OMG! Am I a "Flip Flopper"?????!!!!

United States
April 2, 2008 11:42am CST
When Big Brother 9 started, I wasn't sure who my favorite was. I look back and remember liking Chelsia but as the game went on and her true colors came through, her points with me slowly diminished. Then there is wonderful, delusional Natalie who I disliked so much that I felt like jumping through my TV at her! And low and behold, I found myself feeling sorry for her after the endurance comp and then when James backdoored Matt. I even found myself cheering for her when she won HOH! So, am I crazy or what??? I may like her more now that Matt is gone and she can't act so pathetic. I look at her as someone who has been starved of love and attention growing up and now she is willing to do anything to get love and attention...hence the bj's and the endurance comp until puking...I thought that she was the most disgusting pig on the show and I still don't agree with her actions but she does wear her heart on her sleeve and doesn't seem to be mean spirited. I always liked James, except for when he went against his word and back doored Matt but after watching why he did it (Matt not admitting to voting against James coming back), I understood why he did it. I think that James and Natalie would be a true power alliance if they got together but I don't think that she feels that she can trust him. Sheila just needs to go...I like both Ryan and Adam but they need to step up and win more. I think that Ryan really dropped the ball on the POV comp. Sharon needs to drop the mother role and start playing for herself if she lasts this week. After she volunteered to go up versus having Josh go up last week, she almost deserves to go home! So, is it only me who has had several change of hearts throughout this game???
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@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
2 Apr 08
I have been flip flopped the entire season. Everyone at some point changed my mind. With Chelsia the stuff that she does sorry not my kind of person I would ever or even want as a friend. She had to go and thank you she is gone. James I don't care for. I for some reason can't stand him. I'm sick and tired of Shelia's whining and she needs to go. Sharon has to stop being the mother figure for Josh. I can't beleive she is throwing herself under the bus for him. And the water works last night on Josh?!?! Then suddenly "I don't have to go" and the water works stopped on a drop of a dimer? What was up with that? I like Ryan and Adam. Didn't care for Adam at the beginning but has shown me different. Ryan he reminds me so much of my fiance for some reason. Don't know why but he does. I don't like the fact that he is dating Jen. I don't like that woman and how she is he needs to move on and get a real girl. Well I think that I have bickered enough about the houseguests. LOL!
• United States
2 Apr 08
TOTALLY AGREE! Josh needs to go and Sharon needs to wake up and stop being so dam boring! lol...She does have some "behind the scenes" plays like when she told James that Matt definitely voted against him coming back into the house but other than that, she is so boring! I didn't like Adam either in the beginning but he has grown on me and I like him. Ryan seems like the genuine nice guy and yes he does deserve someone better than Jen. I just saw her old engagement pic with another guy on the Jokers updates website. She was just engaged not that long ago to another guy (her "college sweetheart")! I like Ryan a lot and I hope he goes far. James got on my nerves last night when he was whining about being alone in the house. How different it would have been if Chelsia won HOH and their side had the upper hand. Do you really think that he would have compassion if Natalie or Ryan were "alone in the game"?? Doubt it!! PS...your lucky to have a fiance like Ryan! He must be a great guy! ...I can't complain, cause I married a nice guy too!
• Canada
2 Apr 08
I hope that Josh does go tonight. Fingers crossed. Josh totally threw Sharon under the bus with that deal. I am happy that I got a guy like Ryan to say the least. My man looks so much like him too. I hope Ryan goes a far way in this game as well and he wakes up and kicks Jen to the curb. I can't stand her and he needs to leave her.
@michelyn (717)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I have loved Chelsia and James from day one. Still do although Chelsia is gone. She did exactly what she said she was going to do. She wanted to create some drama and go out with a bang and she did. I used to like Natalie a little bit in the VERY beginning, but her stalker approach with Matt and the constant running of her mouth with that annoying voice quickly killed that. And after tonight, she has absolutely NO right to be criticizing people for lying. She lied when they were trying to get Matt out the first time and she lied again tonight with making this deal with Josh and James and then went back on it. She really didn't have any reason to go back on the deal for tonight unlike James did with Matt. If Matt would have fessed up and admitted that he didn't vote James back in the house, then I have no doubt whatsoever that James would have lived up to him promise. Either Sheila or Natalie needs to go next, but with A-Baller winning HOH, I doubt it's going to happen. Sheila really needs to be kicked out. If anyone is playing this game, it's Sheila. She has backstabbed, lied, redirected, snaked and double-crossed her way through this game so far. Allison took the heat for the whole lesbian thing when it was originally Sheila's idea and this last thing she did with James was just horrible. Anyway, this is just my opinion
• Canada
3 Apr 08
OHHHHH I so agree with you. Sheila has got to go. She is driving me nutz from the lies to her fake voting ahhhh. The way she talks in the diary room drives me crazy lol its so fake and looks rehearsed. She hasn't won anything so far and the free ride has to stop at some point in the game so I hope it's this week. I am kinda hoping the house flip flops and its guys vs girls.
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 Apr 08
I have always liked Ryan and want him to win. Natalie I will say I like her better now that Matt is gone. she got on my nerves the way she carried on about "Matty". Adam, well what can I say about him, he is a little strange. I have mixed feelings about him, I don't dislike him but I don't like him alot neither. I am really glad that Josh is gone, I was not wanting that cocky rude guy to win. There have been a few times that he was nasty with some of the girls, that was uncalled for. Sharon has been flying under the radar, she will have top get busy with her "game". I am already looking for season 10 to start.
