Have you ever said I love you to some one but never meant it?

@nielcdg (709)
Philippines
June 9, 2007 4:45am CST
When I was still in highschool I belived this girl that she loved me and she kept on saying it day by day. I then realized she didnt really love me when she had another boyfriend behind my back. After that I did the same to other girls but it made me feel bad about myself. I grew up and learned the real meaning of love when I met my ex girlfriend who died after a year that we were together. She almost broke up with me before she died because she learned about what I did to other girls. But she forgave because she felt that I was true to her. Have you ever said I Love You with out meaning it?
3 responses
jemjemjemperez
@jemjemjemperez (109)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
that's really sad.. i think i have said i love you without meaning it back in highschool..! it was just because of wrong group of friends who keep pushing me to this guy i don't like..! it's really complicated because it came to a point where my relationship with this guy held me closer to my "so-called" friends..!
nielcdg
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
Atleast now you are older and wiser, we all need to learn this some way or another its a hurtful process but it just a part of life. I hope he forgives you now?
jemjemjemperez
@jemjemjemperez (109)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
then i also found out that he doesn't like me either..! fair enough..! :D
nielcdg
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
I guess you and he are even it was just childhood foolishness right?
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
yeah, I think I have. It was with my chatmate...but he was the one who said it first. I guess no harm was actually done. Cause it was in cyberspace. lol. But personally, no. I only say I love you [personally] to the person that I really love.
nielcdg
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
Thanks for your sharing, Yeah I dont think cyber love counts for that unless you met up and establish a real world relationship but cyber I love you is forgiveable we sometimes play a part when we log in to an account and become someonelse different. :)
nielcdg
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
Thanks for your sharing, Yeah I dont think cyber love counts for that unless you met up and establish a real world relationship but cyber I love you is forgiveable we sometimes play a part when we log in to an account and become someonelse different. :)
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
hehehe...yeah its forgiveable, cause its not like the other person took it seriously, right? Ü
shorva
@shorva (923)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
oh how sad. Yes I must have. With my first boyfriend. It's really difficult to lie. But I was young and I thought saying I love you is a must when you're in a relationship. That's the only time I said something like that when I didn't mean it.
nielcdg
@nielcdg (709)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing that info, I hope you and your ex are ok now and you have forgiven each other. Any ways it is a part of growing up how can we find true love if we dont know what false love is first right?