Campaigning To Pro Life...Are you with me??

@ayou82 (3460)
Philippines
November 11, 2007 9:40am CST
I was reading some discussions here a while ago and as I was observing the numbers of mylotters who are seeking for help about early motherhood, pregnancy,and life. It seems they are so confuse. If you are in the hot seat what will you tell this kids who are not really prepared to face the reality of Life having kids,early motherhood and unwanted pregnancy. The Hot Seats are Now yours..what is your say???
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5 responses
• United States
11 Nov 07
It depends entirely on the girl and her situation, but I have no problem whatsoever advocating abortion and her choice to have one if she really wants to. There are too many girls who don't think abortion is a valid option and end up hurting themselves, ruining their lives, or actually killing the baby after it's born because their scared of what people would say if they got an abortion or they're uneducated about what it really is. Every female has the choice to do what she wants with her body, if she doesn't want to gestate a pregnancy, she doesn't have to.
• United States
11 Nov 07
thats what adoption is for...
• United States
12 Nov 07
Unwanted parenthood is solved by adoption. Unwanted pregnancy is solved by abortion. Which is why I specifically said gestation. No woman is required to be degraded and dehumanized into nothing but a walking incubator for some bigoted infertile couple who refuses to adopt an older or non-race specific child.
• Canada
12 Nov 07
Kids who go through adoption have a lot of abandonment issues as well. Not all of them can be adopted. Many of them end up in the foster system.
@FLmom26 (142)
• United States
11 Nov 07
My choice is life. But I have never been in a situation like some girls have. I worked with a girl who considered an abortion and everyone else that worked there was mad at her and didn't treat her very nicely. I simply told her that I did not agree with her choice - I think everylife is precious no matter what- and I wanted her to change her mind, but I would not mistreat her because we didn't agree. That would be my response to anyone contemplating this decision. We don't know how their life is, so we can't judge. Every person is different, but for me, I could not do it. I think if you're not prepared to be a mother, adoption is a better option. There are so many people out there who want children and can not have them, why not help them and your child at the same time. Some loving couple gets a child to care for and raise and your baby get everything he/she deserves.
• United States
11 Nov 07
If you say every life is precious, what about the girl's life? Do you have any idea how earth-shattering it can be to be forced to carry a pregnancy you don't want? Pregnancy is hard, grueling and expensive in the first place, if you don't want it, it only makes it that much more traumatic.
@FLmom26 (142)
• United States
12 Nov 07
Yes, I feel every life is precious. And the girl I worked with, her life is too. Which is why I said I would NOT treat her badly just because I didn't agree with her choice. It was her life, and her choice to make. I couldn't live her life for her. And in the end, she CHOSE to keep her baby.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
12 Nov 07
I have a precious 20 month old nephew who was born to my niece when she was eighteen years old. He has brought so much joy and happiness to my family. Every life deserves the best chance at living that is possible. You never know what a blessing that child could bring to your life. My niece was very angry before she had him. Now, she has experienced love like never before. Everything happens for a reason and a child is a blessing. If you change your mind, after the baby is born, you can always give the baby up to someone who will give your child the love it needs. Give life, don't ever take it away.
@Monkeyrose (2849)
• Canada
12 Nov 07
This is a really heated topic generally. I believe in pro-choice. Personally I don't think I would be able to have an abortion but I beilieve it is every woman's right to choose. That being said I respect others opinions. I do not believe it is right to chastise someone for their actions though. If you are a true christian then you will understand that the issue is between god and the woman. Once the deed is done harassing her won't do any good.
@milkfish (375)
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
I'm definitely a pro-life advocate. One mistake committed (unwanted pregnancy) can never be corrected by doing another mistake (abortion). These helpless fetus has nothing to do with the mistakes we made in our life. I believe that abortion is a mortal sin and only God has the power to end a persons life. The best way to address this is for the kids to taught of good values at home so that when they grow up they will make good decisions in life. Support group should be extended also to those who got pregnant at a young age so that they will not reach the point of desperation and have their babies aborted. Abortion is like murder. The cries of these unborn fetus will haunt us forever.