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By Gabs
@gabs8513 (48686)
United Kingdom
May 28, 2007 6:53am CST
I started a Discussion yesterday about my deleted Discussions now a Lovely new Member came back with such a lovely Response to me and I guess we better start playing by the rules and look at the "real" Life that I am obviously not aware of I mean I am so selfish and self involved that oh Goodness this Member had to put me right So People, this is not our Site that it was It is turning into politics and a "Real Life" Site Well here is the link if anyone wants to see what this lovely Gentleman has to say to me http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1107193.aspx?p=4 So remember what this lovely Person is saying there
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25 responses
28 May 07
Power To The People - power to the people on mylot who believe in freedom of speech and wish to rid this site of those out to cause negativity.
Well Gabs, what can I say. I have just read the response Mr Happy sent you and I feel he needs to GET A LIFE!! This site deals with many different issues, and we are all aware of what goes on in the world but do we have to grieve every five minutes and not have the right to express what personally upsets us as well. Just ignore the silly man and my advise is to keep posting about Gissi. There are enough of us to stand behind you and if you stop then they have won. We need to beat the puritans and chase them away instead of them ruining it for us. In the end they will get bored because they will not win and the true mylothians will reign supreme again!!! OOH, my political side came out there!!!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Hahahaha yes it did allsorts and thank you for this I gave him my piece of mind and thats it for me he is a waste of Space
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 May 07
I f ya want politics got o that place if ya want fun come to friends place on here . Ya saw my responce to that one . Wwe even have a joke catagory so we need to get back to haveing fun now Ya hear!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Lol yes I saw it Thanks for that I know you are always behind me to People do not realize what a good Group of Friends mean
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
28 May 07
Think I now have 60 in my friends group but dont hear from all of them But the ones I do I think that we have a good size group here that get along fine and more could be added if they want to enjoy what we are all about right? Right!
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• United States
28 May 07
So right, Lakota, there is a bunch of us that get on just fine and it seems that we are always there to defend, support or comfort each other. That is what keeps me coming back when sometimes I get disillusioned by some users (or mL's) actions.
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@petspets (476)
• Antarctica
28 May 07
Hugs to you, my dear friend. He is a newbie and has to learn where to put his comments appropriately. Don't stop making discussions. I don't see your discussions violating guidelines. Goodnight.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Thank you Sweetie and sleep well
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
28 May 07
i think this sort of thing is testament to how low we have fallen. It is all down to an attempt to dimminish you and make themselves feel good. It is sad that the only way some individuals on mylot can lift their own feelings is to do things like this. I really do dispare sometimes, i wish we could have our friendly, happy site back blessed be
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Yes so do I Sweetie but I have a feeling we never will
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@crazy1 (479)
• New Zealand
28 May 07
If you've heard of flaming or trolling, thats what people like this are doing, they get their jollies with comments like that. In my opinion the best thing to do is ignore them completely, and try not to let the comments get to you. By the way, I think this discussion is playing into their hands, as its giving them the attention they need, more jollies for them.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Thats ok crazy I don't mind as the Devil is out at the moment you know me it takes a while for me to get annoyed but when I do that is it and if they want to come along be smart well they take the flak from me then
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@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
28 May 07
I saw what this person had to say. It was lovely, just absolutely lovely that he choose to share his personal political views. Too bad it was posted in the wrong interest group as it will not ever be read by the audience he should be targeting. I left my two cents worth of opinion and hopefully he will go back and see it. No, I did not unload on him. Maybe I should have. He should think before typing. Perhaps, in the future, he should make a wise decision and choose to not respond to discussions about our beloved Gissi and all the friends of Gissi. Gabs, you have so many friends here but sad to say, this man is not one of the them. It is obvious that he does not have much experience on this site or with the people or how they will react to postings of his nature in the wrong interest groups. We should point him in the right direction so he can go spout off to people who might possible listen to him or at least read what he has to post. So young and naive, sad and pathetic........too bad he chose to enter his thoughts into this discussion.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Yes you are right and I saw your response to him Thank you so much for backing me up on that Those are the Type of People that are bringing the Site down and loosing the good Members
