Would it bother you if your best friend was dating your brother/sister??
By peanutjar
@peanutjar (5198)
Canada
October 17, 2007 8:48am CST
Would this bother you?Best friends share everything and talk and sometimes they tell you about their relationships.I would not like to know the personal stuff about my brother one bit,plus i dont think id like my best friend with my brother.How about you?
5 responses
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
No. It wont bother me at all. They have there own thinking you know. They are old enough to decide. If they like each other then its fine with me. i know them both. They are both nice and good person. I may have give some advices and its up to them if they will follow it or not. Its there personal stuff. :)
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
26 Oct 07
Hello ciades.Well i would feel the same as you too,because like you said they are old enough to do their own thinking of who they want to be with and i kind of would not want to interfer in it and maybe possibly loose both of them.
Peanutjar:)
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@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 07
guess not. just don't tell me all the details and don't abandon me as a friend, just because she's too busy dating my brother. hehe.
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@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
26 Oct 07
Hello kevsgirlalways.I would not want to know any details either,hehe and would feel sad if i was suddenly dropped as a friend due to the dating game.
Peanutjar:)
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
27 Feb 08
yeah i think that sort of thing doesn't work. in fact i had a friend who would hate for any of her friends to date her brother. and she had quite a dateable brother. but because we were her close friends, we thought he was off limits cos it would be too weird.
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
27 Feb 08
It actually is very weird squaretile. I sort of had a huge crush on my best friends brother and even though we got together a few times, it didn't feel right knowing his sister was my best friend. It was just too close you know! I know she wasn't comfortable about it either even though she said it didn't bother her, but I knew it did so just put a stop to it altogether! he's still a hottie though LOL
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
17 Oct 07
of course it will bother me. imagine your bestfriend try to date your sister/brother without your information. it will make you think that your best friend might use you to be with your brother/sister. what is better is try to confront your bestfriend to submit if she/he really dates your sister/brother. its a test of honesty my friend.
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@chym1101 (169)
• China
18 Oct 07
hello, peanutjar. I think i don't mind it. I even want to introduce my best friend to my cousin to make them be lovers. I love my friend so much that i don't want to separate with her so if she is my sister-in-law we will be togeter forever maybe. Certainly this is just what i am thinking of... After all, friendship plus relative is stronger than friendship only. This is also one of my dreams. My friend is the most perfect girl and my cousin is the most perfect boy i have known, so how i wish they can be together!
Whether you like or not, the fate of the lovers maybe arranged by the above already. Just to accept it!
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
18 Oct 07
I dont care who my best friend dates even if its my sister,mom,dad,brother,uncle,aunt,cousin even me for all i care,hahaha.I hope you do get your wish.
:)
