What would you do??

@mssnow (9484)
United States
March 2, 2008 1:33am CST
Your in a boat. You and your wife, your 3 year old child and your mother in law. Your out in the ocean, but there is an island about half a mile away. No one is wearing a life jacket. Because you think that everything will be fine. Your wife can swim a little ways but not half a mile. Your mother in law cant swim and your child cant swim. You can swim but only well enough to take care of you. Guess what happens next?? The boat sinks. You see a life jacket floating on top of the water. Everyone is in the water struggling. What do you do? There is no right or wrong answer to this. I just wanna see how you would answer.
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13 responses
• India
2 Mar 08
Really it's a very nice Question i thought a lot about it nut then also i am not able to come up with the answer even then i thought one way my mother and my child can't swim so i think i would the jacket to my mother and tell my child to grab her weight of a three year old child is not that heavy so my mother can some how manage to reach the shore now it comes to my wife she can swim a little so she can try to swim as far as possible and i should also swim with her cauz when her stamina gets over i can try to get her to the shore swimming with one person who knows a little swimming is not very hard!!!! So there you this my ans!!!!! thank you and have a nice day(*_*)
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Very nice answer. I like that you managed to save everyone :)
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• China
2 Mar 08
you express the meaning I wanna say but after all,you avoid the problem and if be known by everyone then everyone will agree with your choice in that very moment.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Howdy Princess, (can I still call you that?) First off, I would never be in a boat without a life jacket for everyone, (there are stiff fines for that around here, lol)but in this situation, My first thought would always be the child, I think I could give the life jacket to the mother in law and have her and my wife and the child stay together while I go swimming to shore for help, as much as I would hate to leave them there, I think that would be the best chance for survival. Are you planning a boating trip soon? Take care, Terry
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
3 Mar 08
Washington's fine, it was 60+ degrees and sunny out today and I got to get some things done in the yard. I think spring is finaly on the way! It sounds like Arizona has been real nice to you, I hope everything coninues to go well for you there!
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I wish you would still cal me princess. it puts a smile on my face lol. Thats a good thought. go for help for the others. Thanks Terry. Hows Washington??
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 08
Interesting scenario, my first thought would be the survival of my child that is paramount and I would put my 3 year old child as priority, so I would give the lifejacket to my child so I would swim ashore with my child, sounds brutal I know but survival instincts kick in don't they. It's the pecking order, child, then wife, then mothering law.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Thank you Wolfie, Yes I knew there would be some who would save the child. I would do the same. The child has a whole life time ahead of them. xxxx
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
2 Mar 08
In this situation I believe that we have to help each other and stay close together. Since my mother in law do not know how to swim, I believe that she is the one to wear the life jacket. My 3 year old child is not that heavy so i think my mother in law can hold her without sinking. But I would ask them to stay close to me and my husband (I am a girl) Since my husband knows how to swim, I would ask him to swim as much as he can... But I would be right close to him to help him make it through.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
yeah thats a good answer :)
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• United States
2 Mar 08
you took the words right out of my mouth (uhhh, fingers)! lol
• Singapore
2 Mar 08
If I can only swim that "great", I would think I will have life jackets and all. C'mon princess, I am not that dumb okay? :P
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
There you go again only thinking of you :P:P
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• India
2 Mar 08
Since mother in law doesnot know swimming there is no use in giving life jacket to her.I would give life jacket my wife and ask her to hold my mother in law and chld for some time.Since she can swim a little bit she can take care of them for some time.And i will go to island and seek some help.I think this is the best way to survive.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
That might work :0 thanks
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
2 Mar 08
okay if I was a guy I would throw it too my wife and say put it on, and grab the baby put her on your back and try to swim to safety, mean while I can swim, so I would ask my mother in law to try and relax and float on the water, while I tried to swim grabbing on to her to get get us both to shore
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
sounds good to me Rose
@royal52gens (5488)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Interesting question. I guess my decisions would be based on how well I got along with my mate and mother-in-law as to what I would try to do. I would put the life jacket on the child, of course.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Oh that is a different approach. Go for who you like best. I can understand that :) xxx
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• United States
2 Mar 08
This is a interesting question. I gave it some thought and I think that if I was the husband I would definitely want to save my wife and 3 yr old child. I would go for the life jacket explaining to my wife to get ahold of my 3yr old and I will be back. Since my wife can swim a little she can help the 3 yr old stay afloat. Also asking the wife to give some assistance to the mother-in-law. Beings the mother-in-law is a adult your wife could try to talk her into using the bodys' boancy to float. I would go for the life jacket and come back and than every one could hold onto the life jacket. Of course I can not help myself from asking why go out without having a life jacket on. Than there was only one life jacket floating. Just a couple of questions I had asked myself. I do realize that your discussion is hypetheticale.
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Some people just dont think, So i figured there could be a family out there who wasnt thinking about anything but having fun in a boat. So they dont put their life jackets on. I liked your idea of having everyone hold onto the life jacket, but it might be too much for one life jacket.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
3 Mar 08
Well I can't bear to lose anyone so I would let my child hang on to my back, then I would alternate supporting my wife and my mother-in-law, whoever needs help the most. They can both share the lifejacket. Win-win situation!
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
24 Sep 08
I'd put the child in the life jacket, have my wife hold on to one of the childs hands while I hold the other and with my other hand I'd hold onto the mother in law. It would be slow swimming but eventually we'd all make it...even if all they could do was kick their feet. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
@mummymo (23706)
2 Mar 08
Think I would put it on my wife who could then gold on to the child and make their way to dry land! Then I would do the best to help the mil to safety! I think! Why do you make us think so much twin - you can be really quite a hard taskmater you know! lol xxx
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Yes my darlin twin, it makes things much more interesting to make you think. lol Good choice having wife hold the child. Thanks sis xxxx
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
2 Mar 08
In al reality, this situation would never happen to me. I would never allow my child to be on a boat with no lifejacket on. In our household, it is my husband that can't swim. I can swim quite well. I would probably give him the lifejacket and he would swim with the lifejacket on while holding the baby. He is even more protective of our daughter than I am so there is no way he would let go of her under any circumstances. I was thinking that I would put her in the lifejacket at first and he could hold on to her. But, a small child could easily slip out of an adult sized lifejacket. Though I love my mother in law, I am a small girl. There is no way I could swim her to shore. She better learn to kick her feet!
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@mssnow (9484)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I like your answer, Mother inlaws are adults they should be able to at least float. Thanks