What should I do?

@rosycat (168)
May 23, 2007 4:31am CST
I havent heard from my bf in over a week now, and we were supposed to be meeting up this weekend. I sent him a text yesterday saying that I felt he didnt care about me and I have had no reply. I am very angry but also very sad. What should I do? Should I walk away or should I stay and try to sort it out? Im very confused, as we havent fallen out or anything, he just seems to be ignoring me. Please give me your suggestions.
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6 responses
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
23 May 07
There is nothing to be confused about. Obvivously he is seing someone else. You should of call him instead of texting. That will not get his attention. My opinion is to move on and date other people. Kick him to the curve!
@rosycat (168)
23 May 07
if only it was that easy!
• United States
23 May 07
Ok let me ask you this. Is this the first time he have done this? Disapear for awhile and then comeback. If so, than i can see why is not easy to come on. What is someone like him ( who is abscent)have over you that you can not let him go. From a guy point of view, mostly likely he is seeing someone else.
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
23 May 07
Hello,rosycat,is your boyfriend very busy in these days,that is why he does not give you a reply. Just be patient and see what happen,try to sort out the problem rather than walking away,it is always a good thing to face the fact and solve the existing problem. Good luck.
@rosycat (168)
23 May 07
He is a very busy person and away a lot, I accept that but there is still no need to ignore me surely? It makes me so angry, and ive told him so many times. I know he doesnt do it on purpose and i dont want to walk away, but it makes me feel like he just doesnt care about me.
• United States
23 May 07
Having not heard from him in a week is not my idea of a relationship....him not responding to your messages is rude and inconsiderate. Is it normal for you two to go a week without hearing from each other? How long have you been together?
@rosycat (168)
23 May 07
we've been together for over a year, altho we were togther 10 years ago for 4 years. He is away a lot with his job, so there are times when we dont speak, but I thought we sorted it out. Obviously I was wrong!
• United States
24 May 07
Send him another message to tell him that you have made other plans for the weekend and are not sure when you can reschedule your meeting. If he doesn't bother to contact you, just take it with a grain of salt. He obviously wasn't ready for a relationship.
@arsena (293)
• Germany
24 May 07
Maybe he has a problem, maybe he is sick or something. You should fisrt check these options before getting sad, mad and break up with him. It happened one time to me that I was furios with my boyfriend that he didn't call me but he was actually sick.
• United States
23 May 07
if he knows that you two are supposed to be seeing each other this weekend and the weekend passes without you at least hearing an excuse...then write him off. i can understand being super busy, it happens. but he knows of the meeting. If he cares for you AT ALL, he will at least try to give you some excuse..no matter how lame it may be, he will still give something. if he doesnt, in my opinion, that shows that he feels the relationship is already over.