What would you do? What would you say?

That's a tough one, CanadaGal. And knowing how much you enjoy your sausage man, I can see why you might be in quandry. I just might have to go for it, though, and suffer later. 4 to 6 days is a long time. Anything could happen in that amount of time. I agree with rintintin on this one. Go for it. And if he is wanting to concentrate on pleasing you and not expecting much in return, then whyever not? You can fall into a blissful, although possibly short sleep, right after, and even tired, you'll be happy. I'm a horned nymph though, as you know, and I'll take it whenever I can get it, or like Janis said, "get it while you can, don't turn your back on love, no, no, no, no no".

Well i dont think i would have very much to think about other than being it on i can get some sleep later :) I wish my guy would offer this sort of treatment hmmmmm I would love it I would tell him i will be there in a little bit :)

I would go over to my lover. I have a very stressed out personallity and I hardly ever take time to myself; to rest, see friends or spend time with my lover. School and work take it all out of me, and yes, the weekends are also very busy. With such a huge load of things to do I think it's a good thing to go over to your lover. You might be physically more active, but being together also gives you an inner rest and peace you might not archieve when your home alone. I've found out that when my boyfriend stays over the night before I have my exams I sleep a lot better and are more rested, even if I sleep less hours. The thought of him being there calms and suits me. I'd go for the cups of coffee metioned before or anything else that can help you stay focussed and try to take time to yourself. However, if you do feel you need the rest I would honestly tell my lover that I'm totally worn out and would love nothing better than to see him but am affraid that I won't get through the heavy weekend if I don't get a good night sleep. Honesty is one of the keys to a good relationship :)

If I knew I wouldn't see him for almost a week i would definitely go. The sleep can wait and you can always catch up on a day off. I love spending time with my man in and out of the bedroom so I really don't care too much about sleep if it means I get to spend more time with him.

well, If I have a chance to see my lover, than I would do everything to get it. because nothing would be more important than her for me. I could sleep whenever I want in week days. I mean even if I am getting home early, I would try sleeping in the evening instead of night and somehow I would get over my sleep issues but it would be much harder to get over if you miss your lover so much

id skip the need for sleep.. take a powernap before going over, and go!

well if I was 20 years old again, I would be thinking about my lover and getting in all the time I could with him, but as a middle aged woman I would opt for work, I have a life, and I want to keep it, a job, is important my health is important whatever else my obligations were in that scenario I am not his little play toy to run to him at his beck and call if he really cared for me why are we married or at least living together?

gooooooooo get it whiler you can, phone in sick from work with a bad headache, just do it blessed be

Just get things done fast. and then get some rest.

Well, the way I am, I would have my lover come over and be with him, and I would suffer with the sleep I missed. I would try to get as much as I could, but it's better to spend time with your lover. I could get some good sleep later.

You can go your lover's home and have a rest there ,or you can invite your lover home ,and have a rest together . You can tell him ,healthy is the most important thing ,we should have a good rest at weekend . And if you are not feel tired ,you can have fun with him.

I will say no even that would took a month or so before we see each other. I'm not hypocrite for saying no because i always do this refusing his invitation. I believe love can wait. If you say isn't looking for much in return, i don't think so because people have no contentment, always asking for more than you can give. I mean after this then ask for another and more.That was for some and not apply for all relationship ok.

well i would go over there always energie drinks tht u could take tht morrining

I can't believe I am going to say this but, Go on over, but tell them you need sleep so you will have to do a quick tango, and then cuddle in each others arms as you drift off to dream world.

Well being too tired is not a crime. Perhaps he just needed a rest. There are other days for pleasure, and as another poster said, sometimes anticipation hightens the experience when you get together with him at a later date.

I will tell my lover I would like to,but I need more sleep,because a very busy weekend coming up and I am very tired,next time I will.

I'll be right there but I swear to god if I am not sleeping peacefully by midnight and you are still trying to poke me awake I will rip it off and feed it to you. Yeah, that is what I would say. I wouldn't deny him nor I the pleasure of a meeting. And unless he runs on energizer a few hours should be plenty and the two of us can just cuddle the night away in each others arms. Absence may make the heart grow fonder but it reeks havoc on the hormones.

Go go go! I won't see him for another 4-6 days afterwards, and by that time he may no longer be as easy to please. :P I can sleep then, when he's not around and I have nothing better to fill my nights with. :P

I probably would say, "Hey honey, I love you and I need to be at home tonight by myself so I can get to sleep. I appreciate your for your understanding. You are so great. I will be over to see you next week." If the truth is that I need to take care of myself. The truth is that I need to take care of myself. If I would be at any time resentful towards him for me not getting the sleep I needed or for because of the lack of sleep less able to help others that I am responsible for helping at my job then I have not done him or me or my employer a service. I would be honest with thim, praise him for his understanding and tell him when he next would see me and tell him what we would do together the next time I saw him. I might also promise to call him daily until then. I would certainly tell him that I love him and will be so glad to see him when I can see him.

Go. Sleep isn't the most important thing in the world, spending time with the one you love is. I would go even without the promise of toe-curling glory, but just to sleep in their arms. To me, it's more fulfilling to be with that person, even if it leaves me tired, than to be alone wishing I was with them. Before my boyfriend and I moved in together, he would invite me over every night. On nights he went out with friends to the bar (I go with them a fair bit now), he'd call me and wake me up around midnight asking if I'd come over. Even though I was sleepy and I had school or work the next morning, I never said no because I'd rather be with him when I could than alone and pining.