, soon or later, experiences this kind of situation, everybody has been unhappy in love at least a time in his/her life. It's normal and it's important, because such experiences help us to grow up.

Ah yeah this is a great disscussion about 6 years ago... i was bout 14/15 there was this one girl that i used to always flirt with and she would flirt back and we used to have a tonne of fun we were best buddies, but one day i did try to ask her out but she plainly said sorry i think it would mess up our friendship :( i was a bit depressed but luckily we are still best buddies :D

It took me 20 years before I ever had my first boyfriend. I used to have a huge crush on our neighbor. His father is my eldest brother's godfather. He was so good looking, quiet and conservative. I have heard that he never had a girlfriend before. Years passed and I heard that he already graduated. I always pass by their house just to see a glimpse of him. Only to realize that after he graduated, he vowed to celibacy and planned of becoming a priest. I was both happy and unhappy. I knew I'll never have a chance on him which made me unhappy, but happy in a way that no one will ever have a chance on him but GOD *wink*.

i`m kinda un-happily in love. i have a relationship for 1 year and 4 mounth. but in the last 7 mounts we stay more separated. it`s 300km (200 miles) beetwen us. and we both are in college and don`t have much time to see each-other. the thing is that i never cheeted her, till yesterday at a party. now, what should i do? is the distance to big? should i just forget her or what?

Hi marie, I can't called mine "unhappily in love" but rather crushes or puppy love. I had my first crush when I was 12 and I thought I was in love. I had my second crush when I turned 18, and again, I thought I was in love. Now more wiser and mature, looking back, I can only laugh at all the crazy thoughts I have before.

When I was 12 I met an 18 year old guy at church. I really liked him and had a crush on him. He was nice to me and we became friends. By the time I was 16 I was so in love with this guy that it physically hurt me when I thought about him dating other people. He wasn't interested in me, he was 22 by that time. I would tell myself that when I was 18 our age differnce wouldnt matter, we were still really good friends. On my 18th birthday I went to church and he was there. He introduced me to his current girlfriend who went to my high school and was 17. I was crushed. He later married her and they have been married almost 15 years now. I think maybe he would never have looked at me as anything other than a friend. When we met I as just a little girl and I think maybe he always saw me as that little girl who needed a friend when we met. He met his wife when she was 16 so he never saw her as a child. It would never have worked out anyways. We wanted different things.

When i meet my first boyfriend of three years, at first were so much happy and were almost together everyday.For me it was a perfect relationship but as time goes by i felt dry towards him coz ive felt that hes not really inlove with me.Until such time weve got to separate ways coz were not happy anymore.

When I was in my teens I was in an abusive relationship. When he was angry, I became his punching bang. I knew there was no future yet I stayed for a year. I knew I needed to get out of that relationship and find real love, but it took myself a long time to get the courage to leave.

Right now, I'm unhappy about love. I love this girl very very very much, but she said she doesn't love me. I told her I love her in front of everyone. Anyway, she probably thinks I'm a jerk. As she said to a friend of hers: "Eduardo (me) is just a guy from my school". I though we were friends... The hardest part is to hear that kind of stuff. Just a guy from school? Come on, I am her friend! It's a shame she doesn't think I'm her friend.

No, I don't remember to be unhappy in love becouse, if you are in love don't have a way to be unhappy becouse is better love and lose of never been in love. I in love with my boyfriend and we are very happy, before here I just been reject one time wen I declarete me and one with have a boyfriend with 9 months he broak up, I really sad in this time but lokk today for there pecople that reject me I saw that they wrere very important for me have in my side or not,, this people made be a stronger person and see that all the times I can go on and never look back and is becouse of this people that todar I am the more happy woman in the world in side of my boyfriend, my love, the love of my life, mu future husband and the person I going to live for the rest of my life.