spazzzinhermit

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United States • Age 64

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do men really change?

punlonnjack @punlonnjack (1308) • United States 19 Dec 07

i though for awhile my husband changed for the better he stopped drinking.then i noticed he just changed one addiction for another. he takes to much pain medication. its been a struggle for the last few months to get him to cut...

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spazzzinhermit Yes, I believe we all can change. In changing, I really mean growing. But, we have to want to grow. In life, each of us makes choices that depend on who we have been. Something has to wake us up to who we can become. I don't really mean to wish to stop...

19 Dec 07

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am i slave of my boyfreind

justlakshmi @justlakshmi (159) • United States 19 Jun 07

my question is that he realy treats me like a slave now. he picks out my clothes even. i cok for him when i can. i clean his clothes for him i wear whatever he wants me to. last nite he caled me his slave which made me fel sort of...

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spazzzinhermit Why would any person want this kind of relationship? It sounds more like you are being controlled by your boyfriend, & for some reason think this is "warm & fuzzy". You must be kidding! This is neither warm, nor fuzzy, it is control. Often times, this kind of...

1 Nov 07