I think I will stick to the easy guys from now on!!

Excuse me princess?? You already have kids! Shouldn't you reserve these for singles like me?

Well Snow I am not going to say when the time is right he will turn up Yes I have now found the right one and yes he is with me to and I have never been treated this well We do not live together but he phones me every Day even on the Days he comes to see me He is very Busy so he can't come every Day but thats ok I know he is there I do hope that you will soon find yours Hugs to you

Mssnow, do you know how desperate you sound? You could be asking for trouble! Think of all the weirdos on here! Look, i see one now! LOL! I've checked your age, so don't you think you should wait until your at least in junior high? LOL! I'm sorry, i'm laughing with you, not at you! It's too bad you haven't found him yet, but something about you tells me you will! For now invest in a fluffy pillow for the hugs you deserve! Take care Snow!

you have to look for the right one, just because you like a guy doesn't mean he is right just because he is good looking doesn't mean he is right just because he has money doesn't mean he is right. if you want a man that is good to you you have watch his behaviour, when you see he is not good to you, even before you date, then don't date, you can love somebody but that doesn't mean he is right. You have to know what you want and go out and get it, the trouble with most people is that they settle for someone who doesn't meet their expectations and then they are unhappy.

I have always thought that love hurts and love stinks. :) I have dated so many guys and wanted to marry me but I turned them down because I felt they wasn't for me and I wasn't happy so one day I broke up this guy on Valentine's Day that's right on Valentine's Day and then all of sudden I met my hubby that night oh he almost look like Tom Selleck ! We talked for hours and I decide to go out with him and we dated for 6 months and got married in August 1982 and we are still together as of now he don't look like Tom Selleck because he got older LOL A lot of people wanted to know how I met him on Valentine's Day oh well that's my secret lol You will find someone but I know it takes time and I want you to be happy.

Aww sweet snow! I am not going to say that you will find mr right when the time is right! What I would say is that I know I found my mr right when I stopped looking as did many of my friends! My advice would be to have fun and make friends, forget about romance and you never know what might happen! xxx

I guess I'm one of the 'lucky' ones. I found my soulmate early in life. By the sound of what you say, you're not making the usual mistake of holding out for 'Mr Perfect' or setting un-attainable standards. In the same respect, don't lower your standards too much! It's the same old cliche, but he'll come along eventually. So hey, since you're in the market, why not enjoy sampling the range of products available?!

I haven't met the right one either. I still think I will, but don't worry too much about it. I have been married twice, so at least I feel I made some progress...lol. It has been so long since I have had a relationship, I hardly know what a woman wants anymore. I will never give up on love or finding someone I can be compatible with. It is funny, when I look at some of the dating sites, it seems that the women are all looking for the same one guy...Mr. Perfect. I guess it is probably that way with the guys too. Not for me, I want someone who shares my values and is willing to go for the gusto and take some risks. It is appalling to me how so many guys, that treat a woman like dirt, always seem to have one around. Us decent folk can't attract many women because we seem to be missing something. I just can't figure it out. Any ideas from a woman's point of view?

Well, you know, you should never be willing to just settle for the first guy that meets your criteria. That guy your meant to be with is out there and you two will find each other eventually. All it takes is time and patients. And you just go ahead and rant all you want and we'll be here for you, okay? Take care, Terry:)

Hello,mssnow,when people are in love,they will think they have already found their Mr and Mrs right because love is blind,even you know something may be wrong,you will try to tell yourself everything is fine. When i was dating with my ex boyfriend at the beginning,I thought i was a very lucky girl as i could meet a 'prince' like him,I think he would be my Mr right.But things turned oyt badly and i was cheated.Love stinks sometimes as we would never know what happen next.

well.. tts sounds simple, yet is the toughest job to get... i mean i am looking for someone who looks me whole heartedly as well... but who can be so selfless and loves totally... i haven found mine though... good luck to u...