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@astroo13 (963)
• India
28 May 07
Come on give the guy a break. He apologized didn't he. It takes guts to do that. He could have just ran away from the discussion without apologizing. but he did. Still you start another discussion to belittle him. So his apology doesn't matter to you. There are lots of people who are much worse than him.At least he showed the desire to change.Two wrongs doesn't make right.If you want you can make a discussion of my response to this discussion. But to make matters clear I dont know him or haven't answered any of his topics yet.Regards
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Yes Gerty I agree with you and I hope that this will help him I really do I was impressed that he came back later to apologize and I accepted it
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
29 May 07
No there is no way but at the end of the Day and I am not being nasty he should have thought before he wrote and I am telling People that he has apologized It will soon die down Just try and see it from my Point and read his apology again I have accepted but I read between lines to but that is all I will say But thank you for coming back and replying to me again I appreciate this not many People would do this either You are a good Person for that
@astroo13 (963)
• India
28 May 07
Yes my mistake. I should have checked the time. But this is wrong to continue this thread. But I dont think there is a way to close this thread. Is there without deleting it? People are coming here and saying bad things about a person who has already apologized for a mistake he made. Regards
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@dana234 (2114)
• Spain
28 May 07
I read the "lovely" response of the well educated gentleman. So, especially you with all the problems you´ve got (he obviously doesn´t know about that) need a lecture about the harsh reality. He should have thought before he started to rant. Then again, I also read his apology. This is the first time that I´ve seen someone who gave a rude comment apologize for it. I´m not defending this person, but I do wonder if he meant what he said in his apology. Anyway don´t worry about the response he gave, just move on, dear gabs. You know that you are a valued member here :-). XXX Dana
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Yes I have accepted the Apology but like you I am not to sure but I have to say I have never seen someone come back and apologize so I do hope he learns his lesson out of this now xxx
@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
28 May 07
wow, thats heavy. but like some said its a newbie and he doesnt right understand the concept of mylot. let him some time and he sees it himself. if not, its his loss. dont bother with such individuals, just report them when they dont stop picking at you. thats what i do. dont let them win, post away, if the discussion gets deleted, who cares, we, your friends are with you. i dont care about losing points, i will always answer. i hope you feel better today sweetie
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
I will Sis I have no intention of leaving here 1 My big Sis is here with me 2 All my lovely Friends are here to So Sis no chance of me leaving unless I am forced to and you know what I mean by that Love you
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
29 May 07
cool, thats what i wanted to hear from you
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@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
28 May 07
LOL - first of all I have to say - you lied :) yesterday you said you weren't going to post any more discussions and here you are - I knew you couldn't stand up to that one, mylot is too addicting... Ok, back on topic, must follow the rules to the tee... "Real Life" - I woke up at 6 a.m. this morning which is late for me, went to the bathroom (just number 1 other will come later in the day), poured myself a glass of Diet Pepsi, let the cat outside, logged on Internet, and told myself I am only going to be on for an hour then am going to work on other projects such as getting ready to move. Now that's real life! Opps I lied too have been online for 2 hours already. Some people are just oh so negative (((((gabs))))) p.s. did a little detective work and read some of this member's other responses and I feel for them - so very negative about everything.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Lol good job on you Well I know but I just had to point this one out lol Hope you are ok ((((((((((Faith)))))))))))
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@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
28 May 07
Oh no, dearie, I will not say anything bad at all anymore. You know I just lost a point here by being a supportive and caring bunny, LOL! What's going on with the people here. I better spread some more of my precious carrots so they can have a better state of mind. Hugz to you.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Lol do not worry I have told him what I think as I have had enough of it Sweetie I am not holding back anymore with People like that And yes please spread your Carrots they are needed xx
• Canada
28 May 07
Wow, that eejit should be ashamed of himself! It's frightwning when a complete newbie comes on here and starts shooting his mouth off like he's better than anyone else. It's those kind of people though that don't last for very long here. Gabs hon, don't worry about him, he doesn't know the whole story with all the deletions going on, and he decided to shoot his mouth off anyway. He's not worthy of your time. Hang in there. Don't let him get to you.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Well Rugrat he actually didn't lol he just put himself in the Firing Range lol as I just told him straight it is not good to start on me when I am so close to blowing lol and my Patience here had been run very low over the last 4 weeks well he snapped it lol, I have to say though it was hard to stay polite though lol
