My husband's bestfriend

@Jazz65 (22)
United States
August 26, 2007 9:09pm CST
How would you feel when your husbands widowed bestfriend keeps on communicating with him through emails and phone calls? Would you feel insecure or jealous?
4 responses
@fawcey (926)
• Australia
27 Aug 07
I would if it was taking away time you and your hubby could be spending together. If it is interupting your relationship with your husband then I think it needs to be looked at. You and him are the number one piority, and you have a right to feel a little jealous and a bit insecure. Talk to your hubby you might come up with a solution or at best have peace of mind. All the best. =)
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
27 Aug 07
I will feel jealous only if my relationship with my husband has some gap or we don't communicate or sweet at home. But if my relationship with my husband works well and go smoothly, there is no way for me to feel jealous to anyone not even to his bestfriend. Instead of being jealous with my husband's bestfriend, i will encourage that his bestfriend be open at our home and have some bonding as family friend.
@hazydazy (783)
• United States
27 Aug 07
I think it just might be her way of having a part of her husband. If they were best friends they have many memories together and talking to him is in a way talking to her husband. I don't think that there is anything to worry about. He isn't hiding it from you.
@yemberzal (301)
• India
27 Aug 07
When a man and woman, whom are not married , keep contacts in between , it is easy for satin to make them commit adultery and it is wise for married persons not to make advances towards other woman. For you to feel insecure is natural and necessary.