havng a relationship with a married man

Philippines
February 9, 2008 9:39pm CST
A friend of mine has a boyfriend for 4 years at that time when this relationship of another guy started. they were working in the sam buildibg but in a separate company. it started out as textmates until they started going out on secret dates without her boyfriend knowing it. at first, she didn't knew that the guy she's dating is married. But when she knew it, i thought she will stop seeing him. Their secret relationship lasted for 4 years but thank god it finally ended.
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5 responses
@lucy67 (819)
• China
11 Feb 08
i think it's wise of your friend to do so. their relationship lasted for 4 years, so it's not easy for her to do so but she did it. that married man is so shameful. how can he cheat on both his wife and the girl. he deserves severe punishment.
• Philippines
11 Feb 08
wise as we can say it. but i knew it was difficult for her to keep it for that long. on the part of the guy, shame on him. let's just wait for the karma to come. Lolz.
@vehaileairu (2286)
• Philippines
10 Feb 08
thats cheating on both sides... theres nothing wrong with love, but when you are involve to hurt someone.. then the relationship is wrong. how would she feel if her boyfriend does the same thing to her? she would really feel cheated. about the married man, how can he let this happened while he already had a wife.. people now a days are no care about what situation they come up to.. as long as they give in to their desires. i am glad it ended.. and i wish they mean it, i also pray they are not going back for good.. take care^_^
• Philippines
11 Feb 08
me too, i'm glad it ended. and it's really for good because the friend of mine already decided to settled down for good with her boyfriend. wish them luck.
• United States
10 Feb 08
I'm glad it ended too. I wonder if the wife of that man knows what kind of snake she married.
@RobinJ (2501)
• Canada
10 Feb 08
you have absolutely no control over how other people behave, the only one you can control is your self, You being a party to all these secrets has not changed one thing, so why even go there. Was there any thing good about all the time you spent thinking about you friend and her ways.
@zenmachado (1619)
• United States
10 Feb 08
Being in a relationship with any one who is already commited, is a resepy for disaster. Its not a good idea, in so many levels...