Why people keep askig here whether incest is wrong,murdering is wrong.

Hi bala........Time has changed , world has changed and so has thinking of new generation. Today people even need proof to know if there is God or not.....and people like us cannot even give real good reason to prove this. Educated people have become too broad minded now a days. They have started to THINK.....to think everything against what our ancestors said was wrong to do.....because they thing their ancestors were uneducated......backward and had no ability to find reason for everything. Today there is a big WHY??? that is pestering all these people who ask such questions.....looks like they want to change the law of nature.......I actually hate this topic bala...it gives me headache...It is better that I don't fall into this new generation advancement.....I rather enjoy my backward thinking....and I know you are with me ..and your feelings are just like mine.

Bala! I know why you have started this discussion. I have read your remarkable reply in the discussion related to 'incest'. I can only say that people wish to justify and defend themselves, if they are doing anything 'wrong'. They find the excuses to justify themselves. We live in a civilised society and we are supposed to follow its norms and conventions.

See, I have a theory on that. Even though some people KNOW that it is wrong, they sometimes need some sort of justification for it (circumstances...or maybe someone else who has been in the same position).....or sometimes....people are just so angry reading about such things...and need to get it out of their system with like minded people. Some wrongs...are justifiable in certain circumstances. I know what you are talking about,....but I'm just trying to put the big picture across. Stealing is wrong...but what about a hungry little boy stealing a bun from a shop? What about a child picking up something that belongs to their parent without permission(some parents would term that stealing and some won't)?

I can only think of one reason and its because those people are having a distorted sense of what is moral, immoral and what is right or wrong. When one is sure and with strong conviction, then one won't asked. However, there are gray areas and they could always be categorized still as wrong or right depending on where one is standing.

They are on a look-out for the reasons which prove that these things are justified. Just like how a liar justifies how lying became inevitable to him, these people are also on the look-out for supporters who can explain to them how stealing, robbing, cheating can be right under certain circumstances. In short, these are guilty sufferers, who are looking for ways to put unconscionable acts of cheating, stealing, incest etc in a favorable justifiable perspective.

it's their choice...maybe they want to start a discussion..maybe they are puzzled by some hard core...or maybe they are major in law or something...

We have to have standards in life to be able to judge others and ourselves to make relationships a meaningfull happy and productive existence. To be able to help and protect others has to be the purpose of living on this wonderfull word of ours. Have a great life from Deeeky.

I think they are just trying to make a discussion and they ask silly stuff like this. I hope they do know the answer already to all of those questions. I sure hope that they are really not seeking out the correct answer just because they do not know. Who knows with the way the world is today though?

People who are wrong may have the tendency to confirm whether they are right in doing wrong.