can you accept that love?

It's really hard to tell.. Me? I'm a greedy person when it comes to love.. I only want the one I'm with to only love me, because, I can not accept the fact that he loves somebody else aside from me!!! That's really painful! That's unfair, for me!

it is better to set them free

If so, that he won't be my boyfriend. I can't stand that my boyfriend loves another one. I will breakup with him and let it be. I don't care which one he will love after that. I love China

No matter whether I can accept it or not ,the truth is ,he do not have love on me anymore....So why not think it over...I am not kind hearted and can apologize them as a ordinary one do,but after all ,set them free is the only choice.

I cann't accept! I was cheated by my best friend one year ago.it's painful.If my boyfriend don't love me ,I will give up.

it is hard to accept but what you can do?you cant stop them from seeing each other or to stop them from loving each other. Men are a quite a creature, when they cant get it, they strikes to get it...

Well if i really love her then maybe i could forgive it or else i will break up yea

i think it will be difficult to accept love of this kind. no i wont accept. its better to break up then.

it's painful for, and i can't accept that because it's not fair.. why my best friend? they will kill me for that way..they will hurt my feelings..i can accept if my ex-bf will love others not my best friend.. thats really unfair..and i will not accept my friend if she will go with my ex..she's crazy doing that..i will hate her...

I would have to accept that love or attraction. What am I going to do about it? Force him to love me? I cannot think of anything worse than to try to hang on to someone who doesn't wish to be with me - a constant second best. There really is nothing great in being second best and trying to live with that. There is always someone else for us if we believe in ourselves, love ourselves and are patient. People come into our lives to help us on our journey. They will always teach us something, whether it is good or bad. It all helps in our development as we go on our individual ways. However, while many people can accept that someone can easily fall in love with them, their fear of rejection and low self-esteem prevent them from recognising that their lovers can fall in love with someone else too. Falling in love is not a forever activity. It is for the moment. Then when the two strangers have a chance to get to know each other properly, that initial love/lust will either die away altogether because there is not enough emotional, physical or intellectual feelings between the couple to sustain it, or it will thrive and become much longer lasting ending up in a long-term relationship. When we love ourselves we are in a better position to accept rejection, to accept that the other person might not want us anymore. But when we lack self-love, we expect others to compensate for that lack by loving us instead. Soon we become unattractive because of that expectation as the relationship becomes clingy and claustrophobic. We probably become distrustful, interfering, invading their space and watching their every move. The friendship gradually loses its joy and then the other person wants out. The best way to attract others is to begin to love ourselves. To appreciate ourselves and to respect ourselves. We then have people on mutual terms, not just theirs. The first law of respect says: When someone comes into my life, he comes in freely and we both have the right to be with each other, if we so wish. Equally, when the feelings are no longer there on either side, it is also our right to terminate the friendship, freely, and move on, no problems. That's a part of growing up. Just because I might feel sad or rejected when that person doesn't love me anymore, does not give me the right to curtail his movements, to demand that he stays with me or to refuse to accept his actions. That's not the action of a fully mature adult. Jealousy, revenge or vindictiveness are not attractive qualities. Just as he has found someone else, if I truly love and value myself I will realise that, in time, I too will find someone. He is not the only man available. It might be doubly hurtful because the new woman is my best friend. But it shows what kind of guy he is too, which makes it good that I have found out earlier rather than later who I am dealing with. Whenever you might doubt what to do in such a situation, ask yourself this important question: If YOU fell in love with someone else, regardless of who they are, would you expect your boyfriend to accept it fully, or to keep hanging on to you? Your reply would be the right answer for you.

First, if she loves someone else that means she dont love me, i think let her go because the love is not yours. If she was in a relation with me and then left me that means i was not the right person for her. may be not happy with me and she got a better partner. enjoy:)

yes,maybe I'll accept it ,because you know,it proves that he or she is not the right person ,and you'd better not to be upset ,actually ,maybe it's a good news for us ! so come on ~~

Yes I can accept it. Loving someone who does not love you is painful. I have been in that situation. There is a saying. If you love someone let them go, if they love you they will come back if not then move on. I loved someone once so much and I wanted him to love me but it did not happen. I spent so much time trying to figure out what would make him love me so I could change but all it gave me was pain. You can go on giving love to someone but if you get none back it just drains you and causes pain and misery. It took a couple of years after I let go but I found someone else who loves me as much as I love him and now I am happy.

nope not at all. espically the best friend part. I think its just morally wrong to even date your best firends boyfriend/husband even if you have feelings for him its just morally wrong. I'd knock both their heads off! lol sorry.