marje_09

@marje_09 (63)

Philippines • Age 68

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Who do you tell your secrets to?

Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 15 Aug 07

Who do you tell your secrets to? What do your biggest secrets involve? I have three people I tell my secrets to: 1. My mom--I can pretty much tell her anything. 2. A wonderful male friend I met online--I can tell him anything,...

secrets

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marje_09 To someone who could be "Trusted".Anyone whom i can tust no specific person. I am a type of person who can't hold anger nor pain in my heart. So i am trying to talk to someone whom i felt i can trust him/her. Now i know there could be the possibilities that...

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Do you appreciate mylot and defend it if people talk against it?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 15 Aug 07

The old saying "you can make some of the people happy some of the time..." is so true no matter what the instance might be. I've been a member of sites of all kinds and there are always a handful of people complaining about one...

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marje_09 Certainly yes, i will defend you from someone who will talk against it. I am not saying that i will make them upset nor hate them. I will do it with a compliment..........politically motivated as what others say. Let them understand how they feel and they do't...

16 Aug 07

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Does age really matter? (age gaps)

claire03 @claire03 (1443) • United States 15 Aug 07

If i ask you? Do you think age matter? if you ask me the same question, i think it does in some level but i would answer it doesn't matter if the gap is not that much. You know i just think relationship requires maturity and...

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marje_09 For me it depends for bothe parties but as of the moment it gives me a scary reaction when my ex husband abandoned me and our daughter. He run away with my cousin then late 2005 he filed an annulment as we agrred upon that next time he will betray me ........i...

16 Aug 07

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Why do people need to hate?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 16 Aug 07

There are pros and cons to the worldwide web in my view..and one of the drawbacks is the increasing ability of the hate-mongers to find channels to spew their animosity towards others in wider forums. People hate Geroge...

life coach

what purpose does it serve

why do people need to hate

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marje_09 It is already a custom of every indiovidividual to react on the things they don't like. Like your mother cooked fr your favorite dish but your sister/brother love it and he/she consumed everything that forgot to leave a slice for you. So what do you could be...

16 Aug 07

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how far would you go for revenge?

ayseteyze @ayseteyze (214) • Turkey 14 Aug 07

you know what they say, "living well is the best revenge". but some people don't seem to take this advice into consideration. do you believe that everyone should be treated as the way they treat to others? should there be a cost...

best revenge

living well is the best revenge

revenge

sweet revenge

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marje_09 It depends on the situation. Two things i could think whenever my mother or father get mad at me. I was thinking eversince when i was still achild, my mother always get mad at me. Something that pushes to ask myself who's really my mother. All houce works it...

14 Aug 07

Multi-tasking... do you like doing two or more things at the same time?

livvy @livvy092002 (1032) • Philippines 14 Aug 07

I developed that kind of habit at home.. when i had no office job before, i was considered as "the maid" at home..lolz.. i do the cooking, the sweeping, and the washing of dishes at the same time! Can you believe that?? well, it...

double work

multiple tasks

several work at the same time

work

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marje_09 Yes i love doing two things sometimes more things at a time. I usually do that at home too.Just like baby setting, doing household chores. I do cooking, laundrey manaually, cleaning the house and a lot more. Sometimes it depends on the time i am consuming for...

14 Aug 07

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When Do You Feel Most Alone?

sr0415 @sr0415 (1140) • Philippines 13 Aug 07

I live a happy life. I have a sunny disposition on things and I was just lucky enough to have friends and real friends with me. Since elementary, I always have friends to share common interests with. I can run to my closest...

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marje_09 I felt most alone when times my daughter had left me with his dad. Not even asking permission or anything to inform me that she will be staying with her dad. It's the most vulnerable unforgetable thing for me....................She left but her father told her...