@beaniegdi (1964)
28 May 07
Please don't let that person upset you. You ddn't do anything wrong, this person was rude so try to let it pass. Someone once gave me a good tip, I was upset over something and couldn't get what someone had said out of my head, he told me that he chose who he allowed to live in his head and he told me to do the same. So now if anyone upsets me and I start thinking of what has happenend I remind myself of that advice and refuse to let those thoughts in. Just tell yourself you are not going to let that person live in your head, it isn't easy but try it and you will see with practice it does work. You might have to deliberately think of something else when your thougths turn to this person but don't let this guy in, think of good things instead.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Thank you so much for this piece of advise I have never thought of it like that and it is a good theory and I will remember it Thank you Sweet
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
28 May 07
Gabs, I don't know if you noticed, but he did come back and apologize for his inappropriate comment. I did find his comment to be very callous, but I think he was trying to convey a different message. I just wish he had put more thought into his comment. But lets give him the benefit of the doubt. He did come back and apologize, unlike some of these people on here that are very unapologetic for being so callous and cold in their remarks. Take care Gabs and keep posting I love hearing Gissi's antics!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Yes I did notice and I accepted his Apology I just hope this has taught him a lesson to think before writing Hugs to you
• Kottayam, India
28 May 07
If there is a will there is a way, I really happy to hear you back, Let us be here enjoy until such a time that we will flew in to the thin air.It is verrrrrrrrry niceeeee of you, my dear.
• United States
28 May 07
I think I put him in his place. He'll probably lose at least one point, as he did respond to a spammy discussion that I reported.
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• United States
31 May 07
It looks like his response was deleted, as I cannot find it anymore. Anyway, he lost at least one point. Unfortunately, I forgot who it was. If you remember, mention it either as a PM or somewhere at the S&M forum.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Lol trust you Krazy You always brighten things for me when you put your Comments in I always see the funny side of it Thank you dear Friend
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
29 May 07
how could i miss that one!!! anyway, why is that person, with lovely response, is here in the first place!! does he know what he is talking and most importantly where!!! let us show him the way outside, this place is not his!!!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
29 May 07
Lol well I hope he has learned his Lesson
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
28 May 07
Hey Gabs I posted my discussion in the discussion.LOL Im such an idiot.LOL Well this guy is an idiot. Some people here just love to reck things. They get their kicks off that way.LOL I dont understand why they dont deleate this lovely new person? Maybe we should complain about him. Well like I said in the other discussion just let this idiot keep posting and he will hang himself.heheheheh
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Well Sweetie I am not holding back anymore now when they get rude they will get the lash on my tongue I would still like the Site to go up again but it is People like him that are pulling it down, they won't delete him lol as this is the sort of thing now that seems to stay here Hugs to you
@estherlou (5015)
• United States
28 May 07
Great posting! LOL. I really liked your restraint! That person looked familiar to me. I think he said something a little strong in one of my discussions also. If it is the same person, I told him his response was a little strong, but he's new. He'll get used to us.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Lol Estherlou it was hard very hard hahaha Well he has apologized so I hope that he has learned his Lesson
@mummymo (23706)
28 May 07
Angel Gabs you got it so right on this one! This guy obviously just doesn't want you to get upset about the smaller things - he would rather you remained heartbroken about all the tragic things in the world - or more specifically the ones that concern him! How nice of him to come into this community and reeducate those people who have been doing the wrong thing all this time - what would we do without wonderful new members like this? Maybe we would carry on the way we have been , talking about things that concern us , discussing world events , having fun and making friends! To be perfectly honest know alls like this guy need to open their minds and take a bit of time to realise what a community like this is all about! I wouldn't pay any mind to him Angel he has no idea how this site works and is rather rude and very opinionated!
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 May 07
Yes Sweetie it didn't upset it just set the Devil loose in me lol and I had to say what I thought xxxx
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@mummymo (23706)
28 May 07
Good for you Angel xxx
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• United States
30 May 07
Man what a grouch. I can see why he is green LOL. I think we can still talk about what ever is on our minds. We do need to follow the rules but we do not need to be spoken to in such a way. Gabs you continue to keep up the good work.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
31 May 07
Thank you Sweetie and I will once I have done a bit more of my writing and that