be positive Be postive every body say that...........................

@lovenluck (1068)
India
April 25, 2008 6:52am CST
When things go wrong every one tells you be positive be positive but is it really possible to be positive after incurring a huge loss in business or after lossing someone you really love. I true give advice to my friends but when the real testing time came few months back I just could not stop my self from crying. Why is htat it is easy to give advice but hard to execute it
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@Wario_1 (965)
• Sweden
25 Apr 08
I think that some stuff are really really hard to understand untill your in that situation. I try to be positive but sometimes i really need to get pissed off at stuff, its better to vent your anger/frustration than lock it inside. An example, its very hard to understand what orphans have gone throught if you havent experienced something similar. Sadly i have, lost my father when i was around 9 or 10, so i understand how it is to lose a parent. I feel that instead of saying that someone should cheer up, you could offer to support them in any way that they would need, i promise that often that helps one million times more.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
25 Apr 08
that is really true you fail to understand the situation unless and until you face it thats what happened to me but now i have experience to back me up and I alwsy try to cheer people up even in their worst phase of life because That was what I wanted but i had no one beside me.