Can a Wife Cheat His Husband

Pakistan
October 1, 2007 12:02am CST
all girls and womans i am not married right now but i have a spouse and we love each other very much, when i enter to this section i found many discussions with a word of cheat. so want it to know that if i wll marry with her that i what situations she will cheat me if i will ignore her than?because right i am not doing a job i give her time but after few days when i will become married and ofcourse i will to office and i will give her not more than time, so what are the causes that yor wife starts to cheat you and what is way to stop this, i know that husbands are also cheater but right now i want you to answer my question
12 responses
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
1 Oct 07
Cheating is a fact of life my dear furqanoops, it is the clandestine game that people of all walks of life do and play innocent. I look at the the most pious of men and women and I know when it comes to cheating, they are moving hypocrytes. To answer you directly, a man will always be cheated by his wife and believe you me, a woman is always equally cheated by her husband!
• United States
1 Oct 07
What a horrible thing to say!!! Not all people are adulterous jerks. Neither my husband nor I have EVER cheated on one another. How dare you.
@2btrueinu (703)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
As you said you love each other very much then you trust her right. But sometimes it happen we cheat but in a very valid reason and I am sure that we will talk about it. I confess to him what I did and we talk about it and it settled. But it does'nt mean that if he forgive me I will keep on doing it of course a big "NO" I respect him as he repect me, He forgive me as I forgive him but It depends to the thing we will commit When you going in a relationship its a package all of the trials you will encounter ups and down they say but it will help to strenghten you relationship to each other. Sometimes you have to swallow your pride to fully understand each other
@ciades (1624)
• Philippines
2 Oct 07
Yeh, It is possible. Woman is like a man also. Woman and man are both human. Woman also need and wanting something. In order to avoid this. You should show to her that you care and love her. Include her to your busy schedules. Set aside a time for her. Don't ignore her. Support and comfort her. Suprise her with sweet thought and things. happy positng:)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
Anybody can cheat anybody. I think you're afraid of being cheated. I can sense it in your text. The best way to live with your spouse is be a faithful one.What goes aroud comes around they say. Meaning if your a cheat chances are your spouse will just retaliate and do the same. But if you show her that you're faithful to her I don'tthink she will be an undesirable spouse. Be faithful buddy and have peace of mind !!!
@creaaam (42)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
i guess she can. there will always be a time in your reLationship wherein you will seek for another person's company. but i think somewhere aLong that, the wife(or the cheater in any case) will soon realize the vaLue of his partner...and if they'll allow..they can start aLL over again ^_^ but i think LOVE & RESPECT WILL ALWAYS BE THERE :D
@jhanna (335)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
My dear, love is the foundation of marriage. If this is a little out of shape, cheating can occur. But you know, temptations are all around us. It is up to us to give in or fight it. Trust is also another foundation of marriage. Before you marry your girl be sure she is 100% in love with you and faithful to you and respect you. In your part, you should always let her feel that you love her and adore and respect her and accept her for what she is. You should let her feel especial. Even if you will be out the whole day because you are working, you should always have time for her, no matter how tired you are and you have a hell time at the office. Never bring your misery in the office at home. Always keep the romance alive in your marriage until your old age. Humor in the relationship is also another thing. And last but not the least, couple should have an open communication. One reason of divorce is lack of communication between partners. If you have conflict, it is better to talk it out right away and never sleep without solving the problem. Practice the art of listening. When you know you are at fault, you shut your mouth and don't make any justification for that fault. Admit that your are wrong. Don't shout at each other and never lay a finger on her. The list could go on and on. I just hope I was of help.
• Nigeria
1 Oct 07
Some times it is due to the man cearlesness. they got married to some-one that is destined for them, they don't give them what they want,the men don't know their pains,their trials, the time of thier difficultise or taking the neccesary responsibilities.I think this could be some of the possible cause of a woman cheating her man. the possible way of stoping it is look criticaly on the courses of her cheating him.
• China
1 Oct 07
the husbands and the wife is trust each other ,this is blessedness life
• Bangladesh
1 Oct 07
Wife cheats her husband, as I know according to my friend, he was out of country for six months but regularly he called her over telephone, he sent money, gifts, else what she asked for. But the wife fallen love with a boy, start enjoying like husband-wife. She was acting with my friend just to get money and other facilities. One day she asked my friend to send her big amount of money to buy a appartment, he gave but the cheater wife leave the house forever and divorce my friend then got marry with the boy.
@jipang (39)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 07
For me, what happen to us is what we've done to somebody before. Just it. Simple. So, I don't think my wife will cheat me if I won't. If it still happen, may be something wrong there. I talk to my wife early when we got married. I talk indirectly. And thank God, she got it. So, I trust her and she trust me. Never make mistake. Once we make a mistake, all of our kind and good thing gone.
@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 07
Hi furqanoops, For me, i think one couple should not cheat to each others!If we have notice and found that our fiance will cheat us in the early time, then what for we want to marry them? Am i right? But for those who have married have found their spouse are chaeting, they should find out the reasons why did so? Just maybe they do not want their spouse worry to them. But it is a wrong thinking which they will think that we not trusthy and not sincere. So, you may talk to your wife that both of you should not cheat to each other before want to get marry. Should speak out anything and do not put in the heart. If you find out they cheat, you may ask them why they do so. Listen to them patiently and do not simply make own conclusion. If it is not a big matter, then you can forgive them and get them a chance. Everyone will make mistake, so try to forgive them. Wife will starts to cheat their husband when they think them cheating on them too, do not treat them nice compare with previous or their husband do not show their love to them. So , husband should spend more time to accompany them and listen to them.
• United States
1 Oct 07
First of all, how can you be unmarried but have a spouse? Spouse means “person I'm married to”. I think you to say mean fiancee, which means “woman I'm going to marry”. Anyway, not all women cheat and those who do have many, many different reasons for doing so. There's really no list on how to prevent cheating, just be a good man and a good husband and hopefully she's a good woman.