Love Fool....

Philippines
June 12, 2007 10:36pm CST
I need help here, actually this a problem of my best friend and she is girl..she a true love and promised each other to spent thier life together, but due to some circumtances, my friend accidentally got pregrant, to avoid scandal she marry the father of her baby even though she dont love him, time goes by her true love got married, but problem is they still both seing each other, both of them are welling to give up thier families just to be together again, but recently her true turn cold to her, and this is really bothering her, and in my own observation she is only takin for granted, i told my friend to stop this foolishness but she said she can't, and i'm already annoyed of what is happening.... guy's what can you say about this? what is the best solution? thanks a lot
4 responses
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
well, both of them are already married... thus, they already have to live separate lives. they can remain as friends if that's what they want but to be more than friends may not really be good for both of them and for their own families. you have to give a piece of your mind to your friend. tell her how you feel about her present situation and tell her what you think she should do. if she doesn't listen, that's no longer your problem.. what's important is that, as a friend, you did your part...
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• Philippines
13 Jun 07
thanks, as a friend sometimes am dissapointed, sometimes she don't listen to me, all i want is her own good, but she always insist about thier love, she is having a problem of accepting the reality that they are not meant for each other,.
@FSCAries (881)
• United States
13 Jun 07
I think your friend got herself into a mess and it's going to be work to get out of it. She ought to be straight with the baby's father first of all. It's not fair for her to be having her cake and eating it too. If she is going to try to make it work with her true love then she needs to let her husband know. If the deal with the love is over, then she ought to leave it at that and try and become a faithful wife.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 07
nice idea, this will help too..thanks a lot
@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
Fore sure they're not meant to each other. Come think of it, we did not work out things right when you're both singles. Now, you both have responsibility of you own. You're hurting yourself, and your partner. How come you love each other and get in to another guy? and you marry him. Actually that is not "LOVE" after all,coz if you love someone then you'll fight for your love. Just face the truth, you have now your own family then stop seeing with another guy.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 07
thanks a lot, you're advice will help...have a nice day
• United States
13 Jun 07
She's a married a woman now and her commitment to her family should be a priority. The person that she's married to might be the love of her life if she takes the time to look at him, and not at her former love. All in all, she should also consider her baby whenever she wants to go back to her boyfriend. It's not fair to treat a family like that and she should know.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yeah your right, thanks a lot for the help, i will talk to her later as soon as she arrive, this problems need to be settled as soon as possible before it gets worst.. thanks guys for the help..