how to show yourself in a proper way in real life?

@mari123 (1862)
China
November 22, 2007 6:51am CST
when everybody is in real life,they tend to do something that usually does not fit their behavior,which always angust someone or makes someone unhappy,that is a question worth our attention.so ,here,i launch a topic:how to show yourself properly in rel life without annoying or displease others.thank you for my mylot friends opinion.
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4 responses
@raychill (6529)
• United States
22 Nov 07
Err I disagree. I don't do things in real life that don't fit my behavior. What that is, in my opinion, is people who are fake and/or don't know who they are. I don't do things that aren't myself because I think yourself is just as important as other people. So how to show yourself properly would be to simply, be yourself. And if you annoy or displease others, oh well.
@riyasam (16567)
• India
22 Nov 07
by telling everybody yes,that would not displease anybody.that may be a proper way according to them.
@lecanis (16661)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
22 Nov 07
I am me. I act like myself, all the time. I am kind to others, so I'm not intentionally offensive, but anyone who is offended simply by my personality or ideas can just shove off, as far as I'm concerned. :P I think people worry too much about offending others and not enough about being true to themselves. It's true that sometimes someone is going to be upset with you because they don't agree with on something, but as long as you are being polite, that is the other person's problem, not yours.
@gwendovere (1281)
• United States
22 Nov 07
I just keep to myself most of the time. I don't need to be around people just to worry about making them happy. I have a very small circle of friends who accept me, and leave it at that.