Why is it always me?
March 8, 2008 10:27am CST
It seems I always have togive things away for free,then they will sell it.I always let people in front of me in the check-out line if they have a few and no one ever let's me.Not nice woman always get's the good guy and I never do.Yes I'm having a pity party today for myself-no one else will.LOL.
8 Mar 08
Do you really want a good guy? I think bad guys can be more fun! But seriously, you seem to be a genuinely nice person. Can't you enjoy the feeling that you are generous and polite, unlike many people. You are better than they are. Don't forget it and don't let other people take advantage of your goodness if it will upset you. You do not want to get into situations where you feel self pity. Just go on being nice but try to be firm as well and remember that sometimes you just have to say no to people.
• United Kingdom
8 Mar 08
I know the feeling. I want to believe in Karma but when you do everything good and nothing good happens to you, it is hard to feel that being nice is worth the effort! I have had a couple of times when I've decided I'm just not going to be nice because there is no point but then I just compromise. I make the effort when I thinkit's worth it but I won't be nice to someone I don't like just to be nice.