Pyschiatric help....

Talking of psychiatric.......we need to visit our psychiatric normally say evey year of every 6 years. As we go alonf we met along problems in life and sometimes problems of our family, friends or the people around us the society. W are drained for that problems and we can surely manifested and be affected too, believe it or not. We can say, no i am not affected with that but we can't tell we did. I have ever experienced that and suddenly i noticed that i do lost weight that's the time for me to think and accept that , yes i am really affected. So for theses causes we need to consult our psychiatrist to refresh ourselves to drain out those baggage in life. We call them "expert" they studied that and learned a lot..........so their advises keeps us strong, find our weaknesses , make us aware for the next time we could encounter. They can guide us of getting confused.........so there's nothing wrong to have that check up regularly. Your friend needs therapy..your friend has this nervous breakdown. He should be away from mass of people, problems, he needs fresh air, fresh foods and accompaniment of happy people until he can dissolve that nervous breakdown. He should also help himslf, he mneeds to be strong, talk to his friends and other people who could give him positive reactions. The most important is he needs to accept the reality happening to his life. As i understand. only those people who tried to escape from reality who become insane.Just like me.............i learned that a lot of problems i encountered.............my daughter, my ex husband and the divorced too. He abandoned me and my daughter, he abused my daughter, he took my daughter and let me sleep by putting sleeping pills in my coffee so they can leave freely.......my father abandoned us, a lot more but i managed to accept every that they are not mine........GOD has plan for me.................then that's the time i got peace of mind though it is not totally. Talking to tmy psychiatrist is a big help either.,,,,,,,If you have these bundles of problem like me can you managed to overcome, what do you thik?

He is a ticking time bomb. You already know he is not stable, so, just be careful.

This is quite a difficult situation to be in if he is not thinking straight at the moment, but I suppose he felt comfortable enough to tell you his problems, especially the stalking part. He is the only one who can help himself and you can be a shoulder to cry on, but he sounds like he needs professional help. If I were you I would not get too involved as you have not seen him for ages and he may rely on you and your family too much. I hope this does not sound too harsh, you just never know people fully and when they put all their problems onto you it can be very draining, especially if they don't want to listen to your advise. Good luck and I hope he gets his life sorted out, its sounds very sad.

Tough situation... I think that if you are his real friend... you won't be afraid of him and you'll back him up with you can. The folks have sad that a friend in need is a friend indeed. So no matter what problems he has talk to him... be his psychiatrist. Because here in Bulgaria ppl don't trust psychiatrists/therapists. We count on your friends and family.