What first impression do you hope others recieve from you?

I have such a hard time with how people perceive me when they first lay eyes on me. I always get judged no matter what. I am judged on just about everything I do in my life. People judge me before they knwo who I am and what I am worth in life. I wish they would just give me a chance. I want them to know they have a good-hearted person here who loves and cares about everyone and would always be there if they needed me. I always get used and put down by others though. I think they look at me like a doormat. I wish they would see that I am intelligent, kind and have a soft heart.

I would like to think that people find me approachable and easy to get along with. I am usually pretty amenable and hope that people see me in that light.

I would like to think that the first impression people get of me is that I am intelligent, friendly, warm and approachable. I think it is difficult though to really know what others think of us and what they actually think may be quite different to what we expect or hope they think.

Well I would prefer the first impression I make to be that I am nice and down to earth. Then after that later on they could realize that I am smart, a little funny, somewhat outgoing, easy to talk to and understanding.