Do you find your life is just plain boring or do you have enough excitement?
By peanutjar
@peanutjar (5198)
Canada
September 29, 2007 8:57pm CST
What do you do to get out of the boring life routine that took over your excitable life?I use to go out and have fun,watch movies and always did some kind of excitement,now im just plain boring with no excitement of what life has to offer.Blahhhh!:{
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6 responses
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
30 Sep 07
HAving a coffee at the coffee shop with my friends. Talking and sharing moments:) sometimes to watch a live band show. Watch a dvd movies at home with my family. But most of the time me and my father only enjoy watching it. hehehe. Play table tennis with my older brother. Invite my bestfriend to go to the beach and enjoy talking, laughing and sharing again while watching the beautiful shore.:)Open and visiting mylot. Sometimes chatting.:)
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
30 Sep 07
Hi ciades!This is one of the problems.I dont have anyfriends here at all.My boyfriends has friends but not to go visit and do stuff with.Hes a very quiet person and i feel lonely with friends.I ve tried to make friends but find it hard living in a french speaking town and im english.I learnt french though,but alot of people dont want nothing to do with me because they dont understand english at all.Ive lost contact over the years with old friends where i lived before and theyve moved away,far away.I would love to go with a friend for a coffee and just talk and have that feeling of a close girlfriend relationship again.This is why i joined mylot,to find friends and develop a relationship with people that i do not have here.Im dying for it,lol.:)
@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
30 Sep 07
Hi peanutjar,
I am a stay at home mom of a 15 almost 16 month old, so I never have a dull moment except when she is sleeping lol. As far as I can see their is always something fun you can do, routines do get boring I'll be the first one to admit that, but my daughter and I always find something new and exciting to do! Take Care Hun!
Your Friend, PurpleTeddyBear ;)

@PurpleTeddyBear (6685)
• Canada
1 Oct 07
I too have been staying home with my daughter since she was born and honestly I wouldn't trade it for the world! Especially getting all of the firsts with them :) Have a good day!
Love & Hugzz, Your Friend, PurpleTeddyBear ;)
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
30 Sep 07
Hi!I kind of miss my independance alittle from staying home since she was born.My boyfriend loves it that im home raising her and taking care of things.At least he trusts me and my judgements enough for this and i should be happy.I need to take life less serious and enjoy what i do have now and the kind of life i have,because alot of people would like to have this too what we have as stay at home moms.:)
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Sep 07
My Life is fine now
I do not find it boring at all after many years my Life is how I want it
The only thing that is missing in my Life is that I am able to go to work but I make the best of it as I have no choice on that matter but no I do not find my Life boring just a bit lost at times but not very often
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
30 Sep 07
I think maybe im starting to feel selfish and just live life as is.I should be happy but its hard to get out of a rut.I will try to start enjoying life and what it has to offer while my daughter is little,because someday soon she will be allgrown up and start a life of her own and i will regret alot of stuff.I dont know how long i have on this earth but will make the most of my life enjoying what it has to offer.:)
@AmbiePam (121059)
• United States
30 Sep 07
I have enough excitement, but it's all of the wrong kind! I want and need the good excitement. I don't know how to change all that because life is life. I can't change major parts of my life because they aren't fixable (for example my health problems). I do hope for better things, and if I see a chance for more excitement, I'll take it. : )
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
30 Sep 07
Hi ambiepam!Im sorry to hear that you dont feel well:(Its hard to try and fix some things in life that are not fixable.I try to be a more outgoing peron but find it very hard lately to get out of the rut im in.I think i need to take life less seriuos and enjoy what it has to offer me.I think that time is now while my daughter is young and enjoy the time i have with her while she is little,because in a matter of time she will be all grown up.:(
@theprogamer (10532)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Its okay as is. But from time to time I want to go motocrossing, 4 wheeling, bungee jumping, skydiving. There are other times I don't want that much excitement but just want to get away for a bit like on a boat or an airship(the fantasy kind ;p)
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@crazy_ol_lady (1014)
• United States
30 Sep 07
Hi peanutjar,
Well, I don't think that my life is boring. I have 5 children, 17 grandchildren, and there is always someone areound. Each person brings something different to my life. Some are older and wiser, some are young and naive. Some are more experienced than others, some are friendlier, some are more stubborn, some are timid, and some are just so mellow and easy going. See there is lots of variety there.
When no one is around, I enjoy time to myself. It is a time of thinking things through, and clearing my head, and completing things that I have started. I enjoy reading, watching a little tv, or just mylotting while listening to music.
If I need more excitement, I just go visiting. There you can always find some drama. There are always others that have it worst than you, so try to make it better for them, and yourself. Make new friends, that can help, especially if you have similar interests.
Hope this was helpful to you. Help someone else to not be so bored.
Happy posting..
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
30 Sep 07
Hi!Making new friends is something that i want to do badly and actually need this kind of thing in my life right now.Mt daughter is starting kindergarden tuesday and hopefully she will make a new friend and me too,ha,ha.This is what is missing in my life,friends.Yes it was very helpfull of you,nice and good advice too.:):)






