I am worry about everything!

Philippines
September 19, 2007 1:39pm CST
I am worried being a mom, a wife, a sister, a daugther and a friend!
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16 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
19 Sep 07
I would have to ask you Nancy what makes you worry so much. Have you had a bad experience in your life that came from no where? If not then why do you worry? You have to come to an understanding that life is never just the way we would plan it. Never. Sometimes it is far better and other times perhaps worse but it is what it is...life. While you worry you miss so much. If you are a good mom, wife, sister, daughter, and friend then you beat out so many other people who are not these things. You are dearly loved by those people because you care so much. But your worry hurts only one person.....YOU. We have very little to no control over where life will take us. Because we do not always have control we then should relax and let the miracle of life happen. Be responsible for what you can and let the rest go. You will be amazed at how much more relaxed and relieved you will be. Think back over your life and count the number of times that the things you worried about came to pass. Not many would be my guess. Often what happens in life is unexpected and that can be a blessing. So welcome to Mylot and enjoy the process. Let it take you mind off these worries. Lot's of good people here so take advantage.
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• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Very well said! I am worried because I dont know what might life would lead me at these stages of my life. I really don't have trouble, it is me who trouble myself thinking why I am still in the place where I dont wanna be? I've worked at a very good Financial Institution before, I missed office works I guess. But so many things happened which I dont want to.
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@kitty1234 (1476)
• United States
21 Sep 07
Don't worry about things that have not happened yet! Life has a way of balancing out and if we worry about every little thing we will all be crazy! We have very little control over things so why waste our energy and time on worrying!
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
ur right kitty i agree,nacy dont worry the thing that never happen yet,dont used ur mind to think like that ,,,just relax girl! ,be calm,,just keep praying ..everything will be alright,..good luck to u !
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@luckywolf (154)
• China
22 Sep 07
i am agree with daintydonna much,what she said i thought was very believable,donot let you in the trouble imaged by yourself,make up your mind,believe yourself,every day is a new day,you will never know what will gona to happen,gather up your courage,you can do everything completely wonderful.^_^
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@dianagnes (1088)
• Singapore
21 Sep 07
Don't be worry to much with almost everything surrounds you.Just Relax and lead life as if you are enjoying it like no one cares.Really..stay Cool.Worrying over something that is not too much may have give effects in your life.Just stay calm and have a smooth journey ahead in your life.
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• Kottayam, India
22 Sep 07
I am your partner in worrying about many things.Welcome to Mylot.Be frank and vibrant at this place and slowly you can get some dollars.
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@CEN7777 (855)
• India
22 Sep 07
Hey dear friend Nancy,why should you worry , add new friends on my lot. and add me as a friend.we all help you to come out of worries.Please believe in your self. Have good confidence , you will prove your self a good mom, sister , wife and friend.
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@meaculpa (338)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Worries do not give good results. Have no fear, believe in yourself. Have a positive outlook in life. Just be yourself, never make pretensions, be honest to yourself and to others whether you are a mom, a wife, a sister, a daughter and a friend. Enjoy life, share the love you have! Most of all, pray and cast all your worries to the Lord!
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@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 07
Why you are so worried?
@xboxboy (5576)
19 Sep 07
lets start of by being a friend! welcome to mylot! i hope you enjoy it here. we will get back to your other issues soon!
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@UNPINOY (361)
• Philippines
24 Sep 07
hello nancy! as i read between lines, i know you are a good person. you want to be the best mom in the world, the best wife, the best sister, the best daughter, the best best friend. yes you can be all this. there is already the good starting point, you want to be! stop worrying, you won't accomplish anything of the above. i suggest that for you to get more information, how to be the one you want to be. read a lot, talk to people about roles in life, how they deal with relationships....you will be the best you can be. believe...probably you already are!!!! you are just not noticing perhaps, people around you love you so much, as mom, wife, sister, daughter, and friend. you are a great person, your sensitivity is one great ingredient to your person. keep smiling now, Perry
@chym1101 (169)
• China
19 Sep 07
Hello,nancygomezbrions! Why do you worry about this? I think you should thank God because you have a chance to be a mom, a wife, a sister, a daugher and a friend! How happy you are. As you are so many roles, there must be lots of persons care about you and love you. right? I am now a daughter, a sister and a friend. I feel so happy! I love my parents and they love me. I am getting on well with my younger brother, and I thank God for giving me a brother. When it comes to a friend, it is wonderful, we study and enjoy ourselves together. One day, I will be a wife and then a mom too. I look foward to it. When it comes, I will enjoy it, loving my husband and children. best wishes,and you are really a lucky one!
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• Philippines
19 Sep 07
I just want to share this with you, a message forwarded by my friend. "Did you know that 92% of what we worry about never happens? And that the 8% is usually manageable? Worry is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it gets you nowhere." So stop worrying too much and think of happy thoughts.
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
23 Sep 07
Why worry about everything? Life is too short to fill with worries, Just do what you can do as a mom, wife, sister, daugther, and a friend. NO need to prove or achieve something. As long as you are doing and giving your best always then there should be no room for worries. Pray a lot also because it helps you overcome all your worries and will strengthen you in times of feeling so weak. Socializa and have circle of friends to talk about everything. Having people around to talk with is also a form of therapy and unloading your burdens.
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Hello Nancy, Welcome to myLot! Don't waste your time and energy in needless worries. Establishing a goal and working towards it might get your mind off these worries. Life is short, be happy, there are so many little things to find joy in. Take care :)
• Pakistan
24 Sep 07
Don't worry dude, everything gonna be fine, I am sure.
• United States
22 Sep 07
Philippians 4: 6. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
@beaniegdi (1964)
22 Sep 07
Don't be worrying about so much. Worry is wasted energy as it gets us nowhere but we use a lot of energy doing it. Like rocking in a rocking chair, lots of effort that gets you nowhere. If there is a problem try to solve it, if you can't then try to accept it, think in terms of problems and solutions. The worry is always worst than the thing you are worrying about. Try to take some time each day to relax, exercise, eat well and try to get enough sleep as that can help us face our problems a bit better. Why not come on here more often and share your worries as that can help reduce the power they have over us.