Can a married person love someone other than his husband/wife?
By bagumbayan
@bagumbayan (2705)
Philippines
January 22, 2008 4:21am CST
Personally I dont believe this, but I have a friend whose in love with her husband and still fell in love with someone. She cant explain it why but i knew she is in love both to her husband and to her lover. Do you pity her or do you admire her. I dont admire her.
8 responses
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
13 May 08
Thats what Im telling her. Maybe in due time the love for her new love will fade away, then she will be back on his husband hand again, or else, she will go with his new lover. Thanks for the late comment.
@rainbow2007star (920)
•
24 Jan 08
I don't belive it.This is a way to take of her self the responsability. Marriage is first love for the other person and responsability. I don't admire her, shame on her
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
13 May 08
I tried to understand her, and tried to explain to her maybe in due time she will realize. Sorry for the late comment.
@jerritts1mom (816)
• United States
22 Jan 08
She certainly doesn't deserve the priveledge of being married, if she cheats on her husband and openly speaks about it.I mean, having an affair and realizing it was a mistake and getting help is one thing, but to try and have your cake and eat it too is just wrong.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
Ive been telling her about that. I am close to her thats why I knew about them, but not everyone knows about it. I will continue advising her.
@nothingbetter2do (235)
• Australia
22 Jan 08
Once she's married, she shouldn't love anyone else. That is so unfair to both her husband and her lover! I definitely do not admire her!
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
Me too, I told her, maybe it is not love that youre feeling towards your lover but maybe some care her husband cannot give her. I am always telling her, its no good having that kind of affair.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
Maybe, shes still young and it was late when she met her new love.
@pikeshpd (181)
• India
24 Jan 08
I think there is no need to love someone else than husband/wife. if they have good relationship between them. and they are satisfied with them. If they are not satified with themselves then it could be happen. But in your story she may not satisfied with ourselves that why multiple love is happening........
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
13 May 08
Maybe, I hope later she will be enlightened. I also dont want this thing to happen, if I dont love my love maybe we can talk and do better and if still cannot stand each one better then separate. Sorry for the late response.
@sudhajosyula50 (3808)
• India
22 Jan 08
Hi friend,
You discussion seem to be amazing.How come ur friend is love with both.She can be a good friend to other person and be a good lover towards her husband.I think i will not admire her.As a friend u shd tell her the importance of mirrage and tell her which is more important in life.I hope u will tell her.
have a nice day
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
Thanks for the response. Ive been telling her about it, but it seems she is in love with both. I told her to give up the other one so that will be better. She told me she cant choose between the to. Hope in due time she can select.
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
23 Jan 08
I told her about that, always telling her, what if. maybe in due time she will realize what she entered into.
