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hvedra @hvedra (1623) 22 Mar 10

How do you deal with attention seeking in adults? I am getting a bit fed up with someone doing this all the time. I recognise that this person is very insecure and screwy because of their upbringing but when they are supposedly...

attention

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milkfish I think the best way to deal with them is to ignore them. If we give them the necessary attention at first but still they repeat the same drama to the point that it becomes routine, ignore them. They will continue their acts because they thought it is the best...

23 Mar 10

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much2say - SmilePie @much2say (45403) • Los Angeles, California 14 Feb 10

My daughter is now 5. She was always a great sleeper - but the older she got, the more she let her imagination get away with her. We always told her that if she needed more water or got too scared that she could come to us. Well,...

parental solutions

reward system

staying in bed at night

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milkfish I employed the same strategy with my 4 year old daughter. I have been training her not to wet her bed but to no avail. Sometimes she will wake up and go to the bathroom to pee but most of the time she sleeps so deep that she did not even notice that she is...

14 Feb 10

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cherryann @cherryann (73) • Philippines 10 Feb 10

In life there is always this color that we can associate or life into. For me it's a mix of green and blue because i do have a lot of greens for happy moments and achievements and blue for those unhappy moments. But there is one...

color

life

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milkfish My life is a rainbow of colors. There are bright days and gloomy days.I have my own share of ups and downs, but over-all it was a wonedrful life. The say that we can only appreciate light if we have been through the dark. I think it's the same with colors of...

14 Feb 10

allenbucks @allenbucks (289) • Philippines 4 Jul 09

Which one do you like? Well in our province which is Oriental Mindoro, we don't have McDonalds there, only Jollibee. And when I was still studying there at our province, Jollibee is one of my favorite fastfood chain. I usually eat...

jollibee

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milkfish I love Jollibee's breakfast choices and chicken joy.I love McDo's fries and other side dishes. But my kid love Jollibee all the time. I think it has something to do with the look of the mascot. Jollibee's mascot look "friendlier" to the kids eyes thats why...

28 Jan 10

chantalgiardina @chantalgiardina (2527) • United States 27 Jan 10

Why is it so much harder to shop for men on valentines day? I mean women its easy, candy, chocolate covered strawberries, roses, teddy bears, jewelry, dinner, etc.. soooo much to choose from. but men? What do you buy for men...

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milkfish I agree that it is really difficult to think of gifts for men. They are not really into fashion so we could not buyt them fashionable clothes. Most of them are not vain like women, so cosmetics is out of question. I think they are more into practical gadgets...

27 Jan 10

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

I usually do the move in order not to make things worse when I and my love one fight. It is sometimes hard especially if I think that i am not the one at fault but just to resolve things and make our relationship work better I...

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milkfish I do it first if I know that I am the one at fault. I think couple should be humble enough to learn to say sorry when they know that they are at fault. If they will not accept their shortcomings, the simple misunderstanding may grow into a major argument and...

27 Jan 10

rosey19 @rosey19 (951) • Philippines 27 Jan 10

i want to ask this who experienced having several relationships which i never had, if how did you treat your ex, whenever you have met him somewhere? do you still feel something for him even if both of you have found a new love?

feelings

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milkfish Me and my ex are working on the same department together with his present wife so the situation is quite complicated.We have a not so good separation but all of it was in the past already, I have moved on already and married a wonderful man. To avoid...

27 Jan 10

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taki_takaishi @taki_takaishi (1280) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

The first Presidential Ad I saw on television was the Ad of Manny Villar. A few ads later there was this that was like released around december the ad about kids singing and all. Then presidential ads one by one made are being...

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milkfish Yes, I am getting sick and tired already of political ads in our country. There is just too much politics and mudslinging going on especially during election period. Politicians and candidates are spending too much money on ads and campaign paraphernalias. It...

26 Jan 10

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dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5667) • Philippines 26 Jan 10

Many people especially in Asian countries like the Philippines do want to have fairer skin. This is the reason why whitening soaps are really very saleable. Many women want to have fairer and whiter skin. I am...

soap

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milkfish I do no use any whitening soap, I love my brown skin. For Asians, like Filipinos, wanting to have a fairer skin is a colonial mentality thing. Our country have been colonized by people who belong to "white" race and because of our history, we tend to connote...

26 Jan 10

pob558 @pob558 (18) • Australia 26 Jan 10

Hello fellow-lots, Some people think that having 'stress' is good and some think it isn't. At first, when a friend of mine made this comment about 'stress' making your life miserable all the time! I thought for a moment, it may...

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milkfish Stress could either be good or bad, depending on how you take it. If the situation is too stressful, it is not good for our health also. But sometimes stress could also develop our coping mechanism and tolerance making us more prepared for any future not so...

26 Jan 10

pengyachu @pengyachu (296) • China 26 Jan 10

Maybe you are a little out of date if you have no idea about the "Naked Wedding",which means the couple just get married with no house,no car,no wedding celebration and even no wedding rings.This phenomenon emerged under the...

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milkfish "Naked wedding" is a very unconventional thing. However, I think could be done also. Rings, cars, parties etc. are just symbolic of the rites. The real thing in the ceremony is the marrying of the two hearts which is beyond these material things.

26 Jan 10

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 13 Jan 10

Time is running so fast and with the quickness came so many changes in life. One of the most affected in this new age is marriage. Marriage today has come to the point where it is so easy to say goodbye. Marriage is fast fading...

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milkfish Like any other relationship, marriage fade because the couple failed to nurture it. It is a commitment that needs to evolve and grow. The problem is that when two people got married, they are focused on domestic concerns (bills to pay, kids) and they lost that...

13 Jan 10

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jinyan69 @jinyan69 (124) • China 13 Jan 10

in our life,we always encounter something which make you unhappy,somebody think i must pay them back in their own coin.i think everyone must learn to forgive,do you think you are happy if you win.i think no if you are kind...

life

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milkfish Hatred and unforgiveness feels heavy in the heart. It is not good to let these negativities affect our life. Once we learn to forgive somebody, we feel light-hearted, a positive sign that we have moved on with our life from being a hurting person inside.

13 Jan 10

jinyan69 @jinyan69 (124) • China 13 Jan 10

in our life,we always encounter something which make you unhappy,somebody think i must pay them back in their own coin.i think everyone must learn to forgive,do you think you are happy if you win.i think no if you are kind...

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milkfish Hatred and unforgiveness feels heavy in the heart. It is not good to let these negativities affect our life. Once we learn to forgive somebody, we feel light-hearted, a positive sign that we have moved on with our life from being a hurting person inside.

13 Jan 10

athlon24 @athlon24 (106) • Philippines 4 Jan 10

Well, as of now, I'm really really bored. Got nothing to do. And I don't feel like surfing too much in the web right now. Guys, what do you usually do if you are bored like me? I will mark the best answer.

boredom

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milkfish There are a lot of things to do in this world, no time to be bored. You just have to open your imaginations and be creative on things. Read a good book. Watch a good movie.Keep in touch with long lost friends. Plant a tree, you will be helping the world fight...

4 Jan 10

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mhelisa @mhelisa (99) • Philippines 3 Jan 10

In love/realationship, How important is communication for you?

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milkfish Communication is a very important factor in a relationship. It is a venue to share your emotions and thoughts with your partner thereby deepening the relationship. Constant communication erases insecurities and doubts of the partners and helps them to achieve...

4 Jan 10

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