Do you see yourself as others see you?

I don't think one can project to another person for a long time.yes initaially we do fake but after certain time we can understand that.After certain time sa y many days we tend to start knowing & understanding each other.

Ah yes... We get to know others through ourselves. If there is something confusing or misunderstood about the person, guess who is creating that! LOL.

I think I do see myself in SOME ways as others do...for example I am a helpful, caring person and I am fairly wise etc. Also i am a comical person and fun loving as well as hotheaded and stubborn LOL BUT there are ways that ppl see me that I DO NOT see in myself....For example far too many ppl have me put on a pedastel *sp* and act like i am the great guru and I just dont see it..Some ppl have me categorized as this super strong being and though I am a very strong woman I'm NOT invinsible ya know..Then there are those that see me as this sick, twisted, troubled and "lost" (LOL thats so funny) person and THAT is WAY wrong LOL..sick n twisted, ya sure but troubled and lost? OMG no! do ppl ever truly get to know me? Only if THEY WANT TO...I dont hide myself from the world anymore...I can't, its too draining and ultimately damaging for me too ya know...So if someone WANTS to really know who I am it isnt hard to find out LOL I'm an open book :-D

Persona is a heavyweight word, eh? Yes, it's very confusing the way we like ourselves to be perceived and the way others end up seeing us. But I believe a deeper understanding takes place between those who really care for each other. Those who just see your outward appearances and don't care two straws about you cannot be blamed, eh? One more thing I have noticed is that we tend to get hurt when someone whom we care for seem to misunderstand us. Very interesting topic, dear friend. Best reagrds.

Wel, if others see me as a princess who gets what she wants then yes they do see me as I do........lol Ok kidding. I really think people see me as i see myself. I see me as being friendly, and i try to be funny sometimes. I can also be very understanding and non judgmental of people. I honestly think people see that in me. I do have many friends.

I don't know if I see myself if others see me. No one come bluntly and tell me about how they see me as a person. If I did ask, they will probably say the good things and save the bad things for fearing of hurting my feelings. I guess people who know us almost 100% is our own family. The other people will only see us the pesona we projected them to see.

In my case, I think they only know the person I project. I have been judged all of my life by people and I do not have any friends because of it. they do not truly know me none whatsoever. I am not sure how they really see me at all. All I do know, is that I know me and I know I am very worthy of better treatment from others.

I guess no, I am not sure. Me internally is nice and friendly, but others eversince misjudged me. some of the envious girls in class says I am not friendly but flirt. Is not my problem that guys are interested to know that them. Of course I am not flirt, I am single until now. I can have a boyfriend because I want to focus on one thing, my career and my family. some of others says I am snob, oh not not really true.for what i had said to you I am friendly, but a little shy to initiate a friendship.