I sorry mssnow,i do not quite understand the meaning of waht you said? Do you meaning you will easy fall in love somebody now? No matter what happens,I will support you. Good luck!Have a hugs.

when you find him, please let him have a brother who is the same, and then send him to me lol. I know how you feel, i thought id found mr right 5 years ago and we were together for 4 years but in the end he left me. Still dont really know why, we got on so well, never argued and have stayed friends, but that was the closest i got to thinking id met the right one. Dont get me wrong, im happy on my own, but every now and again i would just like there to be someone to share things with etc. Most of the time tho, I think im better off with just my cat!

I like ranting and blubbering too. It is fun and therapeutic. I think you mught get bored very easy if you had someone that gave in to everything you wanted. You need challenge and diversity and soemtimes even hang ups. It keeps it interesting. And if you don't find the losers in life, how will know when you find the winner? You need soemthing to compare it too right? If you want something in life nobody is going to just hand it to you. Yiu have to go get it. I don't believe in waiting for Mr or Mrs Right. If we all did that nobody would meet anybody. And nobody ever finds the person they are meant to be with on their own. It has to be a mutual decision made together. But you will never know unless you keep getting out there. Keep weeding through the Mr. RightNow's so eventually the Mr Right will be there.

In my opinion (coming from a guy) there's no such thing a soul mate or meant to be together, that's all fairly tale. People stay together for different varies reason. For example, like financial motivations, to up their status quo per se. To me love grows, its patience’s, and its something later down the lines when both of you are miserable ? You see, in the beginning it lust, appearances, and sweet little lies which leads us in a dissolution state til a few months into the relationship you say things like “ your not the person I taught you were”. Really? Well if I told you the truth in the beginning would you have stayed? I’m in the same boat you are in. I’ve had several fail relationship and communication with women is not my strong point. I felt like I’m cursed. The real reason is not that I’m cursed but that I needed to explore more avenues, rather than putting all my eggs in one basket. I’ve kept hearing the same thing with family and friends, “oh don’t worry, there is someone out there for you”. In reality that person never comes. I think you make the best of what you have. Order you going to get motivated to make this relationship work or it not going to happen. In some way I think we were taught wrong when we were little kids of finding the right person. Our parents grew up in a different era where there were fewer distractions, and being in a relationship was high on the list of fun things to do for them. Both of my parents told me when I was adult, that they were not each other dream person but rather they just work it out. Why couldn’t heard this when I was little, I could handled the truth more so than most kids. Now it’s accepted in society to live bachelorhood with to many people looking down on us. So love don’t stink, loves comes from within. We have to love ourselves first and bring joy, than we can attract other people like us into our lives.

I'm the same. I have always fallen in love with someone unsuitable in the long run. I've given up now. I put myself out there in every way but I think now that i've moved to a small country town, I'm to hard to reach so no-one bothers. I'm really quite content but sometimes, not often, I wish I had someone who treated me well, was kind and helpful and a bloody good kisser. It seems it's too much to ask. All the good ones have been taken.

you should get out there and find the easy guys mssnow they are everywhere lol. i am with my boyfriend who i was meant to be with as he means so much to me

aww... lol. I know how you feel. It's so hard to find a decent person who truly cares. But you know what I think? I think no two people are meant for each other. I think that some people can be right for you and others can't but I don't think there's such a thing as "meant to be". Maybe I'm wrong but this is how I feel. When you meet someone who really cares about u (and u will) hold on to him, forget about past failures in love, and love him like you've never loved before. Otherwise, it'll never work.

Well, I do think all guys are easy so you'll have no problem getting what you wanted, hehehe! just kidding there, guys wouldn't like my reply, they'll throw me out of mylot. But then again, it's easy to find easy men but it's difficult to find men who wants nothing more than make you happy. My officemate (who's a guy) even commented that a dog can be a likely candidate, dogs will make us happy, can give us unconditional love maybe, men ??? ohh well... not sure, hehehe! Anyways, I wish you'll find that someone who will complement and complete you snow... you deserve the best... :)

It's impossible to find such people in todays world,it sounds like a good fantasy,if you find one please let me know so that i can start believing that such type of people exist in todays world,sorry if i have hurt you in any way with my response,i have said what i believe