You don't like your engagement or wedding ring?

I'm lucky; my husband has great taste but he was the one who apologized for my ring! He felt it was "too small" and he knew I liked marquise. But the ring was gorgeous...a round solitare. When I got that ring, I didn't care in the slightest what size it was or shape, etc....it was the love behind it and knowing he loved me enough to want to marry me. Five years later, on our anniversary, I got a larger ring and it was a marquise. Five years after that, I got an eternity band. Now, 34 years later with more expensive jewelry and particularly rings (I have a weakness for rings), that engagement ring still means the most because of the promise of a future together. He still says he wants to buy me a huge "diamond rock" someday. It really doesn't matter to me...I have him and I love him and that is what counts!

nooo! that would make them very upset.

I don't think personally I could have ever done that. But don't loose your Ring either... as that could get them upset and think you never liked it also.

I wouldn't tell my fiance I didn't like the design of my ring (which, by the way, baby, if you're reading this, I love mine!) Your fiance spent, hopefully, a lot of time choosing something that means a lot to him. I think that would hurt his feelings to tell him you don't like it. BUT, if it truly is something you don't like, you can always get a wrap, have the stone(s) put in a different setting or tell your fiance that you only want to wear a wedding band and not both the band and engagement ring and help choose something you both really like!

I am a man been married for 25 years. My wife says that her wedding ring was the classiet part of her jewelery and trosseau.

That's really tough. My fiance and I are upgrading my ring already. We found out that we can't insure my ring and it needs a lot of work done. We got a kind of cheap ring because we had limited funds and limited time (he's in the military) for him to propose lol. So now we found a GREAT ring and we're buying it in two weeks. It looks almost identical.. but better quality.

i think, it's is the backbone of wedding.

my problem isnt that I dont like the ring as a whole, I just dont like the fact that its yellow gold. I dont think yellow gold goes well with me. I'd much rather prefer white...and if it makes you feel any better I did tell my fiance and he said thats ok...we can dip it and I'll be happy so will he!! He didnt get mad at all with me!!!

I am very choosy about the clothes and jewellery I wear. When I would get engaged I would want my finace to take me to the jewellery shop and we both would choose my rings. And if he choose the ring without me and it is not good maybe I will tell them.

I think most guys these days if the have any doubts are smart enough to get the woman to look at rings with them beforehand and either let them pick out what ring they would love to have or take note of the one she says she likes the most

I didn't like my first wedding set.. I still have it, but I made my hubby buy me a new set when we had the money

I might if I really hated it... But I don't think that's overly possible :) I think any guy who loves me would have a pretty good idea of what I'd like... But if I wasn't instantly in love with the ring, I'd probably start researching the setting, the style, the brand, the material (gold, platinum, etc) and his story behind picking it out. It might take on new meanings and allow you to see it in a new light this way

well I would probably say something but that's because the idea is that you are supposed to wear it for the rest of your life.... of course if it's an heirloom or something you're probably SOL

Im not married yet... so can say.

I love my engagement ring, as I picked it out. It is an amethyst which is what I have always wanted. However, we both want to get different wedding rings. We couldn't afford the ones we REALLY wanted, so we settled for cheap bands.

I love my engagement ring, as I picked it out. It is an amethyst which is what I have always wanted. However, we both want to get different wedding rings. We couldn't afford the ones we REALLY wanted, so we settled for cheap bands.

I think it would depend on your fiance/husband. By rights you shouldn't tell them. It is the love behind it. If you feel comfortable with him, you might be able to talk to him about it. Evidently he thought is was just right for you and or fit the bill. I know my husband has bought me a purse that I just couldn't stand and I told him I wasn't too fond of it. But that is different than an engagment or wedding ring. I absolutly love my ring, but I was around to pick it out.

I would say that the ring signifies love ,if you don't like you ring,you don't like your husband.