14 Aug 07

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If he cheated on you, would you want to know the truth?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 13 Aug 07

Sometimes I think that it is better not to know the truth about a cheating spouse, especially if you love that person. When you know the truth you have to deal with it. And, sometimes dealing with the truth means breaking up your...

cheating husbands

cheating spouses

investigate your spouse

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marje_09 Yes i love to know if my husband cheated me, i need the reason why he did that to me. The fact is, i wanted to hear his reason then i will try to see if what part i did mislead him to do so. I might have something to correct or to improve to make sure if he...

14 Aug 07

Do get embarrassed or uncomfortable when a mom is breastfeeding in public?

wotfpatty @wotfpatty (2065) • United States 14 Aug 07

So... I am a mom of older kids. I didn't breast feed either for long. My first son, I only did for 6 weeks because he was just a hungry, hungry hippo and my second, only for a few weeks because I needed medication that wasn't good...

breastfeeding in public

breastfeeding with discretion

do you breasyfeed in public

feeding babies

reactions to breastfeeding

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marje_09 Sometimes we felt shy if someone could see our private part in public and that is one the breast. I felt embarrassed to see a mom breast feed her child even in passenger jeep. The men will simply look at them specially the young mother who got a great look. I...

14 Aug 07

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How long does it take to get a response when you post a discussion?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 12 Aug 07

Most days it only takes a matter of minutes to get my first response when I post a discussion. My friends on My Lot are always nice enough to respond when they can find a few minutes. But, some days I find that there are very few...

chat with friends online

post a discussion on my lot

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marje_09 I am doing my discussion at night here when i come home from work. As far as i have seen.......it's 12 hours i think then i could have a response. However i take considerations that i got different hours from other people who join mylot. But of course it;s a...

13 Aug 07

What's the next big thing you're going to have to buy?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 12 Aug 07

Our next big purchase will most likely be another window air conditioner. Our window air conditioners are acting up and don't work right. And, it's way too hot to live in this type of heat! This past week we had to buy a truck,...

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marje_09 The next big thing i am going to buy is...........MY OWN HOUSE. I don't have a house of my own.........right now i and my daughter is staying in the house ......................our conjugal property. My ex husband doesn't want to give this house to me. He...

13 Aug 07

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What is the last thing you think about before going to sleep at night?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 13 Aug 07

I'm usually watching tv and trying not to think about any of the negative events of the day but when they start creeping into my mind I try to think about my kids and wonder if they had a good day and are doing ok if I haven't...

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marje_09 Before i sleep at night..... i think of GOD. That GOD would guide me to find the right person for me. To love me for what i am. So i could help my daughter and the 3 grandkids. I keep on wishing and praying that before i get lost in this earth, i could give...

13 Aug 07

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Do you check your earnings everytime you log in to mylot?

livvy @livvy092002 (1032) • Philippines 12 Aug 07

I have the habit of first checking my earnings after logging in to mylot.. eventhough i have just posted so much the day before, i just wanted to check how much i earned the previous day. :-) So, before i start posting comments...

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marje_09 Oh sure......i always check my earning everytime i go online at mylot. I don't want to be called a "loar" if i will say no. I really need badly the money because for a capila in the business i am planning .............i know i need such big amount to start for...

13 Aug 07

Punishment From Mother Nature

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 12 Aug 07

Man's greed for maintaining his material comforts have turned him into brutal exploitation of natural resources . Indescriminate felling of trees have resulted in soil erosion and floods. Most of our modern amenities are at the...

nature

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marje_09 It's hard to witness the pnishment of the mother earth. Our Ecology had been disregarded................burning here and there, plastic or rubber. Cutting tress by those rich people who can manage the authority in charge. Where they should replace young tress...

13 Aug 07

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Someone wants me out of MyLot!

naty1941 @naty1941 (2336) • United States 11 Aug 07

I received a message on my Live Journal from someone, calling me awful names, which I can not repeat, and telling me to get off myLot. I have no idea who it is but the main problem with the person is that I am a Puerto Rican;...

discrimination

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marje_09 Please don't don't mind them. You must think that you are also Human Being as they are. So they might be teasing you and just using that awful words to challenge you. I am a filipino and very proud to be. I do have flat and big nose not so much. i am very poor...

12 Aug 07

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