Home Birth Benefits

@birthlady (5609)
United States
October 25, 2006 1:02am CST
All 3 of my children were born at home with midwives. The benefits for myself and my family were physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Anyone else?
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@breezie (1246)
• Canada
4 Nov 06
I never really considered home birth. I think that it is a great idea if you are comfortable with I, but I personally was not. My kids were both born by c section becasue they were both breech and my son had a very low lying placenta.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
4 Nov 06
I used to live in a very small town with a small hospital, I worked there as an EMT and Radiology Aide. I also worked there as a Doula. The hospital I worked at is the only hospital in 150 mile stretch.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
4 Nov 06
You had obstetric indications for c-section and would be considered high risk with breech babies. Most (but not all) midwives will not attend a home birth with a breech baby. Low lying placenta is an indication of potential complications during every stage of labor, and even in the last weeks/days of pregnancy. Was the low lying placenta discovered because of bleeding in pregnancy, or during an ultrasound (sonogram) during pregnancy?
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@breezie (1246)
• Canada
4 Nov 06
The low lying placenta was discovered through an ultrasound. Since he was breech we just chose to go ahead with another c section. We live in a small town with a tiny hospital so if I had gone into labour here they were not prepared to do an emergency c section. To even attempt a VBAC I would have to travel over an hour to get to a hospital that would be equipped for any complications.
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• United States
4 Nov 06
I wish I had home waterbirths for my 4, but my ob said no. My blood pressure was very high through all of my pregnancies so I guess my ob thought it was safer for my baby(s) and myself.
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• United States
4 Nov 06
In my first pregnancy it rose drasticaly around 7 months. For each pregnancy it got progressivly worse earlier along. With the last two my ob had me hooked up for non-stress tests every two weeks for the last 3 months of preg.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
4 Nov 06
Thank you for responding! May I ask, do you have hypertensive episodes when you are not pregnant?
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
4 Nov 06
Yes, it is very important to screen risk factors before and during home birth. At what week pregnancy did your blood pressure start to increase?
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Oct 06
My mother gave birth for 9 and all were born at home. She took the help of old lady who was experienced in midwife job. I fully agree with the views expressed by you regarding physical, emotional, mental and spirutual. Especially in India, the family bondage is paramount and each one cling on to the family.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
24 Nov 06
Is homebirth the norm in India?
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I disagree! Home birth is safe for low to moderate risk pregnancies! The idea that only hospitals are safe places to give birth is a fallacy and propaganda that has been propagated by the western medical establishment for only around 100 years! Childbirth is a physiologic event that is "normal" 90 percent of the time! All complications are diagnosable by a trained and experienced midwife. Any emergency is usually an undiagnosed or untreated complication that has gone too long. Midwifery is an ancient art and skill. Childbirth at home is safe within the model of normalcy. I would never give birth in a hospital! My children were born at home! They are now 30, 25, and 20 years of age!
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@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
4 Nov 06
All fo my four childrne were born in a hospital. I feel it is safer in case something goes wrong suddenly.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Did you know that most emergencies are un-tended to complications gone on too long? In other words, a complication ignored turns into an emergency.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
12 May 07
I'm unsure what you're agreeing with!
@peetred (272)
• United States
5 Nov 06
I did not personally have a home birth, but I beleive if you are healthy, the baby is healthy, and you feel strongly about your choice of a home birth, good for you! They say that women are usually calmer and more relaxed, labors even go quicker because they are in their own environment and feel safe.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
5 Nov 06
Yes, calm, relaxed, feeling safe all contribute to shorter labors and are just a few benefits of giving birth at home.
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@divir_vij (1591)
• India
4 Nov 06
i think delivery under medical supervision is more important
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Home birth ideally involves delivery under supervision with a well trained experienced doctor or midwife.
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
19 Jan 07
Not all home births are medically unattended. Some people do prefer unattended home births, as they believe that childbirth is private and sacred, and with normal pregnancy, childbirth is not a medical event.
