Is she insecure?

@ciades (1623)
Philippines
November 22, 2007 5:24am CST
My officemate ex girlfriend is my friend. They broke up for months now. My officemate was the one who end the relationship. His new girlfriend was confidently texted her with an insulting words. My friend shocked and can't believed it. She don't even make a move to ruin the relationship of his ex. And never she will doing that stupid things. The new girlfriend started to text an indescent statement. Looks like she is jealous or insecure. Why shes acting like that if the guy choosed her? I think, the best way she will do is to behave. What do you think? Is the new gf insecure?
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3 responses
• United States
23 Nov 07
I think it's time the office mate had a talk with the new gf. Sounds very insecure and even more immature to act that way. That's what kids do, hello, McFly! Tell your friend to change her cell/text number and move on.
• United States
9 Jul 08
Thank you for BR. How are things going with your friend?
28 May 09
I am going through a similar situation. Only this new girlfriend takes it a step further. She wants to know why we talk still, she continually has to try and manipulate that I must be jealous that they have a better life than what I had with him, she tells everyone that they are getting married and they live together, and then to top it off she drives by my home several times a day. Needless to say, my ex bf does not live with her, he helps her out with her bills the same as he did for me, his divorce isn't final and he clearly states he doesn't want to remarry, he has expressed to me that he feels pressured by her and the insanity is driving him over the edge. He is very concern, that even though he tries to assure her that we just talk, she becomes extremely agitated and aggressive towards him. I really don't care and have had to notify authorities of the situation, unfortunately for my ex bf our friendship may have to end, we both agreed sometimes the grass isn't always as green as it appears to be. As for the new girlfriend, I hope she gets over her insecurities before a Domestic Violence charge occurs. It's a shame when one tries to get into a relationship and there is no trust and respect.
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
She is insecure. The looks of it the new girlfirend can't stand the fact that his boyfriend already had a past relationship. Advise your friend that his new girlfriend will be a very possessive person. Will he like to have such a relationship?
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@sher16 (39)
• Philippines
22 Nov 07
I would say she is, though I wonder why. The fact that it was the guy who broke up with the ex and chose her (the new gf) over the ex should mean something to her. I wonder why she has to be so childish over this matter, except if she feels that her guy still has feelings for the ex.....
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