• Canada
3 Apr 08
Oh it's not just you LOL When the show starts we get favorites and sometime they leave so we have to pick new ones because the show just ain't good to watch if you don't have a favorite LOL and as you said in your post as the show goes on peoples true colors come out and we end up not liking certain people because they are just complete jerks or whatever reason we have. I myself really can't stand natalie she just drives me up the wall. Shes always talking behind someones back and getting the house riled up. I don't think she should have told sharon about Josh. Sharon would have found out, eventually, what kind of a backstabbing man he is but at the same time that is the game and you can't expect people not to campaign for themselves. I loved Chelsia and James and now my fav is James. They were the cutest couple. Chelsia may have acted like a crazy but in my opinion she had every right to act the way she did. Anywhoo just my two cents
@minnie_98214 (10557)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I have done the same thing thru the season. I have decided I just dont like any of them lol. At this point im rooting for Ryan but that could change. Ryan has kinda stayed under the radar as of lately and I like that. Hes still playing the game just not so obvious.
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
15 Apr 08
I think it's only natural to change your mind as you watch. It's just life and it shows that you are really being a real person and not being stubborn! if you were to say you always liked chelsea and she was ALWAYS perfect, I'd say you were being stubborn. But by considering changing events, and changing your opinion, that's what you should do :) Anyway, at the start it's always easy to form an opinion based on looks/first meeting, but it's hard to be able to change your mind when you learn new things. For the record, Chelsea annoyed me from day one with that uneven haircut :-D I thought James was a nutcase but I now think there are more sides to him - although still wouldn't want to be friends with him.
@starr4all (2863)
2 Apr 08
I was earlier on but not now. I want james or josh to win. If not them then Adam, Ryan, Sheila, Sharon, and then Natalie in that order. The biggest person I've flip flopped constantly about is natalie. I went from liking her, to feeling sorry for her to now very much disliking her. Some of the other people I vary from but mainly dislike her. I hope sharon goes home. I don't want a floater to win.
@patgalca (18181)
• Orangeville, Ontario
3 Apr 08
I have been flip-flopping this season too. My kids aren't the same way though. They are determined to like James and Joshuah. I used to like them both too but they have both been explosive in this house and I have actually grown to like Natalie now that Matt is gone. She also made it clear after Chelsia left that she has been playing dumb all along, and I believe her. She is working this game good right now. I think Ryan and Sharon are the only two who haven't pissed anyone off in this game and I have been cheering for Ryan right from the beginning, but I'd like to see a girl win it this year. Does pissing people off by going on a major rampage give you points towards winning this game? It seems to. I don't like it. I prefer the people who can play this game without being nasty. James not only went back on his word with Natalie about not putting Matt on the block, he went bullistic with Sheila the other day. Get a grip, people. It's only a game. Glad to see Josh leaving tonight. Sorry.
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I flip flop all season too! I started not knowing who I liked either. I then really liked Chelsia~ but I think it was because I loved her haircut:) I never cared for Sheila~ she is useless. James is a moron~ he needs to shave off his mohawk and get some shorts that Richard Simons didn't give him. Adam and Ryan are ok~ they both play under the radar. I'd love to see Josh go since he is trying to get a tie so that Sharon will go. Natalie is just nutso! She keeps doing things for her soulmate Matty!! Get over him, he didn't even like her!
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I still want James to win. But, I have had wavering opinions on almost everyone in the game. I hated Amanda, then I liked her just in time to see her gone the next day. I disliked Alex even after he left but, like him better now that he is gone. I always hated Matt so, he is one of the few people I have never wavered on. I have never wavered on Sheila. I can't recall ever liking that moron. Josh...liked him, liked him more, liked him less, like him a little, liked him somewhat less, liked him the tiniest bit more...not sure what I think about him now. LOL! Chelsia...oh geez! Where does my heart fall for her? I liked her, loved her, she lost some points and now...I can't decide. I think she has a lot of growing up to do but, didn't we all in our 20's? LOL! Adam defies description. I disliked him, liked him a little tiny bit, saw all the things his family had to say about him and liked him a little bit more, read that he believes what the Bible says about women being unclean during that time of the month and disliked him...but, now, I neither hate nor like him. He may be this years Zack for me. I disliked Zack until about the midway point last year. Then I rooted for him against Dani and ED. So, we'll see how far he gets and I will re-evaluate then. Ryan...I can't decide on him. I like that he is the most mature person in the house but, don't like him sometimes either. Again...if he makes it farther than James, I will re-evaluate him later if I have to. Sharon...like her, hate her! I like that she can play this game without being mean to people. I hate that she is not actually playing the game. Allison...nope! Never wavered on her! I hated her! We'll leave Jen, Parker, Neil and Jacob out since I didn't get to know enough about their personalities. Except, I can say I hated Jen and wasn't entirely loving towards Parker. The other two...I don't know about. Natalie...I do feel for her sometimes. She does seem to have a good heart. But, that God stuff has got to stop. And, anyone who judges the crap out of people whose behavior, sexually speaking, is no worse than hers in the house, gets no love from me. She has lied almost every day since she was called out for her BJ's with Matt. She says she only kissed him, and in the next breath, she calls Chelsia out for her sexuality in the house. Shut up! Stop hiding behind your Bible! You are no better than her! So, I pretty much hate her. I am can see that she can be a sweetheart but, being a liar does not make a friend out of me. James has pushed my buttons...especially lately. But, I still want him to win. He is playing the game the way it is meant to be played. He could lose the attitude and the cockiness. But, he is playing hard to win and that is exactly how he should be playing.
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
2 Apr 08
Hi AmyKay618! I'm like you and have been going back and forth too, but i've always liked Nat and she is a great player and i think it would be great if her and James do go to the end together..even though James is playing everyone..so we will see. Tonight i think Sharon might go home (sequester) since more have aliances with josh..can't wait to see tonight