I need motivating..please help..

@yanjiaren (9050)
June 14, 2007 6:21am CST
The last few days I have not been well with toothache and Belly ache. I have felt really drained and unmotivated and have hardly done any Mylotting in the last few days. I don't like to say the phrase I am bored lol, but I feel a bit in the drudgery of things and need a good kcik up the proverbial to get me to snap out of it. I am doing my best but feel a bit low, maybe because my relationship with hubby is a bit strained due to distance? I don't know..but I need a boost..Well at least my Vitamins came from Berry Tree/Nutronix this morning so that is a bit of a start isn't it?
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@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
14 Jun 07
gosh 'el. i thought you left us already. i was wondering where you are and was hoping you're just okey. sorry about the toothache. isn't that your problem weeks ago? did the dentist say anything about it? i hope you'll feel better soon. and don't worry much about the distance between you and your husband. for as long as the communication is always there, you both will be okey. it's natural to feel bad about the distance. but soon, you'll be together soon (just like me and my boyfriend. i will migrate to sweden on june 28 already... that's soon!) so, i hope you will be okey soon and will be a happy 'el again as you always used to be before. i miss the jolly 'el! i hope she'll come back soon! missing you... anne p.s. i tried to invest on your online investment site. but i can't. help!
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@maryannemax (12170)
• Sweden
14 Jun 07
you can be. you are just in the state of falling apart these days. but you'll see. one day, you'll be picking up pieces of yourself again... an 'el who is ready to face all challenges. it happens 'el. you are not alone. that's why sometimes, i think life is so unfair... but when i look at the positive side of my life... i find it fair... anne
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@mimpi1911 (25475)
• India
14 Jun 07
hi yanji, i am sorry to hear that you are not well. toothache is terrible, you should see a dentist. sometimes, life gets so monotonous that we need to come out of it. go, get a life, have a nice day out. i know you are missing your hubby but sweetie you two will meet soon, i am sure. a big HUG for you.
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
you are lovely always..
@yanjiaren (9050)
21 Jun 07
didn't think of that..
@obukohwo (302)
• Nigeria
16 Jun 07
Sorry for the natural pressure on you friend, i think you need some rest that is the advice i have for you now. Take time to attend to your social life and get more relaxation too. Goodluck
@yanjiaren (9050)
21 Jun 07
relaxation yeah lol, fat chance haha
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
14 Jun 07
I suggested you nettle tea once, didn't I? Believe, it works wonder, so much vitamines. But I'm afraid, your soul is aching more than your tooth... When can you go back to your hubby? I only can give you a quote of a newsletter I've got from marketing guru Shawn Casey lately: "No matter how bad you think you have it, or what someone did to you, many other people have faced worse circumstances..." I don't believe it helps you a lot but you have to be sure on yourself, and your luck, and that you will see each other soon again, and everything will be alright. When I had hard times in my life, I used to listen "Elegy" of Jethro Tull (from "Stormwatch"). Somehow I felt then, that I really shall overcome everything. And guess what? I did! Perhaps our taste on music isn't quite same but perhaps it will help you also. Give it a try.
@yanjiaren (9050)
21 Jun 07
oh yeas nettle tea..I will see him in september hopefully..
@worldwise1 (14887)
• United States
14 Jun 07
Hi yanjiaren. Maybe it will make you feel better if you realize that we all have these kinds of days. You need to think of something to do that would really make you happy. Then, just do it! I know that it's not easy being apart from the one you love. Remind him of how much you love and miss him. GL
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
just sent him a kind email that's all, but i won't hang around and beg..done enough of that..
@steney (1418)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
Hello yan, you know how the saying goes that 'they all come in threes'? Whether good or bad things. Well in your case, 1. toothache, 2. belly ache, and 3. not much mylotting. Anyways, whatever it is you're facing, always remember, THIS TOO SHALL PASS. And your worries will be gone even before you remember them. So relax and take some hobby or sport, or do another mylot song! :D That should brighten you up. You've always been full of energy and life, and that should keep you going. I pray for the best between you and your hubby. It's really hard being apart and in love. But your love for each other will see you through all this. Just keep the faith and smile. :)
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@azimsay (545)
• India
14 Jun 07
In life some need motivator,to reach right place.Good advice.For right way.
