what is it that you dont like about yourself?

@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
July 20, 2007 4:21am CST
i know there are two or more qualities of ourselves that we can really never be proud of and that we want to change, be it physical, mental or emotional. for me, one thing i dont like about myself is my tendency to be easily irritated, i can easily be pissed-off especially when i dont like someone or something. i cant show up a happy face if i dont like what's going on. and i really want to change that attitude since i know its not good. im trying to be as much as possible more cool. how about you dear friends, any attitude or qualities that you dont like about yourself and that you like to change? kindly share it to us.
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18 responses
• Indonesia
20 Jul 07
i hate myself who's tooooo lazy! sometime i say something that might hurt someone else eventhough i didn't mean it. And if i have to deal with something that i don't like it or i don't want to do it, i won't do it.If it's a must, then i'll do it but the result might not good.that's my bad habit
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Jul 07
oh, that's one problem i encounter about myself, too. not being able to watch my words and hurting someone. i had always been picky with the words i use. but thehre are times i get to be so tackless ending up hurting someone's feelings. this is one area i should really cure... anne
@puchapox (579)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
There's a lot of things I don't like about myself, but what I hate most is my lack of focus. Its hard to explain, but let me try. I am interested in a lot of things, I want to learn everything, but the problem is, I don't know which one to pursue, and which one to set aside. I still don't have a college degree because of that. I want to be everything, and what did I end up with? nothing. :( I know that I have to decide sooner or later, but i have another problem - i procrastinate.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
you just have to think about what you really want to do, then decide how will you get there. example if you want to be a businesswoman then you have to take up a business course. sometimes its more on choosing first what you really want.
@rajikoshy (741)
• India
20 Jul 07
i FORGIVE PEOPLE VERY EASILY SO EVERY ONE TAKES ADVANTAGE OF ME
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
yeah, so try to be tough sometimes my friend :) happy posting.
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
Hmnnn .. i guess thats my being hot-tempered person that easily makes me go irritated and mad. But hey, sure there's a reason why i am like that. I don't really went crazy for nothing you know. Its all with a reason. Another thing is for being an impulsive buyer. I like shopping and i just cant control myself to buy stuffs that i really dont need. I think thats one thing i'd like to change cause its killing my budget and that sucks. And i only realized that after i bought it .. hehe. Take care. (",)
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
i also tend to be a hot tempered or short tempered when i was a bit young and sometimes until now. lol. bad habbit is hard to break:)
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
being a hot tempered... in my profession being a hot tempered person is a big no, no thats why i am now practicing my patience or else i my might lose my job... lol
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
i cant easily hide my anger. am blushing. thats what i hate most. hehehe. hopefully i can manage this soon.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
i am aslo like that, when i am mad i cant speak clearly. lol
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
20 Jul 07
i would have to say my teeth are worse thing about me. i just cant stand them, i have been called so many names when growing up. i dont like my waist either but its really my own problem because of the food and no exercise so i cant really complain. but my partner says i have a real bad attitude at times lol
@zaichn (319)
• Philippines
21 Jul 07
Uhmm I think I dont like the way that I act when Im hot tempered since I can easily say things that I dont intend to say especially to my girl friend. Also, my being stubborn.. I mostly follow what I want to do for myself rather than listening to what people want me to do.. I tend to ignore what they suggest and just do my own thing and regret for doing the rhing in the end. Im not being open enough to suggestions.. that stuff.
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
i am a hot-tempered person... in my profession being a hot-tempered is a big no, no thats why i am practicing to be patient at all times...
@missweety (626)
• Latvia
20 Jul 07
I don't like about my self the feeling that i get when i an confused and i don't know what to say or what to reply when someboy is tallking or asking me, sometimes i get confused when a clever person is talking to me, or famous.... however i haven't talked with anyone famous, but i know already for sure that i would become confused and that feeling i just hate.... it remainds me my chinldhood when i was a small young shy girl, i am alone for my mum, ein't have any brothers or sisters, i didn't go the kindergarten.... tipical teenager, always problems with me....
• India
21 Jul 07
i am short tempered and get emotional but after some time i really feel for that. i know that i am king hearted.
@dafnie (382)
• United States
21 Jul 07
my vision isn't perfect. i really don't mind wearing glasses, but i remember when my glasses would break or i'd lose them or i had to change them, i had to deal with my own natural eyes. so annoying to have to depend on glasses to be able to see. now i wear contacts and sometimes i just wish i could see without having to put these things in my eyes. i don't really like my chest size, but then again, sometimes i look at others and i see that they don't have any at all or they have waaaaaaaaay too much (enough to have back problems, or it makes it hard for them to shop) so that makes me grateful for the little that i do have. it's really not that serious though, it's just that sometimes i'll be like..... hmm, if i could just have a little bit more...but i don't want plastic surgery or anything!! i'm such a nice person. okay i know it's good to be nice! but sometimes, it's hard for me to say no to people. this has caused problems between me and my former best friend because she was very demanding, she'd be like, "can u call him and tell him this? if my dad asks u what i did can u plz lie to him and tell him this? can u do my homework for me?" because i felt bad for her i'd help her out a little but it became annoying. but because i'm such a nice person, i began to "abuse" myself by making myself go through all these emotional feelings of "ugh, i don't want to do this!! but since it's the nice thing to do..."... i mean i didn't do anything crazy but.... well now these days i try to be more aggressive and stand up for what i believe is right. but then since i am a nice person, i feel like i'm being mean to the person and stuff.... whatever... i just don't wanna be too nice to the point where someone takes advantage of me!! but sometimes i'm too blind to see when they are... guess i need new glasses... okay yeah i know corny joke...
@lanbei (52)
• China
20 Jul 07
i think you are just a little straitforward,and i do not think it is not good.i like this kind of people.they are sincere and lovely. what i don't like myself is that i'm too eager to emulate.this makes me very unhappy,i wat to change myself,but i can't.so i can only accept it. after i thought more about it,i realize this is not bad,either.u can be just yourself,do not try to change it,because if u do,u are not ypurself then.
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
one thing that i dont want to myself is esaily to pity my self because sometimes i am thinking that i am alwyas inferior to the others, i like to change this attitude. but how? can u share it to me?
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
20 Jul 07
i used to be an irritable person back then. but i was able to wash it off my system. what i don't like much about myself is that i always don't do what i promised myself to do. like promising myself to eat healthier food. i end up not watching what i am eating. i just eat and eat. or, i promise myself to go into a daily exercise routine and yet, i find myself lazy doing it. and i really wanna do what i promised for myself. ... anne
@healwell (1268)
• Ahmedabad, India
20 Jul 07
In brief, unable to follow THE TRUTH completely... That is THE THING I dont like...
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
20 Jul 07
Hi, You are right...we all have something about ourselves that we do not like. For me personally it is my tendency to be overly sensitive. In other words, if somebody has criticised me I tend to take it to heart sometimes. I am learning to try to see everything in the positive light however. cheers,
@yuanchang (474)
• Philippines
20 Jul 07
i do not like myself at some points because of my irresponsibility, laziness, immaturity and some other bad habits. i am currently unemployed and i am not searching for a new job for two months now. so that is why i think i am somehow irresponsible and lazy. i do not wake up early because i always sleep late. another bad habit you may say. i just hope i can save myself for improvement.