Lots of feelings for my past partner...

Since your married then you should be loyal to him if you want to go for another guy then divorce first before you go back to him .

Hi bishu_sinha, After getting married,keeping memories of your boy friend is not ethical.I understand that it is difficult to forget your past where you have put your 1st love.Time will make you foget your past.Till that time try yourself to concentrate on something that interests you whenever your past comes in to your mind. Otherwise you will lead a miserable life.Remember our life and mind is in our hands and always we can hold that to our happiness. I am sure once you have a kid you will foget your past. God bless you and good luck.

If you never moved on completely from your ex-boyfriend then you've been using your husband all these years and don't really love him. You've just been rebounding with him. That's wrong to do to a person. You need to take some time away from your husband and decide what you want to do. You really shouldn't be in the relationship you're in though, it's not fair to your husband. He deserves to be with someone that truly wants to be with him.

hi there... hmm.. kinda difficult feeling.. but i really suggest you should accept what is already there.. the question is, is your husband inlove with you? then if he is, there is no need to think about the past but to move on with whats in your life, making the marrige work will make challenges and rewards better. thinking of the past again and again, will hurt you and your husband both.. that is hard i know, but it is the best thing to do. dont wait for the time where you will both accuse each other and blame the fault for not working out the relationship. let it go, pray that you can see the brighter side and wonderful offer ahead. find the characteristics that you love most in your husband... and cherish it.. take care! goodluck...

Well for me it just means that you were not ready to move on and love another person at the time you got married. You somehow had made choices that you thought would replace the past with your current husband. But you already made a choice and that choice was to be committed to a man that you thought could replaced your feelings of your former lover. It is done now and I advice you to move on and be committed with the one you are in. Focus that feelings towards the man you made a lifetime commitment. You have entered into living a family of your own love it and someday that past lover may not haunt you anymore but will just be a figment of the past that once you have loved and cherished. Let go and let God heal your heart and soon you will be happy and at peace with your conscience.

1. divorce to your husband 2. marry to your partner