Your husband's ex-girlfriend

I have on several occassion brought up the issue of his ex girlfriend especially when we quarrel. He will never like to mention anything about his ex and now I have learned to never mention her ex to him anymore. It is more peaceful to be quiet.

My husband was married for 17 years before he got a divorce. she cheated on him while he was in the Army and she married the guy she was cheating with after they divorced. I asked some questions abouthis relationship with her and asked why she didwhat she did to him when they had three children together. I wanted to see if our relationship would work and what she had done wrong. I also wanted to know if our love was going to last.

in the early years of our marriage both my wife and I was engaged in quite frequent discussions regarding our past lifes and loves. I think its all part of getting to know the whole person blessed be

In my opinion, there is no necessisty to do that.

Is it okey? well, for me it is as long as both of you were open about that issue. As I noticed, women always want to discuss the "ex-girfriend" topic and end up debating with their partners. Hey, everyone has their past relationships but what matters most is the present. Why not give importance to what you have right now and not what had happened in the past. Sometimes the more we think about it the more we became paranoid about it. So what I'm telling is if he's not open with discussing the past, respect it. Respect is very important to keep your relationship strong.

For me, i don't want my husband to tell me about his past with his girlfriend coz i feel jealous. It's better if he'll just keep it for his self.

yes, i always ask him to tell me something about his pas relationships.. the first time i hear it from him, i can't help myself not to be jealous but now, not anymore.. i'm used to it and i know that, i'm the only one he truly love because i'm the one he marry... hehehe.