Has CPS/ social services ever been involved with your family?

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The agency has different names in different US states; child protective services, department of social service, etc. I wonder if agencies like this even exist in other countries? In theory their duties are to investigate allegations of child abuse, offer support & assistance to families in need of services, and when needed place children (temporarily) in foster care or other safe homes. In reality they are often too quick to act on subjective opinions of parenting, too slow to act when there is actual abuse and often fail to inspect the foster homes well enough to insure that they are in fact safe. I think we can all agree that intentionally burning a child with a cigarette is abuse. Not feeding your child for days, is neglect & abuse. Abuse of those kinds are clear, and of course children need to be protected from sadistic, evil people even if they share DNA with them. Those cases are rare. What about sending a child to bed without dinner because the child refused to eat the meal? Or failing/forgetting to put sunscreen on a child when playing at the park? Perhaps those are poor judgment calls. Perhaps those are honest mistakes. Perhaps those are completely reasonable choices parents can make for their children. Should they be grounds for "emergency" removal of YOUR child? How about breastfeeding beyond the one year mark (btw the World Health Organization recommends breastfeeding for a MINIMUM of 2 years)? How about refusing to vaccinate your child because your other child had a severe & life threatening reaction to the same vaccine? Are those your rights as parents or should the government make those choices for you? I don't feel I can share the details of my particular situation at this time, as it's still pending. These examples are based on stories I have heard from others and liberally altered to protect the family's privacy. But I'd like to hear from other parents who have had experiences with these social agencies; whether first hand or a friends experience. Do you feel like the child's needs & best interests were the first concern of all involved? Did the agency help the family with legit concerns & needs? What was the final outcome? Etc. In my not so humble opinion, I feel these agencies should be disbanded. They're buckling under their own weight & they are failing at their duties again & again. Actual abuse should be a criminal matter. It's illegal to assault anyone regardless of their age. We have police departments & criminal courts to handle these cases. A smaller agency to handle the few families who need temporary foster care in times of emergencies should be established. And the monies now used to fund these agencies should be re-invested in agencies that provide family services & advertisement that lets families know these programs are available. For example DSS in my state can provide referrals for daycare vouchers to families in need; let's just re-direct those families directly to the agencies providing these vouchers? Heck- removing the middle man would probably free up enough monies to provide more daycare slots. Please share your experiences, positive & negative. If the case is still pending, omit where the case is happening & any identifying details.