Do you always make decisons on you own?

@marciascott (25552)
United States
January 29, 2008 9:35am CST
Or do you get other peoples opinions? I think if I am not sure I will ask someone elses opionion about it. I think it is best? two heads are better than one. Don't you think? Have a nice day!
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• United States
29 Jan 08
I will ask for opinions for that does not always mean I will go by what they say.
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@rookiekan (883)
• China
29 Jan 08
of course ,i will listen other's peoples' ideas and opinions,but i will make dicision by myself,i just take other peoples' opinions as consultation
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@raydene (9874)
• United States
29 Jan 08
Doll..at the end of the day my dicisions are my own ..I will always listen to everyone elss opinions but then feel I can make a informed decision.. xoxoxoxoxo
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@lilybug (21145)
• United States
29 Jan 08
I almost always ask other people for their opinion on important things. Ultimately the decision is mine to make, but I like to get other peoples input on things first.
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@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
30 Jan 08
I usually make my own decisions. I only ask someone elses opinion if I am unsure of myself. I tend to decide on my own most of the time though because if I make a mistake, the only person to blame is myself. Two heads are better than one in alot of cases though. It all depends what it is used for.
@marciascott (25552)
• United States
30 Jan 08
That is very true, I am like you I will make my own decision, but if I am not sure, then I get my close friend's opionion. once I have made up my mind though that is it.
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@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
31 Jan 08
Yes. I was never really allowed to make up my own mind and my own decissions without someone having something negative to say about a few years ago. I decided that it was time to stand up for myself and think for myself and make my own decisions without having my family make them for me all of the time. I am alot better off now. I do ask my friends in Mylot for advice sometimes though because I really need their opinion.
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• United States
29 Jan 08
It depends on what I am going to decide. And like you I will ask people to weigh in for advice. If it is something too personal, I usually am on my own.
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@marciascott (25552)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Thanks same here!
@JoyfulOne (6242)
• United States
29 Jan 08
I may ask others for an opinion on something, but I make the final decision myself after weighing in the facts. Two heads may be better than one, but only if the other head is looking at the problem objectively (and with the right set of facts & motivations behind the answer). Keeping that in mind, what works for one may not always work for the other, that's why I feel it's important to gather the facts, and then make my own opinion based on them.
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@marciascott (25552)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Me too! I make the final decision in the end.
@mouse27 (1155)
• Canada
30 Jan 08
i hardly ever make decisions on my own when i do it only gets me into trouble. it is always best to get advice from other people we screwed our lives up enough doing it our way so what can it hurt taking the suggestions from other people....... i know you know waht i'm talking about
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@musicman6 (2391)
• United States
30 Jan 08
Most of the time, I do make decisions on my own, but every once in a while, I'll run into a problem, where I can't get the right perspective, and I need an outside source to ;help me decide, or support what I have decided! Yes, I agree with you , two head are definitely better than one!
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@youless (100179)
• Guangzhou, China
30 Jan 08
I usually ask for others' opinions and then I will make up my decision. I agree that sometimes we need to hear from others' suggestions.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
30 Jan 08
I am just starting to get use to asking other peoples opinion about things. I didn't have family around growing up and not too many people that I could trust. So I am use to making my own decisions. Then, I have to be careful who I ask about certain things. I know at least one person who will lie to look good in front of people, but if you check the facts, you will find it is far from the truth. If I need someone's opinion about God, I will call my family. If I need an opinion about the latest rappers or movie stars, I will ask my nieces and nephews. But, if it hast to do with a personal discission, I may ask, but I will only agree with myself.
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