Kiss or hand shake?

@lynboobsy11 (11343)
Philippines
April 12, 2008 10:17am CST
When you saw one of your friends or someone you been known before how do you great them? Do you kiss them or do you do the handshake? Me it depends on the friends or someone I knew before, if she is a long lost best friend of mine maybe not only a kiss also with a hug to. But most of my friends when we saw each other we great as a kiss. And handshake who not been to much close specially with guys.
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16 responses
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
27 Aug 08
I mainly say ho to them only. sometimes I will give them a hug but I never go up to them and kiss them. My husband used to do that all of the time when we first met. that got on my nerves when he was doing it to everyone we came in contact with that we knew. I mean the girls only.
@kalass (611)
• India
15 Apr 08
depending on my friend it would be a handshake or a hug. It would never be a kiss for sure.
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
14 Apr 08
we kiss on the cheek if it's a girl but if t's a guy , we shake hands or hug each other.
• India
14 Apr 08
Mostly i greet my friends with a handshake only, as it happens to be the Custom here in my country... Some times it differ from region to region,,.. Yeah.. i mean region and not religion.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
14 Apr 08
how i wish to be one of your close friend so i can get a kiss from you! joke! with family members we all kiss on cheeks but for friends a shake hands and hug is enough![em]happy[/em
13 Apr 08
Shake hands if it's someone your not close too. If it's a family member or very close friend then a kiss, only on the cheek though like the continentals.
@pillusch (1147)
• Mexico
13 Apr 08
I don't like this weird custom of kissing everybody just because I know them and am, through family or work, faintly aqcainted with them. It is a custom very popular all over the world, but it is, in historical terms, a new social behaviour that started around in the 70's. The French have been doing it for centuries, and they kiss on both cheeks, but their faces don't actually seem to touch. I personal prefer a little more formality and distnce.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
12 Apr 08
Well, I hug my friends but rarely, giving them a kiss. I only offer handshake to people I have just met or to my not so close friends.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
13 Apr 08
Nasmte to all - Another form of handshake
Dear friend,As I am from India in our culture usually our ancestors used to greet by giving a "Namaste". The gesture Namaste represents the belief that there is a Divine spark within each of us that is located in the heart. The gesture is an acknowledgment of the soul in one by the soul in another. "Nama" means bow, "as" means I, and "te" means you. Therefore, Namaste literally means "bow me you" or "I bow to you." Later most of us gives a shake hand kiss is very less. Hope each country has their own ways like the Japanes Bow, the put palm and fist together in one hand and bow, so on goes the ways as each country culture changes. But hope most often it is handshake is seen mostly.
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
Hi lynboobsy11! I usually greet my close friends with a slight peck on the cheek and to those I am really that close especially with men, a simple handshake or hello will do. Just my thoughts dear! Take care and have a nice day! :)
@myanime (434)
12 Apr 08
hand shake... sometime smile is more comfortable or just say hi.... I don't like kissing people... A hug when meeting my long lost friend but not kiss...
@FiveZhuo (156)
• China
12 Apr 08
a kiss for my girlfriend or mohter, a bug for my long lost friends.a smile for my no so close friends, handshake or 'hi' for my new friends.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
if it comes on my girl friends, we usually kiss (on cheek) each other while on guys we don't hand shake, we just greet each other with a "hey"
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
12 Apr 08
Most of the time, I embrace them when seeing them. I only do the handshake if they will introduce me with someone they are with at that moment. The handshake is more of a formality gestures to me hehe. Kissing them? SOmetimes, I do the "cheek to cheek" (beso beso)kiss but I rarely do that.
@jess368 (3368)
• United States
12 Apr 08
I very rarely use the handshake method. Only when I meet a new customer at the bar. With my friends, I normally give them a hug (if they are close friends, or if I have not seen them in a long time) Otherwise, I just great friends with a, "hey there" or something of that matter. I only great my boyfriend with a kiss. Oh and my grandpa.
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
12 Apr 08
well it depends really,if its a female who have been very close and she is alone,a kiss on the cheek and a big hug is not bad at all but if she is with a man a light hug will do,but for a male all the hugs handshakes and a loud "hey"does all the maguic for me,but we must be really close