Does it bug you when ...

@ladyluna (7004)
United States
November 21, 2007 10:34am CST
Hello All, Does it bother you when you take the time to research an answer, write a reasoned response, and go to the effort to include confirming sources ... and nobody bothers to open the links that you provide??? I will give zero negative ratings to this discussion -- you have my word! Even if you completely ignore corroborating links, I'll still respect your inclusion of your reasons why. Specifically, this question is posted for educational purposes. So as I said, I will not rate any response negatively, and would ask others to do the same. So ... Do you take the time to access the links that people submit in their responses to your posts? And, why? -Or- Do you not access provided links? And, why? Thanks!!! I'm looking forward to learning your views on this.
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@lionmuri (68)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 07
no i enjoy research and more when it pay me as well
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Hello Lionmuri, Let me first welcome you to MyLot. I hope you enjoy your time here. And, thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. I enjoy research as well! I figure, there's always room in our noggins for relevant information.
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
21 Nov 07
It is frustrating when you make any kind of effort and it's not rewarded. Anyway, I suggest you that you don't give up and keep on making the efforts that you make now. As long as one out of every 100 people makes the effort to use your links, it will be worthwhile.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Thanks, LightningStrike. You make a great point about the value of learning even if few accept the invitation. Great observation!
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Feb 08
I normally do not like to give the trouble for the reader to research further for the answer, so I do not give any links. Secondly, I choose the topics only when I have to resources to write. Otherwise I convenience quit that topic. For example, many americans (so also members from other countries) introduce a topic of local problem. I am not in a position to understand their problem and offer solutions or suggestions. Hence conveniently I skip their topic. I provide a link only when that link is useful to most members (utility oriented site) and the information required can be obtained from that site. To follow mylot rules, I do not display the money earning site addresses here. If anyone asks, either I direct them to see my profile page or ask them to send a PM.
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
8 Feb 08
Hello Ssh123, For the sake of sharing, I'll let you know that I, for one, find local type discussions (from whatever region of the globe) as very interesting. I am driven to learn in life. So, I see the opportunity to be informed about what other folks around the planet are doing locally, as a real opportunity to understand my fellow human beings. And, I don't think that I am alone in this. For example, I've seen many very active discussions about the happenings presented by way of local news stories. A great many members here have expressed a similar positive reaction to this being an international forum, where we can learn about and interact with folks from around the globe. Oh, and thank you for not plastering the pages of MyLot with money earning links. I am a strong supporter of that MyLot rule, because those referral campaigns are truly annoying! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts on this issue.
@riyasam (16556)
• India
21 Nov 07
of course,it does bug me.my friends who provide me useful links ,i do open them .but others which are time consuming ,i usually avoid.as it is mostly people are here to earn.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Hello Riyasam, Thanks for sharing!
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• Malaysia
22 Nov 07
Very thankful for any useful links provided by others on the reply. That was cool. However, some links is not really working as it should. Talking about rating of the post, I just rate the post positively, and if the post is not so good, I just ignore it. I don't rate it negatively. Some people rate the post negative when the reply disagree with their point, so it might be better to act rationally, not emotionally when dealing with other people. Dicussion is about "this" and "that", not just "this".
@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
23 Nov 07
Hello Rhonerlianz, Thanks for your input. Good point about some links not working. That has happened to me, as well. Yet, you clearly attempt to access supporting information, otherwise you would not know that the link is not live. For that I congratulate you. My perspective on rating discussions is very much like your own. A true discussion is an interaction. If everyone agreed, all the time, the world would be a pretty bland place, eh?
@icon_001 (584)
• India
22 Nov 07
Yes,I do check out the links .But not always .
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Nov 07
Hello Icon_001, Thanks for stopping by, and sharing. How do you decide which links to pursue? Does it have more to do with the person who has provided the link, the amount of time you have available, your interest level in the topic, or some other reason(s)? Thanks again!
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Hi Luna. It depends on the links, the story, my overall interest and if I am busy doing other things on the computer or in the house. I guess it is a decision based on time and interest. I am not really into the news much anymore, for the simple reason of all the negativity and one-sidedness. Some links are useful for further info, but often the stories are longer than I want to spend time on. Some stories, for me, are detailed enough when a poster presents them. You might say I want minimal involvement and little emotional attachment. And in the grand scheme of things, my opinion is sometimes flexable as I gain more details and at times my opinion hardly matters. That does not bother me at all. I want to be able to trust everything, but the news is far too biased for me to believe it. I would trust you with no problem, but reading some news story gives me pause. I find it difficult to get emotionally charged up because there are always two sides to everything and finding the truth is not so easy. Speaking of links, that is one thing about being on the Internet. You can go on for days following links and what do you really accomplish?
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Hello Sigma, Thanks for stopping by. Hmmm, you raise some interesting points here. I will admit that your commitment to remaining detached from others' agendas, and attempted manipulation (such as the news media) probably enables you to remain much more focused and content in your own world. There's much value to your Taoist view. I'll also concede your point about waning & waxing interest and time availability. All very good points, my friend. Thanks for sharing!
@Destiny007 (5805)
• United States
21 Nov 07
Of course I access the links because there is no such thing as too much knowledge. When someone goes to the trouble to do the research then there is now way to come up with a differing opinion without seeing the full basis of the original post and stance.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Nov 07
Hello Destiny, First, let me apologize for being absent for so long. Nope, it wasn't feast preparations. Our internet connection was down -- at the source. And yup, I was 'jonesin'. I absolutely adore your fervor for learning! I'll also add that your debating skills are, no doubt, enhanced by your desire to seek out the source of another's opinion. You do your teachers proud, my friend!
• Singapore
21 Nov 07
Hello my lady, what do you expect? :P The best way is to only give when someone asks - explicitly. You can go out of your way to do research but what's the point if your effort may not be appreciated? Well, the one win here would be that you at least take away your own research result. You can always respond in a vague way and say that if that guy is interested, you would be happy to provide him with the link. If you are talking about something ultra specific, it is not hard for someone to find the link himself anyway. For me if someone gives a relevant link i.e. not some spastic btw referral link, I will normally open it and give a quick glance to see if I am interested to read deeper. You have a good day.
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@ladyluna (7004)
• United States
22 Nov 07
Hello oh wizardly one, Thanks for stopping by! I always enjoy your wise & witty input. Hmmm, good point about not offering more than ..., without an invitation to do so. That habit can certainly cause a hornets nest. I really like your idea of adding a quick glance to 'tickle' interest. Great idea! Thanks, you have your self a fine day as well!