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
thanks for the kind words
@tredale (1313)
• Australia
14 Jun 07
I hope you feel better and the vitamins kick in soon, also hubby comes home for his trip. It sounds like youve been in the wars and need a little rest and relaxation too put you back on track. I hope you feel better enjoy your weekend take some downtime. feet up.
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
i took some time out today..
• United States
14 Jun 07
Maybe you could go workout. I have the worst time gettting myself motivated to do it, but then I always feel better:)
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
i need to bash my head against a wall lol..that might work!
@nandans (1161)
• India
14 Jun 07
Think Positive and Be Happy !!
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@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
will try to, thanks my friend..
@GardenGerty (115095)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I have taken Nutronix. They used to have a sublingual B12, that is what you should concentrate on. It gives energy and helps with depression. Why are you not getting your tooth taken care of? The tooth can poison your stomach and the bacteria in the bad tooth and gums can damage your heart! I worked for a man who ended up with gall bladder surgery, because of stomach problems, but it turned out, that did not fix the problem. He ended up with extensive dental work, and that did fix his stomach distress. Let me also appeal to the frugal side of you. Fix the tooth sooner and it costs you less. If it goes too long it can cost thousands of dollars, and a root canal, and a temporary crown, and a bridge, etc. etc. This lady knows, cause she let a forty dollar repair turn into just that. My other question is? How is the weather? If there is any sun where you live, get 15 minutes in the morning of sun, you will feel better. I know you miss hubby, but you are doing everything you can to make it financially possible for him to be with you. Keep your eye on the goal. I try not to kick too hard.
@yanjiaren (9050)
14 Jun 07
thanks for your great advice..i have booked appointment with the dentist..i received loads of nutronix stuff this morning as i ordered the senior exec pack.thanks always for being my friend.
@charms88 (7540)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
LOL, I'm sorry, Yan. I know there's nothing funny with what you're going through. I wish I can tell you that your mylot friends are enough to keep you motivated. Unfortunately, I have one here who did nothing but to keep pulling me down lately. I'm just a bunny for anyone to play with. What I did? Still supporting this poster. I even wrote a lovely mail to an address nobody knew about. I hope it will get through and somebody from the head here will reply back. You have friends here who never failed to inspire you. You should stick with them. Make sure to look for friends who have a genuine and sincere heart. Just think about the money we will have in a few more months, LOL!
@banta78 (4334)
• India
15 Jun 07
Hello Yanji, don't feel down and sad. If you are not well go to doctor and take medicines and proper rest. You may be missing your hubby connect with him on phone, email, and hopefully meet him soon. I feel if want to be motivated ther's nothing stoping you. Self motivation is the best. Inspire yourself by positive words, vibes, songs, books.. good luck. Cheers:)
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• Philippines
15 Jun 07
hi yanji! too bad you're not feeling well. have you gone to the doctor for the belly ache and dentist for the toothache? if it really hurts then maybe OTC mefenamic acid might help. the vitamins is a good start. try to talk to your hubby or leave a message. how bout excercise? or simply go outdoors? a new scenery might perk you up and release the uneasiness you feel :-)
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@pc5971 (38)
• Romania
14 Jun 07
hey yanjiaren, I hope you'll be soon better. Vitamins can help you, can give you more energy, but go outside, swiming is very good, or go to dance, or better go in the park look to the flowers, try foget all your problems (even for few hours)... I had the same feelings last week and I decided to go in a 3 days long trip abroad (Budapest and Wien, I'm from Romania). It was amaizing. I came back at home totaly relax and feeling much better. Read this, sometimes help me www.nulladiessinnemeditatione.com/If%20Rudyard%20Kippling.htm
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• United States
14 Jun 07
sorry i mean youcantake some pepto ut atthe equerds or walgreen there are these boost up pills i never have had energy but they work thy make like nausea and all that go away and that worked for me and all i mean i a going thhru a really bad time right now and stress will make yousick and also have no energy and also there are energy vitamins by one a day not like active bu the ones that say energy and that made me oka also if youmake yourself excercise like walk around the block it will boos t you up and dont drink alot of soda
• United States
14 Jun 07
If you are sick.
@wolfie34 (26791)
• United Kingdom
14 Jun 07
We motivate each other my friend, I have faith in you and I know that not only will you be a great success in the business field but you will carry us with you, we will revel in your success, be a part of your success and we all know that you will WIN WIN WIN! I am proud to be part of your system and we will get those prized berries, what do you tell me when I'm depressed and down? I'll tell you the same plus the hug xxx