Is it wrong when MEN cry?

@rinaaus (1203)
Australia
April 7, 2008 7:26pm CST
Our customs said that Tears of men are diamond, that's why they hardly cry. What do you think?
8 responses
@subha12 (18452)
• India
8 Apr 08
i think no. men also can show their emotion. I think men themselves make it an untold rule by not showing the tears, But i do not see anything wrong in it.
@rinaaus (1203)
• Australia
8 Apr 08
so they cry inside not outside :)
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
8 Apr 08
i think theres nothing wrong a man crying , i dont cry that often over anything i mean if a man is crying over everything than umm thats sort of a problem lol ..but i yeah its sorta has to deal with that ego issue of what a man is , strong and cold hearted like a wall...so if men cry , they feel less like a man , ...i dont care how much a man you are , say if your a guy and you get hit in the jewls , stubb your pinky toe , and get slapped really hard ..oh best to beleive your going to cry lol but still doesnt make you less of a man
@rinaaus (1203)
• Australia
8 Apr 08
agree...
@Esoteric1 (866)
• Canada
8 Apr 08
nah it's perfectly natural for men to cry, we are all humans, we all have hopes and fears, we all have people we care about. If something makes us cry i would guess we generally feel better afterwards so it's served it's function. I only would think it was a problem if the man cried all the time for any little thing, though i'd say the same if it were a woman.
@rinaaus (1203)
• Australia
8 Apr 08
Does men cry for a reason?
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
8 Apr 08
I don't think it is wrong at all for men to cry. We are all human and crying is a natural thing for every one of us to do. It doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman, kid, or an adult. Crying should be accepted within all of us.
@rinaaus (1203)
• Australia
8 Apr 08
I think that men are strong, so crying is the weak thing. That's why they try to avoid crying.
@jesbellaine (4155)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
I don't believe in that. For me, a loving and best man really cries for he shows his emotion to the one he really loves. It also make us, women, understand their feelings and see that they are true.
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
People tend to cry to release emotions. I don't see anything wrong if men cry. For me it's better to cry than to hold your guilt or emotions onto yourself as they say holding your emotions may cause you heart problem. So why cover up? If you can cry. Nobody will convict you if you do cry.
@plumwish07 (4059)
• Indonesia
10 Apr 08
hm, actually in my opinion its normal if men crying for sometimes cause they are also human being and have feeling also emotion. but in those words, the meaning that tears of men are diamond, cause men hardly crying cause they are not too sensitive as like women. they able to manage their emotion very well than women. so if there is something that able to made men cried, it means those kind thing could be hurting much his dignity or already touching enough in their heart. thats why saying their tears like diamond cause it seldoms to flow out not as like women. thats my opinion, dear
@lynnchua (3416)
• Singapore
8 Apr 08
I think its alright for men to cry. They are human after all.