A small touching story mainly for professionals...

@subha12 (18441)
India
March 12, 2008 4:54am CST
A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door. SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?" DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the man. SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?" DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" the man said angrily. SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?" DAD: "If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour." SON: "Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down. SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?" The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior." The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door. "Are you asleep, son?" He asked. "No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy. "I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier" said the man. "It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you.. Here's the Rs.50 you asked for." The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank you daddy!" He yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father. "Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled. "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied. "Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you." The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness. It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love. If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.
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8 responses
@bagumbayan (2705)
• Philippines
12 Mar 08
I received that story about a month ago thru my email address. The point of the story is to please have time with your kids and your loved ones. Remember, even if you are mylotting and discussing with all our friends, please remember your kids and your loved ones whose waiting to be served and to talk too. Extratime can be given to us here or your other activities, but your big time must be given to your family.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
its very nice mail. yes i still try to return home in time where my parents are waiting for me.
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@shakeroo (3986)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 08
Thanks for sharing this. Many of us take our family for granted and thought that only money can make them happy. This reminds me that I'd better go home now so that I can spend more time with my family even though I would not make as much money as I want to on myLot.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
yes we take family life for granted for job.
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@jmabie (10)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Thank you for this reminder that the things in life that we think are most important are really least important. We have to make money to survive but our families should come first over ambition and the wish to have more. God Bless you for this.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
thanks for responding.
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@vsraovsr (734)
• India
12 Mar 08
Your discussion is very touchy and I read it earlier in my husband's laptop. It's really worth giving a thout to it.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
thanks for response.
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@queenofarms (1659)
• United States
12 Mar 08
Oh how touching...I wanted to cry..This so true..We don't make the time for those we love.I tell my husband this all the time. The job will be there tomorrow but you're loved one may not.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
yes you are right. thanks for response.
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@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
12 Mar 08
I found this story to be very moving. It is so true that many people put more attention on their work than on their family. When we do that, it hurts everyone!!! I find myself taking a different look at life after I was told that I had cancer. I never had kids, but I started taking more time for me because I had been working two jobs and not paying much attention to my health. Now I only work 10 hours a week and have more time to spend doing other things. I hope everyone can take the time to think about the meaning behind this story and learn to be happy.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
yes you are right. we should try to balance between work and job.
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
12 Mar 08
I Have tears in my eyes, Subha. This is so good and so true. In order to keep up with the rat race we are forgetting our priorities. A time will come when we would regret this but we can never step on the same time, can we!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Mar 08
thanks a lot. actually this rat race force us to forget the importance of other things in life.
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@Winter08 (441)
• Canada
12 Mar 08
This is a story that should speak to everyone who has children in their life, whether parents, grandparents, extended family. They are there for such a brief time. And their time of being able to give unconditional love seems to be even briefer. Thank you for this story.