am i slave of my boyfreind

United States
June 19, 2007 7:38am CST
my question is that he realy treats me like a slave now. he picks out my clothes even. i cok for him when i can. i clean his clothes for him i wear whatever he wants me to. last nite he caled me his slave which made me fel sort of warm and cozy.
8 responses
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
15 Jan 12
weel You Like It the way he treats you You want to be his b1tch. Even One of My Girlfriend Like's when I call her My B1tch.Then whats The problem.I wish I could have a gf like you also who washes my clothes too and cooks for me, Even give me a bath herslef
@cripfemme (7698)
• United States
18 Nov 07
If any partner of mine called me a slave. I'd be like "we're done. We're completely done. You have no idea how done we are." snd then I'd never talk to them again.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
12 Jul 07
Warm and cozy? God took Eve from Adam's side, not his feet. And Adam said "at last! someone like me." [Previously he had only seen the animals, birds, etc.]
@5000ml (1923)
• Belgium
22 Jun 07
If my boyfriend dared to call me his slave he'd be out the door so fast his head would still be spinning. If you like being called such a thing, then so be it, but don't come asking us if you are because you obviously already know the answer plus you like it?! C'mon.
• United States
1 Nov 07
Why would any person want this kind of relationship? It sounds more like you are being controlled by your boyfriend, & for some reason think this is "warm & fuzzy". You must be kidding! This is neither warm, nor fuzzy, it is control. Often times, this kind of relationship leads to abuse. Please prepare yourself. This is not a good direction for your relationship. Furthermore, feeling good about being called a slave, makes me question your background. Is this how you were raised? Was your Mother a slave to your Father? Often times, we mimmick what we see. That does not make it right. Take a long look in the mirror. I bet you are perfectly capable of choosing your own clothes, as well as he is capable of cooking for himself, maybe even cooking for you from time to time. I can assure you, the more comfortable you become with who you are, the less you will want someone telling you who you should be.
@switze22 (61)
• United States
17 Nov 07
You are sick in the head. He is controlling you and you need to get out of that, NOW!
• Philippines
19 Jun 07
his calling you his slave made you feel warm and cozy? that's boggles the mind because normally, people hate having someone order them around. i guess you're one of the few who likes dominant partner and loves the feelings of being a 'slave' to that person.
@freak369 (5113)
• United States
19 Jun 07
If you enjoy the fact that he called you a slave then why are you complaining about it? There is a door, if you don't like the way he is treating you .. open it, walk through it and start your own life.