Never marked as best response?

Pakistan
April 15, 2008 12:27pm CST
i am here at my lot for a long time but still waiting so that some one mark me as best response and how many times u got the best response mark?
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
24 Apr 08
Hello atifshahzad1!:-) I am sorry that you are not marked for best respnse as yet, even when you are here for around 2 years. I see that you not that active either. But, don't feel disheartened over it. Not all people mark best response based on quality of responses. Some give it only to their friends, some give it one among those who responded in first day or within first 10 responses. Few give it to even first responders. So, if you haven't got a best response, it doesn't necessarily mean your responses aren't good. I hope that you already know it but still it may help some others. Try to be as relevant as possible to discussion and offer the best possible solution if there is a problem. Try to be balanced in your responses, and consider different options, if it is about opinions. Speak your heart in a way to communicate with best of your abilities. I hope you get many best responses on your way. But, if you don't, do not feel dishearten at all, cherish the friendship which is no less than a blessing and more important than being marked as best response!:-)
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• Pakistan
24 Apr 08
so nice of u for ur nice and comprehensivve response to my discussion and i guess u will be marked as best response very soon. thanks a lot and i shall try to be as avtive as i can and also smart. thanks a lot once again
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• Pakistan
26 Apr 08
u are welcome dear and thanks for responding here again.
@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
25 Apr 08
You are most welcome, atifshahzad1. And, thanks for the best response. I hope you will get many as you go forward with your positive and intelligent contributions! :-)
@gabrielle47 (1219)
• Philippines
20 Apr 08
I know the feeling of being here in myLot and posting wuality responses yet not getting a best response for quite sometime. It took me more than a month when I recieved my best response and I was so thrilled and really boosted my self confidence that I am helping out people here in myLot. I guess some people forget to look back and rate the best response and now its coming to my second month and I still have not gotten a best response lately also. It will in time. Just enjoy myLot and keep posting. « Gab »
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• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
yes it naturally make u more enthusiastic and thrilling. i am here for a long time but still not a best response . thanks a lot for ur nice response here at my discussion.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
20 Apr 08
Well i believe as long as you use your heart to answer the discussion , one day you will be crown the best respond yea , so do work hard , i do have a few best respond yea .
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• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
u want to say that it is the combination of heart and mind altoigether. thaks a lot for ur nice response here.
• United States
16 Apr 08
best response usually go to someone who is popular and is very interesting to the person who rates them...they are verbose and not brief in stature..a brief one or two lines will not get you a best response as people judge by careful and thoughtful answers and they like to see good grammar and spelling but that is just my thoughts but I got several best responses so you can take this for what it is worth...
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• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
yes i know it is short and not lengthy answer is marked as best response. but i am trying it. thanks a lot for ur ncie response here.
@sirnose (2436)
• United States
16 Apr 08
I guess you have to be the first to response to others posts and if they like your response they might just hit that plus sign for your response.I did that monday when someone responsed to my post about reaching 100 posts,they were the first to response and I like what they had to say.Just keep on trying to be the first responser and you just might get that best response.P.S...So far,I only have two best responses.
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• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
i ahve also jusdged it and i also try to be first one but i think it is not fair we have to look our 10 or more discussions then decide who is the best responser. thanks a lot for ur time here at my discussion.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
17 Apr 08
i guess i only have my 2 best response since i joined here in mylot
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• Pakistan
20 Apr 08
u are lucky to be marked as best response for 2 times and i am still wating dear. thanks a lot for ur nie response here.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
16 Apr 08
Well, it depends on what people are looking for. I don't always get chosen as the Best Response every time either. I am sure there are people who get chosen more often than I do. But what I look for when I choose someone in one of my discussions for Best Response, is quality. If there answer is what catches my eye, and appears to tend to my discussion I have started then it stands a better chance. And that person does not need to be on my friends list either. A quality response is usually a response 3-4 lines long at least that best pertains to the Subject the discussion is about and also talks to the person starting the discussion letting them know how you really feel. This in turn helps you also Earn more here as well. Hope this is of some help for you, and Wishing you the best.
• Pakistan
16 Apr 08
u are right i always try to be so but i think my response is not up to the standards then. but i am trying ny best to do so. so u pray for me. thanks a lot. Muhammad Atif atifshahzad1@yahoo.com
• United States
16 Apr 08
same here. I try to respond to a lot of discussions, but I will not rush through and give a crappy response, I will try to make it a good response. Sadly, I have never received a "best response".
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• Pakistan
16 Apr 08
i know there are lot of people who are suffering from the same but then what we have to do?
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
24 Apr 08
Please do not feel dishearted or disappointed. More you write here on mylot, more experience you would again about posting quality responses. You also need to interact with experienced and senior friends here on mylot and just see how they write, when they are awarded best responses. Take some clue from their responses, hope you will succeed. Best of Luck!
• Pakistan
16 Apr 08
:) i never thought of that before!now i'll surely be looking forward to it
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• Pakistan
16 Apr 08
i think u are new here and i welcome u here and u will see and learn a lot here. and Best response is the first thing which u learn i think so. thanks a lot for ur ncie respomnse here.
@mayka123 (16583)
• India
11 Jun 08
Till date I have twice got marked for best response. But for one of them I was the only one who replied. So I was not too happy about it.
@madlees (1377)
• India
16 Apr 08
Till now I have been here for three months and I have 28 best responses. I usually answer for the question's sake and not for the earning's sake. I always study the query and try to answer as much as I can, to satisfy the querer. I only answer the discussions which I like to answer, otherwise I just leave them.. There is no point in answering the queries in one or two lines, not only mylot I also don't like that. All the best, dear Just follow my methods and see you'll also get your responses marked best.
• Pakistan
16 Apr 08
Thanks a lot for ur ncie advise and here i will try this. and u are so lucky that u have been marked as best response for so many times. Best wishes to u. Thanks once again.
• United States
26 Apr 08
dont feel too bad you know I have never gotten one but just learned that I could do it and began using that feature but before I just looked right over it and maybe thats what others are doing that are newer as for the older users I just do not know.
• United States
26 Apr 08
i do think having consistent 'mylot friends' helps because you share more interest