which one would you marry?the one you love or the one loving you ?

i will marry both what a solution

the one i love...

Given the choice, I would marry a person who loves me not the other way round, because I feel it is but natural that someone will only love me, when I shower my love to her. Alas! now it is not possible......LOL! I am already married.....LOL!

if i really have to choose from these two and can't combine them as one. i may choose the one i love. in the days we are together i will try to get her loving me, so it will be perfect in regard both of loving and being loved. lol

Choose the girl who can look after your parents can take care of your family , if both are not having this quality leave both , this will be my opinion,,, rest is left to you.....

Neither, I would get rid of both of them, and find someone who is both. It is not nie to toy with someone who loves you if you know you will never feel the same for them. Equally loving someone who doesn't love you back will always leave you in constant pain.

I would want to marry both.Hehe!I'm already betrothed and he loves me and I love him too.

For me I would choose the person who is loving me than the person who I love but not love me. It is easy for me to love the person who is truly in love with me it can be develop in some other ways specially when I see that he is very sincere with me.

Neither as love is a 2 way street, I'd rather be patient and practical and wait out on these 2. For where there's a will there's a way when I will find my true love. In a relationship, it is not simply looking for just any one but the right one.

This is hard if I marry someone I love but he doesnt love me, so better I choose marry someone love me and I can build my love to him after I live with him and feel how his love can protect and make me feel like he need me a lot. I like to be person who being loved and needed :))

I think the person who loves me more. I have no idea to love a person, and i'm not sure if he really loves me too... But if i knew he really loves me, then i think i will try and even learning how to love him. I'm not that kind of perfect girl. I want my man can respect and love my imperfect things in me... That's the most important thing in my relationship.

I would not choose either as I would not want to live with someone who does not love me nor would I want to live with someone I do not love. It would not be fair to either person in either of these scenarios at all.

My heart will say marry the one I love, my head will want the one how loves me. Emotions vs reality, it's a tough choice. But love can't buy food to put on the table. A poor couple who constantly worry about food and bills will never be able to find time to maintain their love for each other. Even if there isn't love, at least like the person enough to marry them or else an empty heart is never gonna sustain.

Hmmm... That would make my life worst because their is no mutual feeling involve. If no choice, i will choose the one who loves me so much, be sure that he is kind and generous okey. I'd rather prefer this one because if the one who love me is kind, generous, fun person and hardworking, it is so easy to win my heart. AS time passes by and there are siblings involve. Time will teach me to love because after all, i start from not loving the one that i love. SO why not take the risk to the one i didn't love. I may not learn him the same way to the one i love, It may be not equal to level of the one i love but may result to a more loving wife. But if those characteristics are not in the one who love me.I'd rather suffer to the one i love, because somehow i feel happy coz i was with him.

i hope that i will marry the one person who loves me dearly and whom i also love very much. i am always hopeful and i kept praying to God that i will not come to a point to choose between the one who love me and the one i love. but if i have to choose, i guess i will choose to marry the one who i love than the one who loves me. cause i have been with 2 relationships that i think they love me more than i love them and i was not happy. i am always not happy even though they showed me how much i mean to them, everything seemed not enough. I don't know if the one i will love, if will not return my feelings will hurt as much.. but at least if i love that person, i will be more patient, i will try hard for our relationship to work and for that person to at least care for me a bit. Maybe i will get tired too of the one sided love, but i guess he will love me back already before i grew tired of it.

Neither. Both of those roads lead to pain.

I would definately marry the man who loves me so I can learn to love him than a man whom I love and is not interested in me at all. If you marry someone who doesnt love you then there is a chance that he can cheat on you with the person he loves and thats a bitter pill to swallow for me.

Both are sad case, but I would choose the one loving me. Marriage is long life matter, I don't think I can put up with an empty heart.

I think this kind of choice makes life more complicated. There are many other alternatives in life, it's better to choose one you love and he also loves you. If really need to make a decision under this condition, I will choose the one I love but he does not really love me, under this choice, I will try my best to show my love to him, and if he really cannot accept me in his heart, then I will leave him, maybe with a broken heart, but I have tried.

I hope i will get both persons the one i love and the one who loves me so that it will be a win win situation for everyone and nobody gets dis-hearted, else as the other person just said that it will be a grim situation if i loose or the person who loves me looses me,but if only one option is given i will certainly choose the person who loves me so that atleast i have little calmness in my home whenever i came back from office :P