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@yadsan (199)
• India
13 Nov 06
cuteboy - cuteboy
one child was born in my native village to my ex-girlfriend whom i never got to get married with; i only could kiss and hug her when i was a teenager at the age of 13yrs,village near nagpur,.....we practised oral licking and kissing each other. she promised me that once she got married and got to have a childbirth at home she would email me so. i got her mail surprisingly when i had already nearly forgotten her; ...but this topic brought back sweeter and fond memories of her being near me even now..thanks ...it rejuvenated my heart with warmth.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
13 Nov 06
home birth must be common and normal in your village, yes?
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@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
i think you forgot to mention financial. lol. i think a lot of people give birth in the comfort of their own homes --- nothing wrong with that at all, although i think i'd feel a lot safer giving birth at a hospital.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Thank you for responding, I gave birth at home 3 times and felt safer giving birth at home.
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@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
29 Nov 06
Both of my children were born in hospital. I was glad of that. I think my first would have been ok if he was born at home but I'd had a few problems throughout the pregnancy so it was best for me to be in the hospital. With my second, he would more than likely not even be here if he'd have been born at home. He was born with the unbilical chord around his neck but this hadn't been noticed in scans or anything so no one was prepared for anything like that. I'm sure in cases where it is possible and absolutely certain that the risks are minimal then a home birth would be advantages but my personal opinion is that in a hospital, everything is right there as you need it but at home, you can prepare all you want but it doesn't guarantee a safe delivery.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
2 Mar 07
Actually, monitoring fetal heart rate during labor especially during 2nd stage is one safeguard for health and well being of the fetus, and when there are problems with fetal heart rates, it is an indiction there may be cord problems.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Most emergencies are complications that are let go too long, complications that are identifiable in pregnancy or labor. Very few true emergencies occur without any indication, such as a prolapsed umbilical cord, this is a true emergency. Fetal heart tones are monitored during labor and are an indication of anything wrong with baby during labor--in which case transport to a hospital is necessary. An emergency back up plan with a doctor with hospital privilages is ideal.
@eden32 (3973)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Many babies are born tangled in their cords. I don't think it is ever diagnosised before birth, because it could untangle or tangle back up at any time. In a hospital or at home when the baby is presenting the doc or midwife or mom if she's having an unattended labor feels for the cord and moves it. Everything may very well be right there for you in a hospital, that also does not guarantee a safe birth.
• United States
19 Jan 07
That is interesting. I have none to share with you, but may I ask a question? What if there were to be a complication? Is a midwife qualified as a doctor in such a situation?
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I'm happy to answer your question. What kind of complication? I teach classes to prepare parents to give birth safely at home! There are many kinds of midwives: certified nurse midwife; direct entry midwife; traditional "granny" midwife. Some midwives are trained within the obstetric medical model, some are not. A complication is not an emergency, per se. It depends on what the complication is. Not dilating? Baby not moving down into true pelvis? Dystocia? Bleeds? Name your complication! I'll answer specifically!
• United States
28 Nov 06
I have had 2 home births - one child is in an open adoption, the other I am raising at home - both beautiful people. If I have more children, I will use the same midwife. God Bless Midwifery!
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I agree, God Bless Midwifery! Were the adoptive parents present at your first birthing? Thank you for responding...
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@birthlady (5609)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I agree, God Bless Midwifery! Were the adoptive parents present at your first birthing? Thank you for responding...
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• United States
19 Dec 06
I love the idea of homebirth and would do it if I had the support. I doubt I'd find the support from my family and being on a military base in a backwards town? I couldn't do it. Maybe someday. Hopefully.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
19 Dec 06
There are midwives in many places. Where are you located? Are you pregnant?
@arshil (76)
• India
19 Jan 07
in my point of view u can achieve a mental confidence .birth place is related to your attitude.your dream also related to it.your culture,way of talking etc.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
21 Jan 07
I see what you're saying...some are more suited to home birth than others.
