Would you still love your GF if she cheats on you? (Or BF cheats on his GF)

I always believe that 'once a cheater, always a cheater' so definitely, I wouldn't love my bf anymore if he cheated on me. If he really loves me, he would have talked to me if he got any problems with our relationship; and not to cheat right away, leaving me with questions on why he did that. If I would still love him (which is impossible) and the relationship continues (which for sure is not the same as before since it's already tainted), that would mean Im giving him the chance to cheat on me again.

i think i can not answer it exactly .i will forgive her if i love her still after she have done it. you know the emotion can't be understand fully.and if she do cheat me about sometimes. i don't think i will forgive her.

Its depend on the situation. Maybe love is still there but i can't accept him as my partner anymore. Coz i am afraid it will not be work. Trust is gone. And Trust is very important to a relationship. Its hard though.

Ha ha, nice joke! Could have used a firing squad though. No I wouldn't love a GF or wife after she cheated on me. Its happened and it wasn't fun. Sure there would be residual feelings, but the anger and betrayal negate that so I don't worry about it. You're better off not trusting or loving that lying cheater again! You don't want to be hurt twice or God forbid MULTIPLE times just because you can't stop loving them. Guess what, you don't stop loving them, they probably won't stop cheating, so why bother!?

I think I have zero tolerance about cheating. That's why I do my best for not cheating too. Just can't accept a partner that cheated on me. No excuse! Am I to strict?

I don't think so. Love is built on trust.

I could never love someone who cheats on me. Obviously if they are cheating, it means they don't love me anymore, so if they dont love me than why should I love them?

well,i think i can't accept that my bf cheat on me. there's no excuse for doing it~he did it once, and probability have the second,third... breakup will be the best way!

Well if i really catch him and he really cheats on me well i think i will still forgive him. I know thats a very naive move but if you really love someone you will accept his mistakes if he is doing it again..well im not going to put up with that.. and thats really over. One BIG mistake is enough.

huh! well, cheating only means that your gf does not love you. It is an insult for me if I accept his mistakes. Yes, there is forgiveness but there is no more love. There are lot of beatiful ladies out there. Why you will suffer in to that kind of girl when you can find someone who is better.