a girl needs help

India
August 2, 2006 7:19am CST
she lives in lucknow and from birth she suffers inequality treatment from his parents and brother.they use to beat her.now she is in love and wants to marry him.but her family is continuosly torturing her physically and mentally.she wants to suicide and there is also a danger to her life from her family.
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6 responses
@aquarian83 (1944)
• United States
9 Oct 06
if the guy is good and will keep her happy and is ready to marry her and take her to his home and if his parents are ready to accept her thn i think the best thing for ur frnd would be to sprint and get married... whts the use in staying such torturesome place with such manic people.. if shes major i.e. 18 yrs which is leagal age for marriage in india thn she can definitely get married without interference frm police or family... but ur frnd needs to make sure how her bf is or else she would enter into one more trouble and life will b miserable again...
• United States
13 Apr 08
In the country that this is happening, is she of legal age to marry? Is she allowed to get married on her own without her parent's consent? Does the guy treat her well? If all of the above applies, perhaps she should get married. But, definitely, she needs to get away from that family. If she is not old enough to marry, there should be an agency or some kind of authority that can keep her safe. It's been two years since your post and I hope everything is well with her.
2 Aug 06
She should contact the authorities immediately. Or you as a concernec friend should contact them for her. The police need to know what is going on.
@QnAQueen (555)
• United States
4 Aug 06
how old is she? if she is of legal age (18 in most countries), then she can establish a life without her family. at any age, though, she should be able to escape abuse. you or she can probably try to find a women's shelter where she can find solace.
• India
3 Aug 06
Really it is jus like a story, i can't beleive this, however if it is real then definitely i will help you by giving some kind advice to solve your problem, please give me clear details whom she loves whom she hates i want the clear details , then i will give u a better solution.
• India
3 Aug 06
( 1 )agar ladaka use bahut chahata hai aur ladke ke gharwale raji hai to bhag jao nahi to ladke ko bhul kar apane papa or bhai ko sahane ka kam karo. ( 2 )is duniya me jaruri nahi ki jisse pyar kiya usi se shadi hogi . sabase pahele apne pero pe khadi ho jao aur phir apana ghar chhod ne ki bat socho. ( 3 )aurho sake to unke( papa aur bhai ke ) ego ko satisfy karke apne(ladaki ke ) marji ke anusar behave karane par unko majbur karo. ap kisi admi ko tabhi jit paoge jab aap uska ego satisfy karoge.