• Canada
13 Feb 07
I am a little jealous! I so wanted a homebirth, but am done having children and never got one! I am in Ontario, Canada, where midwives are covered by our Health Insurance. When I first became pregnant, I sought out a midwive and found a great one. I decided on a home birth, but after 24 hours of labour (!) we had to proceed to the local hospital (not rushed in an ambulance or anything) because the baby's descent was too slow (he was posterior, in fact) and required a version. So I had labour at home, but delivery in the hospital. My next pregnancy, I desperately wanted to have that home birth, but found out at 19 weeks that I was expecting twins! As such, I was considered high-risk (but really wasn't!) and had to give birth in the hospital. It was a semi-positive experience, but I would have much rather have been in the comfort of my home. Since our children were born only 19 months apart, we have decided that these 3 kids are enough for us. But based on my research and my partial home birth, I would GREATLY recommend a home birth to those who have the proper assistance.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
18 Feb 07
Thank you for responding! Many women enjoy laboring at home as long as possible and going to the hospital while in active labor (instead of early labor).
• United States
29 Nov 06
I am very supportive of homebirth!! I think it can be the most wonderful and safest birthing option. My first birth was a very "hospital" birth. My second was a natural midwife assisted in the hospital birth. My third was a planned homebirth but I ended up going into labor at just 36 weeks and my midwive's cut off was 37 so again I had a natural hospital/midwive assisted birth. I am hopeing for number four and that will be a planned homebirth as well. I am soooo hopeing that any more will be homebirths. I feel so strongly that is the best thing. I am also wanting unassisted with a midwife in the house just in case but not around me LOL!
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Shop around early for a midwife who will meet your needs! Here's a link to Creating Your Ideal Birth Plan~ Auntie Natal 911 http://www.auntienatal911.com/create_ideal_birth_plan.htm
@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
I choose to give birth in a hospital because I have a slight tolerance in pain and I know I would be more comfortable when I know that I'm in good hands. My mother-in-law gave birth at home with her 2nd child, it's because they live in the province/country and the hospital is so far from home, my husband said that she heard her mom scream and after her mom gave birth she remained in bedrest for 3 months.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
19 Dec 06
That sounds scary for a child to hear. My 3 children were born at home. When my middle child was born, my eldest was outside next door at a birthday party, and came inside to meet his baby brother. When my third child was born, my two sons were sleeping in their bedrooms, and woke to meet their baby sister before going to school that day. They didn't hear a thing, have been to births as children, and are not afraid nor mystified by childbearing.
@love143 (170)
• India
19 Dec 06
We are committed to providing a safe and wonderful birth experience for you, your partner, and your baby. Creating an atmosphere of security and comfort allows you to labor and birth more effectively--with much less need for intervention--and facilitates profound sharing between family members at such a special time. A gentle, natural birth has a positive long-lasting effect on the bonding that occurs between a new baby and its mother and father. We offer birthing services in the warm environment of your home or at our birthing center.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Who are you? Where are you? Please let us know! And please visit my website, Auntie Natal 911 http://www.auntienatal911.com
• United States
19 Dec 06
I had two home births and both I felt had the same benefits as you listed ( physical, emotional, mental, and spirtual). I did lots of research and talked to many people before I made the decision. Now I am pregnant with twins and it doesn't seem like homebirth is going to be an open this time, because they are stubborn and want to stay breech. I'll certainly miss being in the comfort of my own home.
@birthlady (5609)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Create an ideal birth plan and find a provider and hospital that has an alternative birthing center in house, called an "ABC" room. Create an ideal birth plan and work early with your provider so you can agree on the most "home like" birthing experience possible. Here's a link on how to make an ideal birth plan: Auntie Natal 911 Ideal Birth Plan http://www.auntienatal911.com/ideal_birth_plan.htm