Unscented is not the same thing as fragrance free!

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I'm pretty allergic to fragrances, both natural and synthetic. I might react with sneezing, runny nose, and congestion. I could also react more badly with severe headaches and asthma depending on the fragrance. The latter seems to be especially true with the fragrances they put in hairspray. I live with my mother and she insists on using hairspray even though she knows how it effects me. She says that hairspray is the only thing that will get her hair to look the way she wants it. I feel really hurt by this. How can the way her hair looks be more important than my health to her? We did try to compromise. She agreed to only put the hairspray on in a bathroom that I never go in and she switched to unscented hairspray. It's still a problem though, I react if she is in the same room with me if she has put the hairspray on within the past couple of hours. I couldn't figure out why I was reacting to the unscented hairspray. Then I read online that most products that are marked as "unscented" are not fragrance free. They usually have what is called a masking fragrance in them. So I checked the ingredients of my mother's "unscented" hairspray and sure enough fragrance was one of the ingredients. I tried to explain this to her, that she would have to read the labels because "unscented" products can still have fragrances in them. She said that a completely fragrance free hairspray doesn't exist. I know that isn't true though. She might not be able to find it at the local supermarket, and it might cost more, but I know such products do exist and I think that she should be willing to spend the extra money and effort to find products that don't make me sick. I'd find the fragrance free hairspray for her I thought she'd be willing to buy it. I just think she isn't going to get it until she ends up putting me in the hospital. Fragrance fumes can be extremely toxic to me. She knows it give me headaches and makes my asthma act up. I just can't understand why she won't stop using the stuff. I'm so tempted just to take the hairspray bottles and pour them down the drain but I know that will only make things between my mother and I worse.